ok so theres this guy i like.. and we always joke around.
and he blushes whenever i talk to him(: hes only in one
class of mine; science.. and he sits really close to me
and we always talk. %26amp;+ he is polite around me.. like he
asked me to hand in has paper; i said yes; and he said
thankyou.. which he never does. So do you think that he
might like me? because i like him sooo very very much.
thanks..Guys please answer. i need your advice big time.. :/?
yea you have a chance :DGuys please answer. i need your advice big time.. :/?
the paper thing means NOTHING. really, you ahve to get over that sorry. and guys are supposed to be polite. lol
i do think he likes you a bit. keep flirting, just give it time.
Does he have a freckles and a Bluetooth?
Anyways, he does like you, but he must not like you enough if he didn't ask how often you masturbate.
He definitely likes you, try flirting with him.
Friday, April 30, 2010
I have a problem.. i get over guys WAY too fast. advice?
i guess in a way its a good thing... but its pretty stupid... id like a guy, and when i start feeling like its never going to work out... i give up and get over it. its stupid cuz then soemtimes i learn the guy liked me, but by the time he has guts to ask me out, i stop liking him, and I start liking someone else.
so when he does ask me... i always sayy no. i would never say yes, if i didn't honestly like the person.
so now i like this guy, and hes amazing.. but now i feel guilty for sort of leading on the last guy.
i think he still thinks i like him, but i dont. so i don't want to get his hopes up, but how do i break it to him gently?
I have a problem.. i get over guys WAY too fast. advice?
rabbitI have a problem.. i get over guys WAY too fast. advice?
Don't worry I am sure we have all gone through this faze in our lives.
When the right one comes along you will know because everything falls into place.
And you can't have to many friends. So why not be friends first and then see where it goes from there instead of jumping into a relationship.
omg ! you're like my twin!
im the same exact way! but i think of it as : that you'll meet this ione guy, this one very special perosn that you wanna spend the rest of your life with and your feelings willl never chnage for him no mtter what happens.
i can p[icture this niow: you're telling a joke and then he laughs. you say: ah... your a good friend, your my buddy
too obvious? then just say your a good friend lol
hope i helped!
uhm honestly i think your lucky because i dont qet over quys quickly . it takes me a LONG time even tho it may never work out . and about the quy your leadinq on . . well just say that you quys are better of friends , because thats all you see him as . somethinq like that . and qo for the boy you likee . =]
let me guess: you are still in high school.
your problem is not a problem.
it is called being young and enjoying the freedom it grants. you aren't obligated to stick with anyone or become more involved than you feel like being. enjoy it!!!
If you keep whoring around, no guys are going to like you or ask you out, find a guy who treats you nice and marry him, that's my advice.
congrats you're a guy!
Me I just have one-night stands and in the morning I get the f*ck out her apartment! If she's at my place, I send her packing and never call her again!
It's friggin' great!
i think that's amazing how you get over guys quickly. i think i have a new hero.
yes in all honesty isa good thing because when it takes a long time toget over a guy it hurts soo bad
then maybe guys aren't your thing. Go for girls!!!!! ^ _ ^
so when he does ask me... i always sayy no. i would never say yes, if i didn't honestly like the person.
so now i like this guy, and hes amazing.. but now i feel guilty for sort of leading on the last guy.
i think he still thinks i like him, but i dont. so i don't want to get his hopes up, but how do i break it to him gently?
I have a problem.. i get over guys WAY too fast. advice?
rabbitI have a problem.. i get over guys WAY too fast. advice?
Don't worry I am sure we have all gone through this faze in our lives.
When the right one comes along you will know because everything falls into place.
And you can't have to many friends. So why not be friends first and then see where it goes from there instead of jumping into a relationship.
omg ! you're like my twin!
im the same exact way! but i think of it as : that you'll meet this ione guy, this one very special perosn that you wanna spend the rest of your life with and your feelings willl never chnage for him no mtter what happens.
i can p[icture this niow: you're telling a joke and then he laughs. you say: ah... your a good friend, your my buddy
too obvious? then just say your a good friend lol
hope i helped!
uhm honestly i think your lucky because i dont qet over quys quickly . it takes me a LONG time even tho it may never work out . and about the quy your leadinq on . . well just say that you quys are better of friends , because thats all you see him as . somethinq like that . and qo for the boy you likee . =]
let me guess: you are still in high school.
your problem is not a problem.
it is called being young and enjoying the freedom it grants. you aren't obligated to stick with anyone or become more involved than you feel like being. enjoy it!!!
If you keep whoring around, no guys are going to like you or ask you out, find a guy who treats you nice and marry him, that's my advice.
congrats you're a guy!
Me I just have one-night stands and in the morning I get the f*ck out her apartment! If she's at my place, I send her packing and never call her again!
It's friggin' great!
i think that's amazing how you get over guys quickly. i think i have a new hero.
yes in all honesty isa good thing because when it takes a long time toget over a guy it hurts soo bad
then maybe guys aren't your thing. Go for girls!!!!! ^ _ ^
On line dating advice (for a girl) guys are invited?
so this guy got my attention and really like him ( his profile) he flirted with me i flirted with him, sent me an email, i respoded to his email. but then he came online 2 days checked my profile but did not send me an instant msg, so today i came online, and saw that he was there for 8 mn and even checked if i was on line ( the system shows who checked u and when) so i waited 2 mn and i sent him instant msg we talked about the weather and what i do and then he just wanted to go. is he intrested, is he playing a game how should i deal with him is he very reserved??? what do u thinkOn line dating advice (for a girl) guys are invited?
Maybe he already has someone and was feeling guilty about the previous flirting. That happens a lot. Don't stress yourself over an online chat. Too much deceit happens online. People can say anything, and put up pictures of anyone in order to lure you. Don't invest that much time and effort trying to find ';the One'; online. It happens, but very, very rarely. Most of the time, when they end up meeting each other, they find out that the reality is much different from what they anticipated.
Try joining some clubs or organizations that interest you. You will find that you will meet people that have much more in common with you.On line dating advice (for a girl) guys are invited?
I think that you should just stop checking to see if he's interested and just ask him instead...
Its next to impossible to know if someone likes your online because you can't see a person's body languages. It depends he probably thinks this not going anywhere since online flings can only go as high as cyber sex if your far apart.
Don't do it - the best advice.face cosmetics
Maybe he already has someone and was feeling guilty about the previous flirting. That happens a lot. Don't stress yourself over an online chat. Too much deceit happens online. People can say anything, and put up pictures of anyone in order to lure you. Don't invest that much time and effort trying to find ';the One'; online. It happens, but very, very rarely. Most of the time, when they end up meeting each other, they find out that the reality is much different from what they anticipated.
Try joining some clubs or organizations that interest you. You will find that you will meet people that have much more in common with you.On line dating advice (for a girl) guys are invited?
I think that you should just stop checking to see if he's interested and just ask him instead...
Its next to impossible to know if someone likes your online because you can't see a person's body languages. It depends he probably thinks this not going anywhere since online flings can only go as high as cyber sex if your far apart.
Don't do it - the best advice.
How should I save this situation? PLEASE guys, I need good advice?
ok i got this girl's number off msn. she is my primary sch m8 btw. After 2 days, I sent her a message telling her it's me and she didnt reply. So I waited for a couple of days and sent her another msg, asking whether it's her. She replied Yes. I sent another msg telling her that I guess she didnt receive my msg I sent few days back and told her its me again. She's not replying. What's wrong with her?
I got the number from her. Based on what happened, should i still call her? I thought a text msg won't hurt. I was actually planning a few text msges and a call after those. However, the situation seems dead now. Any more tips? I would appreciate all of it. Thanks guys.How should I save this situation? PLEASE guys, I need good advice?
I am a girl and I undrestand them%26gt;in thus situation you';d better call and propose your text msg through call%26gt;
good luckHow should I save this situation? PLEASE guys, I need good advice?
Just be cool and leave it.
You've been a gentleman, it's up to her to show a bit of courtesy. Don't sweat over it.
It appears that she doesn't want to be with you, maybe because you were primary friends i dont know. Since she isn't replying to you often, and giving you vague comments when she does. Don't take my word for it, but i think you should just forget about her since she obviously doesn't care about it all.
I got the number from her. Based on what happened, should i still call her? I thought a text msg won't hurt. I was actually planning a few text msges and a call after those. However, the situation seems dead now. Any more tips? I would appreciate all of it. Thanks guys.How should I save this situation? PLEASE guys, I need good advice?
I am a girl and I undrestand them%26gt;in thus situation you';d better call and propose your text msg through call%26gt;
good luckHow should I save this situation? PLEASE guys, I need good advice?
Just be cool and leave it.
You've been a gentleman, it's up to her to show a bit of courtesy. Don't sweat over it.
It appears that she doesn't want to be with you, maybe because you were primary friends i dont know. Since she isn't replying to you often, and giving you vague comments when she does. Don't take my word for it, but i think you should just forget about her since she obviously doesn't care about it all.
Is the advice of women to guy to ';be yourself'; misguided in some ways?
Considering that a woman has a far greater chance of finding a mate being herself (say shy and quiet) then a man with the same characteristics? Isn't it more true that women as a whole look for some general characteristics that if a man does not possess naturally, will severely hinder him in dating, unless he ';becomes something he's not?';Is the advice of women to guy to ';be yourself'; misguided in some ways?
I have never read anything so right-on!Is the advice of women to guy to ';be yourself'; misguided in some ways?
Absolutely. The simple advice ';just be yourself'; is misguided to just about anyone - it's an eloquent way of advising someone to stagnate and reject all ideas of self-improvement.
Generally, telling someone to 'be themselves' is advising them not to socially experiment in certain situations - which can sometimes be good advice (pretend to be more outgoing than you're really comfortable with at a bar, for instance, and you might end up with someone who likes who you pretended to be one night more than who you are).
But generally speaking, being content with oneself and expecting others to adjust to one's flaws is bad long-term advice.
no i disagree. there is somebody for everybody. for both genders, the shy and quiet people have a harder time finding someone because they dont open up enough for people to get to know them. you just think that women have it easier because you are a guy and you can find shy/quiet women cute. well im a girl and i think shy and quiet guys are cute too:) being yourself is just that and someone will find that special.
it depends on if the person in question is looking for a long term relationship or not,if there just looking for a one night stand ';be yourself'; might not matter,in regards to a long term relationship however ';be yourself'; is a must considering it's a waste of time pretending your something your not for a lifetime
I have never taken advice from a woman about women. She will often tell you what she wants, not what most women want. In my experience, women desire different things at different stages in their life from a man. Her advice was misguided to say the least.
it's misguided in every way possible.
you want to get with the hot ladies? never listen to them. never look at them as human beings. just look at them as your play toys. i guar-ron-tee you that the ';nice guys'; NEVER get the good quality poosile.
31 years of being myself left me single.
totally..
I have never read anything so right-on!Is the advice of women to guy to ';be yourself'; misguided in some ways?
Absolutely. The simple advice ';just be yourself'; is misguided to just about anyone - it's an eloquent way of advising someone to stagnate and reject all ideas of self-improvement.
Generally, telling someone to 'be themselves' is advising them not to socially experiment in certain situations - which can sometimes be good advice (pretend to be more outgoing than you're really comfortable with at a bar, for instance, and you might end up with someone who likes who you pretended to be one night more than who you are).
But generally speaking, being content with oneself and expecting others to adjust to one's flaws is bad long-term advice.
no i disagree. there is somebody for everybody. for both genders, the shy and quiet people have a harder time finding someone because they dont open up enough for people to get to know them. you just think that women have it easier because you are a guy and you can find shy/quiet women cute. well im a girl and i think shy and quiet guys are cute too:) being yourself is just that and someone will find that special.
it depends on if the person in question is looking for a long term relationship or not,if there just looking for a one night stand ';be yourself'; might not matter,in regards to a long term relationship however ';be yourself'; is a must considering it's a waste of time pretending your something your not for a lifetime
I have never taken advice from a woman about women. She will often tell you what she wants, not what most women want. In my experience, women desire different things at different stages in their life from a man. Her advice was misguided to say the least.
it's misguided in every way possible.
you want to get with the hot ladies? never listen to them. never look at them as human beings. just look at them as your play toys. i guar-ron-tee you that the ';nice guys'; NEVER get the good quality poosile.
31 years of being myself left me single.
totally..
Please put me out of my misery - guys i need your advice?
I found someone I thought was 'the one' - I think he had similar ideas. If we'd gotten together, we'd likely have got serious. But a variety of things going on his life meant he was not in the place for a relationship and above all, he seemed terrified at the prospect of it. He's been in touch a couple of times since we stopped dating 6 months ago, acknowledging his behaviour, asking a load of questions, wanting to know what I'm up to and telling me to expect an invite to his upcoming party. On the other hand, he responds sporadically, if at all, to my emails. Now he's withdrawn again. I've done no chasing so far, just been reactive since he told me he didn't want to get involved. However irrational it may be, the whole thing is making me really unsetted and distracted and i can't move on. i'd like to email him only i'm not sure what to say, what tone to adopt etc. Could I say something to reverse the 'relationship' pressure he's feeling, get things into a more relaxed territory?Please put me out of my misery - guys i need your advice?
You won't believe how much time and effort you wasted once you look back. Do yourself a favor and move on.
Why is it that even though there are billions of people in the world somehow ';The One'; is almost always within a 30 mile radius? There is no such thing as, ';The One';. We are all just people who may or may not be compatible for each other. It's up to you to use your best judgment and find someone who is just as screwed up as you. JK You know what I mean.Please put me out of my misery - guys i need your advice?
my opinion as a guy is that you are his Plan C or Plan D. That's why things are so sporadic. he if can't get laid by girl A, he tries girl b, and so on. jmaybe he got to plan c and all of a sudden plan a calls back after all. that leaves girl b and c wondering. just my opinion
Don't waste your time. He is likely psuedo involved with someone else. If he was interested he would pursue you more. You are only setting yourself up for disappointment.
Why be with someone who won't have time to be with you? Let it go. He might be playing games, you never really know with guys, and you obviously aren't in his priorities. You'll find plenty of ';the one's';, and maybe if he really is ';the one'; it'll all fall into place, but don't waist your time waiting.
Why would you want to be with someone who is ';terrified'; of a relationship? You deserve better than that. Either a man is ready and open to a relationship or not. Wishy-washy, in the middle, not sure, sporadic,commitment phobic, game playing men are a huge waste of time. Move on, you will be better for it.
The answer depends on the type of relationship you are ready to have in this stage of your life. If you are still in the stage of your romantic life in which you aren't sure you're ready to settle down with one person, the way to regain the upper hand is to let him initiate further contact. However, if you have been around the block more than once and are tired of game-playing, you already know this scenario is irrelevant because you want someone who complements your life instead of providing distraction through a chase.
Get a life! Forget him and move on.
... what?
are u cheating or is he cheating? the point is that if u get caught cheating you might have another Chance wit him I'm not saying your not.you just might get back together again just give it some time OK
SophistiKate, you know that you deserve better so why are you pining after this guy who's not all that into you in the first place? Let him pursue you if he's interested. Don't settle for lukewarm attitude from a guy; look for flying sparks, electric fireworks, and not pop and fizzle. Stop swimming in that stagnant pond, go swim in the ocean.
Dear Ms. Kate,
I'm sorry your feelings are not being returned to you, as a member of this particular game I know how difficult it really can be.
Firstly - I would like to seperate in your head fantasy from reality. Remember that what could have been and what might have been didn't actually happen, and the fact is you don't know what would have happened if you did get together. Don't pretend to be able to see into another person's heart or head. It will get you into trouble.
Secondly - you should consider that he might not be where you are at this point in his life. You mention that he was ';the one'; which indicates to me your looking to get married and settle down. You also mentioned that he was really involved in his business and parties. He is also distant and withdrawn.
I don't think you should settle for someone who isn't showing the same level of interest or is not on the same page as you, be willing to look around, talk with several men until you find someone who shows the same level of interest and is at the same point in their lives.
Don't rush things, 20's is a good time to learn about others and what you really want. I personally know I want marry a girl who wants to stay at home taking on a majority of the child rearing while I work very hard to keep them fed, clothed, and lead them spiritually. I'm comfortable with the idea of being the only one bringing home the coffee and I want to find a girl who has those same values and is at the same point in her life.
I'm willing to wait (don't want to) but I'm willing to wait for that girl to come along and I'm not going to worry about the one's that aren't that person, though I always keep my options open ;).
Quick Recap: Let him go, find someone else.
Good Luck, I'll say a prayer for you!
Tetrall
Don't waste your time - lots of other fish in the sea.
if he's involved with his career.... what makes you think that he wants more to be involved with..??... chanel your efforts somewhere else and with someone else... you have the right to be as miserable or as happy as you want... choose the latter, move on.
You really need to distract yourself. Next time he emails you, don't answer right away. Let him figure out you have a life, and you're not holding your breath, waiting for him to scratch his butt. You may never get back together. But, if you do, you owe it to yourself to only get involved with him, if he's interested enough to persue you.
You won't believe how much time and effort you wasted once you look back. Do yourself a favor and move on.
Why is it that even though there are billions of people in the world somehow ';The One'; is almost always within a 30 mile radius? There is no such thing as, ';The One';. We are all just people who may or may not be compatible for each other. It's up to you to use your best judgment and find someone who is just as screwed up as you. JK You know what I mean.Please put me out of my misery - guys i need your advice?
my opinion as a guy is that you are his Plan C or Plan D. That's why things are so sporadic. he if can't get laid by girl A, he tries girl b, and so on. jmaybe he got to plan c and all of a sudden plan a calls back after all. that leaves girl b and c wondering. just my opinion
Don't waste your time. He is likely psuedo involved with someone else. If he was interested he would pursue you more. You are only setting yourself up for disappointment.
Why be with someone who won't have time to be with you? Let it go. He might be playing games, you never really know with guys, and you obviously aren't in his priorities. You'll find plenty of ';the one's';, and maybe if he really is ';the one'; it'll all fall into place, but don't waist your time waiting.
Why would you want to be with someone who is ';terrified'; of a relationship? You deserve better than that. Either a man is ready and open to a relationship or not. Wishy-washy, in the middle, not sure, sporadic,commitment phobic, game playing men are a huge waste of time. Move on, you will be better for it.
The answer depends on the type of relationship you are ready to have in this stage of your life. If you are still in the stage of your romantic life in which you aren't sure you're ready to settle down with one person, the way to regain the upper hand is to let him initiate further contact. However, if you have been around the block more than once and are tired of game-playing, you already know this scenario is irrelevant because you want someone who complements your life instead of providing distraction through a chase.
Get a life! Forget him and move on.
... what?
are u cheating or is he cheating? the point is that if u get caught cheating you might have another Chance wit him I'm not saying your not.you just might get back together again just give it some time OK
SophistiKate, you know that you deserve better so why are you pining after this guy who's not all that into you in the first place? Let him pursue you if he's interested. Don't settle for lukewarm attitude from a guy; look for flying sparks, electric fireworks, and not pop and fizzle. Stop swimming in that stagnant pond, go swim in the ocean.
Dear Ms. Kate,
I'm sorry your feelings are not being returned to you, as a member of this particular game I know how difficult it really can be.
Firstly - I would like to seperate in your head fantasy from reality. Remember that what could have been and what might have been didn't actually happen, and the fact is you don't know what would have happened if you did get together. Don't pretend to be able to see into another person's heart or head. It will get you into trouble.
Secondly - you should consider that he might not be where you are at this point in his life. You mention that he was ';the one'; which indicates to me your looking to get married and settle down. You also mentioned that he was really involved in his business and parties. He is also distant and withdrawn.
I don't think you should settle for someone who isn't showing the same level of interest or is not on the same page as you, be willing to look around, talk with several men until you find someone who shows the same level of interest and is at the same point in their lives.
Don't rush things, 20's is a good time to learn about others and what you really want. I personally know I want marry a girl who wants to stay at home taking on a majority of the child rearing while I work very hard to keep them fed, clothed, and lead them spiritually. I'm comfortable with the idea of being the only one bringing home the coffee and I want to find a girl who has those same values and is at the same point in her life.
I'm willing to wait (don't want to) but I'm willing to wait for that girl to come along and I'm not going to worry about the one's that aren't that person, though I always keep my options open ;).
Quick Recap: Let him go, find someone else.
Good Luck, I'll say a prayer for you!
Tetrall
Don't waste your time - lots of other fish in the sea.
if he's involved with his career.... what makes you think that he wants more to be involved with..??... chanel your efforts somewhere else and with someone else... you have the right to be as miserable or as happy as you want... choose the latter, move on.
You really need to distract yourself. Next time he emails you, don't answer right away. Let him figure out you have a life, and you're not holding your breath, waiting for him to scratch his butt. You may never get back together. But, if you do, you owe it to yourself to only get involved with him, if he's interested enough to persue you.
Please help, to girls and guys, give your best advice plz.?
Hey, I'm 15 years old and I know im going through the phase where you get pimples and acne and all that. However Ive looked up wat acne and pimples look like there way different. I have been fighting pimples and blackheads for years now! I tried everything from neutorgena to the last thing down the isle. They don't work to good at all and some guys at my school have no pimples, no blackheads, and no acne!!! hows that possible? Please help me get rid of these things!!! Its so embracing trying to ask gils out with this! and yeah there on my face, nose, and forehead.Please help, to girls and guys, give your best advice plz.?
Well what do you eat? It depends alot on that.
Eat more healthy, work out a bit, and it'll start going away
Also, try clearasil...it really works!, also when you shower try using hot water to wash your face also
Trust me, they'll go away soonPlease help, to girls and guys, give your best advice plz.?
All people have different genetic material, so different skin types and sensitivities.
First of all; if it bothers you a lot you should see a dermatologist, she will know what is best for your skin.
Besides, you should stay away from the greasy food, and take care of your face everyday without overdoing it.
Plus, you shouldn't touch your face during the day unless it's necessary.
Remember, seeing a doctor as soon as possible will also keep you away from the scars that pimples would leave after they vanish.
Proactive.
Duh :)
Well what do you eat? It depends alot on that.
Eat more healthy, work out a bit, and it'll start going away
Also, try clearasil...it really works!, also when you shower try using hot water to wash your face also
Trust me, they'll go away soonPlease help, to girls and guys, give your best advice plz.?
All people have different genetic material, so different skin types and sensitivities.
First of all; if it bothers you a lot you should see a dermatologist, she will know what is best for your skin.
Besides, you should stay away from the greasy food, and take care of your face everyday without overdoing it.
Plus, you shouldn't touch your face during the day unless it's necessary.
Remember, seeing a doctor as soon as possible will also keep you away from the scars that pimples would leave after they vanish.
Proactive.
Duh :)
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