HELP!!! GIRLS or GUYS I need your advice!!!!!!!!!!!!?

Im 20. Ive been seeing a girl (also 20) for two and a half months. A month ago I asked her to be my girlfriend and she said she wanted a relationship eventually with me but gets scared because of a bad experience in the past. She told me twice she wanted to take everything very slow. We have gotten close over this period. We talk every day and are together nearly everyday. We have pretty much acted like a couple (except sex). Since she hasnt ';officially'; agreed to be in a committed relationship with me yet, does this mean she could still be dating other people even though she told me she wanted a relationship but wanted to take it slow??HELP!!! GIRLS or GUYS I need your advice!!!!!!!!!!!!?
ok I think when she says I want to take it slow is, I dont want to have sex right away and stuff like that. Id act the same. Also i dont think that she would be dating anyone, because by saying ';taking it slow'; she already told you that she has a realashinship with you...just a slow one





I think she is smart, and that you shouldnt be forcing her to do anything she doesnt want to...that way she will start to trust you more and more, and like you more.





And you dont have to get that close yet, just talk to her take her on fun dates, and just dont force her in doing things she doesnt want to.....eventaully she will...=) GOOD LUCK!!HELP!!! GIRLS or GUYS I need your advice!!!!!!!!!!!!?
if you love her enought that you see her all the time like a couple, when would she have time to be with some one else. if she wants to take it slow then she means what she says. relax and don't be so paranoid
no. try to prove to her that the bads experience she experienced will not happen to her with u?
give her time. and be there to listen and talk about her feelings she needs to feel like she can trust you.
If she's taking it slow with you chances are she is with other people if there are any. Don't be paranoid.
If there's one thing I've learned, it's don't force anything onto her. Don't push for anything.. if you don't push, chances are she'll do it. I know it seems strange, but it's the truth. Let her take her time about it. If you do find out she's with someone else too, then you don't need her. Until she lets you down, don't doubt her.
my man hugh g....if you want it to work just listen to her and ';take it slowwww'; do not do anything stupid either
Yeah just talk to her about it and say if you don't trust me then you are being completely unfair and if you think I'm going to end up hurting you then you are only hurting yourself by not giving me a chance, tell her to grow up.
Sounds to me like you HAVE a relationship. And if it's worth anything at all to her then she should be more than willing to answer your questions. She's the only who can.
Do you know what the bad experience in the past is? If it's something that makes you think it would make someone want to take things slow..then go with it and take things slow. If it's not..I'd say she's probably still fishing..and her ';eventually'; means after she hasn't made sure there's someone else.
the best way to answer that question, man, is just to ask her...be straight up to her and find out. Killing urself over something you dont know wont solve anything.
When girls say that, it means exactly what she says. Most girls don't like to fool around with all guys. She means what she says. I think that she does not want a sexual relationship until she trusts you completely and believes that you won't hurt her like what happened in the past
no


her heart and soul are with u


but her brain isnt mature enough


yet


just wait a little longer


shell be ready to comitt
SHE COULD STILL BE DATING OTHER GUYS TO FIND HER MATCH.
i dont understand the question
see u love her ya so u need to trust her





n ';generally'; girls never do things like dating 2 pple at a time





u said u 2 r lik couples ya


so if u think u really feel something for her


just trust her


i dont think she would b dating some1 else





i think she loves u but is scared ..... n insecure 2

I like this guy! both shy about it? guys and girls, need ADVICE!?

There is a guy that i really like alot!!!!


The trouble is that we are in diffrent friend groups, and its really hard to try to get to know him, since my school is pretty clicky. When the new semester came i got more classes with him!! :)


well, i liked him for a year now and got tired of waiting for him to notice me. so i asked if he wanted to go to a movie w/ some of his friends and my friends( to make it casual)...sadly i forgot that his team he plays on had a game that same day i invited him,erg! a week later, no changes except he seems REAlly smilie and blushes alot around me, so a week past and today, one of his best friends (its a girl by the way)came up to me before class started, and ask who i liked and she guess him, and she asked why i liked him, u know just plain girl stuff and then when i told her she seemed to text someone, i think it was him...(not sure tho) so after i went to the next class(btw hes in that class) he kept smilin and looking at me, and im really shy with the guy i like and I dont know what to do????!!! im pretty confused....i really like him! what should i do now?? what would u do? we are both shy around each other, PLEASE ADVICE!I like this guy! both shy about it? guys and girls, need ADVICE!?
Haha go with the flow :D


Kinda flirt with him a little bit :)


Or you should go to one of his game :D


Guys like it when the ppl they like go watch them as I've been told ;)I like this guy! both shy about it? guys and girls, need ADVICE!?
try to ask him if he want to join you for lunch or go to join any clubs together. and have fun good luck!

ALL GIRLS AND GUYS I NEED BOYFRIEND ADVICE?

hay i need advice on my boyfriend. me and my boyfriend hooked up 4 day ago and we rilly didnt knw each other but anyway we stared dating the first day we meet and i rilly never had a boyfriend before so i dont knw much but thn the day after we hooked up we meet again and it waz only owr 2nd time meeting and all the sudin he kissed me thn he frenched kissed me and tht waz my frist kiss ever and he waz graping me and stuff (yea in a virgan) tht is y i am not use to it and thn he tryed to get me to go in his house and i said no and he kept baggin but i kept saying no and thn wen i got home i called him and said i think we r moving to fast and he said ok but i just want to knw do u think he is just tryin to hav sex and thts it and thn he will dump me or do u think he rilly wants to be wit me and i am dating my wit out me parents knwing cuz i aint allowed to hav a boyfriend and he hasint called my in 2 day the last time i talked to him waz wen he kissed me PLZ HELP IDK WAT TO DOALL GIRLS AND GUYS I NEED BOYFRIEND ADVICE?
First of all How old are you if you are a 14 years old yes the guy is not only trying to have sex but also take advantage. If you're 16-18 then if the guy has a maturity of an 18 year old he just really likes you and he will wait and if he really loves you.





If you are 10-12 and your dating let me break it too you right now.NO you guys should even be holding hands at that age.ALL GIRLS AND GUYS I NEED BOYFRIEND ADVICE?
hate to say it but im pretty sure he is just using you. if a guy really liked you for what you are, he wouldn't try all those things the first few days you are in a relationship.








so before you end up raped, i would break it off. :/


sorry but its probably for the best.
Simple. Forget that loser and spend more time on your grammar and spelling.





Two problems solved.
im sorry. how old r u and him? but im sorry to tell you but if he hasnt called you and the second day yall met he forced u to kiss him he is using you..
omg.... that guy is terrible
he sounds like a jerk if you ask me. Probably just wants you for sex
um... wow


he just wants to get in your pants... sorry... but that's it
That is what we call an ';abusive relationship.';





Get out of it as fast as you possibly can.

GIRLS/GUYS/ i need yout advice on Relationship from your experience?

Last month after being together for 11 mos, my GF broke up w/ me. First 7-8 mos we were extremely in love, etc. Last 2/3 I became clingy/somehwat possessive and wanted all her time. Ultimately she told me she lost attraction for me and broke up. ( I know I was wrong). Last week we decided to work things out and have been hanging out, taking it slow with good results, no fighting. here is the issue, I know she loves sex and so do I. Counting the break up and last few months of our relationship we haven't had sex in 3 months. We kiss, cuddle, etc. Last night we were planning on it, but: she was tired, and then when I kinda pushed her for us to be intimate, she said she doesnt know if she feels attracted to me and doesnt feel that ';umph';. It has nothing to do with looks since I havent changed, but she wants to get back in love with me, or at least try. I dont know what to do. I need/want intimacy between us, otherwise I feel like we are together without sex. how do i get her wanting sexGIRLS/GUYS/ i need yout advice on Relationship from your experience?
You should talk to her and hear if she wants things back the way they were. Some girls want just a close relationship without sex. Maybe she thinks that the sex messed everything up and made it weird. If she only saw you as a friend then she wouldnt cuddle or kiss you. The fact is, its good that the relationship changed, if you changed nothing about it it wouldnt improve and would end in a break up. Her and your emotional well-being is more important than sex so try not to make it a focal point of the relationship.GIRLS/GUYS/ i need yout advice on Relationship from your experience?
i think thismay be what you need to do here....


1) Go get yourself some new clothes....get a hair cut....look a bit sexy


2) Stop trying so hard to please her and say something like...i know you dont feel the oomph so thats cool, il give you bit more breathing space and go clubbing with ya mates but make sure she sees you looking sexy and confident before you go out....dont say ';do i look nice'; be like right baby im off have a great night and be bit confident in yourself and the brilliant night you are about to have. When my boyfriend does that it drives me wild for him looking all manly and sexy and being very confident he has a great night ahead planned


3) pretend you have been told if you have sex with her your penis will shrink so you cant, if you kiss you end the kissing, if you cuddle end it a little bit to soon...leave her wanting more, if she tries it on dont react to soon


4) Be little bit naughty and flirt a bit, if she sees other women after you she might get jealous and thats what you need right now





Good luck

cleansing diet

Ok guys...really need ur advice on this..my bf isnt so good in bed....?

I never had this problem before...so its been really driving me nuts..and i dont kno how it tell him and ask why...i just feel bad cuz i dont want him to be embarassed. Ok...so here it is....


the four play is all great. And r relationship is great..we have alot of fun 2gether and complimaent each other all the time...we're crazy about each other. But the sex...is bad.


After just like 5-10 mins he goes soft...and doesnt even get off.


Then sometimes i get upset cuz i feel like its me..like hes not attracted to me or sumthin but i dont think thats it....i mean if it was he wouldnt be with me right??..


And he moves really weird..like he just shakes alot..i dunno its hard to explain. Ive been trying to be more dominant and show him and its worked a little bit..like i try to move him the way i like and stuff...


so do i just keep being more dominant and show him how i like it and how it should be w/out saying ne thing or should i say something to him...and if i should..what do u say to someone with that problem..how do u put it? And i want to add we did just start sleeping 2gether so so far its been just a few times...Ok guys...really need ur advice on this..my bf isnt so good in bed....?
Well no matter what it will hurt his feelings or bother him. No guy wants to know that he isn't good in bed. I guess you can be the dominant one in bed, maybe he still nervous about it, was he a virgin when you met him?





Try asking him what he likes in bed, maybe then he will ask you what you like. Maybe if he is enjoying it more he can last longer. Maybe try watching a porn together may help also? Dont know what your into but its an option.





Well never been told I'm bad but have been told I was a bad kisser by an ex and it bothered me. And I thought she was the bad kisser, she said I didnt use my tongue enough and thought she used hers to much in kissing. Oh well, to each there own.





Good luck,Ok guys...really need ur advice on this..my bf isnt so good in bed....?
its an intimate question and no one knows better than you two?





you ahve the answer and best is to ask him or let him know but do it gentlely as its a man's pride too? and if it works..help him to be who you like him to be....and sometimes if it sont work can some compromise be in?





if the talking dont work...you have the right to move on?





hope that helps? have fun...
talk to him about it, and see if he knows whats going on. Or you could ask him what he likes to do in bed, or something like that and then he'll ask you. The best way is to be open about it, don't feel uncomfortable, alot of guys have problems like that.
He may be having some Health issues.... Be open minded. Make sure he is not embarrassed to ask his doctor about it.





He may be getting bored and not even know it. try to change up your positions alot. That may make it worse. Try other things to stimulate him before sex during sex and after sex.
tell him to relax and enjoy it, slow down and feel every move that's happening. if you guys just started give him a chance to learn not just how it makes you feel, but also how you make him feel (while you are doing it)
this sounds like that episode of sex and the city where burger was a great boyfriend but there was no noise during the sex. that's what it reminded me of anyway. but maybe he's just nervous around you still.
He doesent have much experience in this field.Do not tell him that he is bad at doing it but tell him how you like to do it.If you want him to move fast , tell him.Give him sometime its just the beginning.
could be he's nervous or maybe he's not that experienced. nothing wrong with telling him what you like and asking him what he likes be open it should work. and don't compare that's a no no cause no one is the same.
Sounds like he is incredibly nervous about something.. you taking charge being on top and letting him relax into it while you do most of the work might help him out. Give it a shot - what do you have to lose?
he is nervous, make hime feel more loved

Hi guys i need your best honest advice.I really feel like i should get married but don't?

I feel like it is time to get married but have no one in my life now because my last girl friend abandoned me.please take this seriously i need your advise.Hi guys i need your best honest advice.I really feel like i should get married but don't?
True, ask God to give somebody you can marry, dont be desperate. Give it time and im sure you will be given.Hi guys i need your best honest advice.I really feel like i should get married but don't?
so what exactly are you asking? Since you don't have a gf anymore who are you gonna marry? youself??
I would pray to God and ask what his will is for me. Your heavenly Father has all your answers,you just have to ask.

Ok guys i need your advice with this one (:?

so last year i reallllllly liked this guy, we flirted alot but i made myself believe that he acted like that around every girl and so he must not like me, so this year we started to hang out and during one of the football games hes like lets ditch this and go to the park. we went to the park with 2 other people and he ended up telling me that he liked me alot last year, and thats when i told him i liked him alot last year too...he got really mad and was like ****** how come u didnt tell me and the whole night he was regretting it


so now i like this kid again ha but im not sure if he likes me back? he liked me last year but is it done for? how can i spark our fling up again?Ok guys i need your advice with this one (:?
Sounds to me like he still likes you. I know thats how i was with me girlfriend, same exact situation we liked eachother before and nothing happened. But when she told me that i acted the same way like omgggg y didnt you tell me. So yeah i say give it a shotOk guys i need your advice with this one (:?
do the same exact things as last year then you will know if he liks you or not
go makeout with him then reevaluate and move one