I know its pretty lame that I am coming on here for relationship advice, or maybe it is to some of you.
Here is my story. I have been with a guy for 6 months now. I love him very much. In the past, relatively about a month or two ago, he let me send a text to a friend for him from his cell phone. When his friend replied, he had me go to his inbox and tell him what it said. In his phone, when you go to his inbox, it shows the first few words of every txt. well when i looked i saw several dirty text messages from another girl talking about him ';jacking off while thinking of her'; and ';her not being able to wait to meet up and have ';hott madd sex with him';'; When i confronted him, he was very calm in telling me that he didnt reply to her with anything sexual. His phone is set to where his outbox isnt saved. He didnt get defensive or anything. So i told him to prove himself and txt or call her right then and have her send him the texts they were exchanging. he chose to text her and then he deleted her number. I assumed she would reply, considering she didnt know what he was trying to do. He told me this girl was a good friend, but to this day swears she never replied. hmmmmm.......
Also in his phone this girl was listed under the letter ';B';. no name..he told me her name was brittany and he just called her b so thats y he put her in there as b. i also saw that he had called this girl and she called him while i was at work and a few nights after he got off the phone with ME ';because he was tired';.......
anyways so there were some other situtations involving myspace and such where he was flirting with girls. These ended our relationship a few times but we ended up getting back together.
Ever since these incidents I have not been able to trust him.
So here we are at our 6 mnth mark and i ended it, telling him I could not trust him so we were thru.
On top of this, he doesnt work, hes 21 yrs old and all he does is lay around my house while i work. i pay, i drive....
I also mentioned this in the breakup.
I thot we were thru..... but now he has been calling me and like a dummy I answer. He wants to take me out and talk about things and when he gets back from his trip to FL.....
idk what i should do. the main issue here is i love him and its hard for me to move on......
i wanna think with my head, not my heart but i just cant help it.
we are currently not together but we still talk everyday.
idk what to do..
i really need some advice from someone who understands..
thanks!Girls and guys please help! relationship advice needed! answer for answer!?
.Firstly stop all contact with this guy.No wonder he has dirty text messages as he has nothing better to do with his time. He lays about the house while you slave to make ends meet.Now he's on vacation (Florida) as he needs the rest. He's a freeloader,sponger,parasite who takes,takes takes.
Thursday, December 31, 2009
Ladies and guys, i need some advice?
im 20 and i like this girl that is 24. i have known her about 15 years and have had a crush on her for the past 10 years.
our mothers are very close friends and have known each other for over 20 years.
we dont see each other too often but when we do i have a great time and get along with her very well. i love every little thing about her.
the only thing is she considers us ';cousins'; even though we arent related in any way, for example when introducing me to somebody she will say ';hey this is my cousin'; and stuff
the thing is whenever we hang out at a family/friend get together we always talk and i always have fun with her. i cant help it but i have been extremely attracted to her for the past ten years. and feel like we get along great and have good chemistry as friends and have alot common interests and tastes
i really cant stop thinking about her, shes perfect in every way. what should i do in this situation?Ladies and guys, i need some advice?
Let her know how you feel about her. She may feel the same about you. if not then you'll know to move on.Ladies and guys, i need some advice?
i'd tap that **** as fast as you can
Tell her how you feelcleansing diet
our mothers are very close friends and have known each other for over 20 years.
we dont see each other too often but when we do i have a great time and get along with her very well. i love every little thing about her.
the only thing is she considers us ';cousins'; even though we arent related in any way, for example when introducing me to somebody she will say ';hey this is my cousin'; and stuff
the thing is whenever we hang out at a family/friend get together we always talk and i always have fun with her. i cant help it but i have been extremely attracted to her for the past ten years. and feel like we get along great and have good chemistry as friends and have alot common interests and tastes
i really cant stop thinking about her, shes perfect in every way. what should i do in this situation?Ladies and guys, i need some advice?
Let her know how you feel about her. She may feel the same about you. if not then you'll know to move on.Ladies and guys, i need some advice?
i'd tap that **** as fast as you can
Tell her how you feel
Guys i needds some advice...please?
ok so there is this guy that i really like. but we've only text'd and talked over the phone. we've never talked in person...we go to the same school. he is a grade higher than me. he is a senior. i am a Junior. but he calls me babe and sweet things like that...and in the middle of class hll text me and tell me that i look good today or something like that....what should i do cause im kinda shy around people when i first get to know them then i become my self and i need some advise on what to doGuys i needds some advice...please?
what to do? nothing. you are doing it. let him make the move. he knows you are interested.
what to do? nothing. you are doing it. let him make the move. he knows you are interested.
GUYS- TRANSLATION PLEASE!!!!? MALE ADVICE?? I would really appreciate it....?
THIS QUESTION IS LONG SO IF YOU DON'T HAVE THE MATURITY TO READ IT THE DON'T WASTE MY TIME ANSWERING IT.
I'm a Junior in high school.
it all started in the 8th grade...
I was with my friends and he was with his. I turned around and he was staring at me. I've never had eye contact like that before. it's really hard to explain but I'll try. it was almost like he was seeing through me and it truly felt like everyone and everything else had disappeared for a couple of seconds only because we were so focused on each other. we stared at each other back and forth for at least an hour, both of us too nervous to make a move. my friend and I left and I didn't think much of the whole thing. I was one of those flirty, social kind of girls so it was just fun for me.
next time I saw him was grade 9 at high school. I turned around and he was staring at me. I didn't have any classes with him but he would stare at me every time I saw him in the hallway and look away when I looked back. sometimes I would act like I didn't notice just to see how long he would stare. I found out his name from a friend of mine. I asked her about him and she said he was smart and told me about a presentation that he had done about anti depressants. he said that his mom had hyper thyroidism and was on the pills. my mom had hyper thyrodism too. really ironic things would happen...like we never had any classes together but we just so happen to pass each other in a big high school with over 2,000 people a couple times a day for two years. there's a twist in the story though...I had changed a lot since he first saw me. I was struggling with depression and had became very antisocial, careless about making friends and my school work, and rude; the exact opposite of how I was when he first saw me.
the whole staring thing went on from around winter time to the end of the year.
Over the summer I thought 'okay, this guy doesn't even know me. there's no way he still likes me.'
first day of school of my sophmore year. I was looking at my schedule. I looked up and he was staring at me. I wasn't so much depressed at this point but I had become very shy because I wasn't used to talking to people. we have an advisory period where they take attendence and coincidentally mine was right next to his. I was recruited to be in a group that a couple of his close friends are in. we both just so happen to have the same english class the same period right across the hall from each other and it seemed like we would always end up in the hallway at the same time near each other. he would always stare at me every time he saw me. this deep, penetrating stare that I've never had before. all of these coincidences and we had never even spoken to each other before.
I'm a Junior now and every time he sees me he acts like I'm not there. there were a couple of times when he was looking at me and he thought I didn't notice but my attitude is just ';whatever. take it or leave it'; I don't know if he just gave up or felt like I rejected him but I guess it doesn't really matter now and what is meant to be will be.
I was leaving class (his class is right next to mine) and talking to one of my friends. I noticed when he came out he was looking at me but I'm not sure if he was listening. coincidentally when I started walking like 3 or 4 of his friends were next to me and in front of me and he was behind me. he was cussing like every other word. lol seriously. I turned to look at him and he just stopped talking and it got really quiet. I turned around and kept walking and he went back to his cussing.
I was wondering if it meant anything that it got so quiet and that he stopped? or why did his friends look at me when I was walking between them?
I appreciate it if you've made it this far!!GUYS- TRANSLATION PLEASE!!!!? MALE ADVICE?? I would really appreciate it....?
Are you an English major? Nice composition! Next time pay much attention to capital letters at the beginning of every sentence, make use of commas, exclamation marks and question marks where possible.
back to your long weird story... why don't you just go up to him and ask what a heck is going on with him? he has been staring at you for many years and didn't say anything to you yet? what a loser!
go up to him and say: hey! do i know you from somewhere? i have been seeing you staring at me for many years now, whats up?
I'm a Junior in high school.
it all started in the 8th grade...
I was with my friends and he was with his. I turned around and he was staring at me. I've never had eye contact like that before. it's really hard to explain but I'll try. it was almost like he was seeing through me and it truly felt like everyone and everything else had disappeared for a couple of seconds only because we were so focused on each other. we stared at each other back and forth for at least an hour, both of us too nervous to make a move. my friend and I left and I didn't think much of the whole thing. I was one of those flirty, social kind of girls so it was just fun for me.
next time I saw him was grade 9 at high school. I turned around and he was staring at me. I didn't have any classes with him but he would stare at me every time I saw him in the hallway and look away when I looked back. sometimes I would act like I didn't notice just to see how long he would stare. I found out his name from a friend of mine. I asked her about him and she said he was smart and told me about a presentation that he had done about anti depressants. he said that his mom had hyper thyroidism and was on the pills. my mom had hyper thyrodism too. really ironic things would happen...like we never had any classes together but we just so happen to pass each other in a big high school with over 2,000 people a couple times a day for two years. there's a twist in the story though...I had changed a lot since he first saw me. I was struggling with depression and had became very antisocial, careless about making friends and my school work, and rude; the exact opposite of how I was when he first saw me.
the whole staring thing went on from around winter time to the end of the year.
Over the summer I thought 'okay, this guy doesn't even know me. there's no way he still likes me.'
first day of school of my sophmore year. I was looking at my schedule. I looked up and he was staring at me. I wasn't so much depressed at this point but I had become very shy because I wasn't used to talking to people. we have an advisory period where they take attendence and coincidentally mine was right next to his. I was recruited to be in a group that a couple of his close friends are in. we both just so happen to have the same english class the same period right across the hall from each other and it seemed like we would always end up in the hallway at the same time near each other. he would always stare at me every time he saw me. this deep, penetrating stare that I've never had before. all of these coincidences and we had never even spoken to each other before.
I'm a Junior now and every time he sees me he acts like I'm not there. there were a couple of times when he was looking at me and he thought I didn't notice but my attitude is just ';whatever. take it or leave it'; I don't know if he just gave up or felt like I rejected him but I guess it doesn't really matter now and what is meant to be will be.
I was leaving class (his class is right next to mine) and talking to one of my friends. I noticed when he came out he was looking at me but I'm not sure if he was listening. coincidentally when I started walking like 3 or 4 of his friends were next to me and in front of me and he was behind me. he was cussing like every other word. lol seriously. I turned to look at him and he just stopped talking and it got really quiet. I turned around and kept walking and he went back to his cussing.
I was wondering if it meant anything that it got so quiet and that he stopped? or why did his friends look at me when I was walking between them?
I appreciate it if you've made it this far!!GUYS- TRANSLATION PLEASE!!!!? MALE ADVICE?? I would really appreciate it....?
Are you an English major? Nice composition! Next time pay much attention to capital letters at the beginning of every sentence, make use of commas, exclamation marks and question marks where possible.
back to your long weird story... why don't you just go up to him and ask what a heck is going on with him? he has been staring at you for many years and didn't say anything to you yet? what a loser!
go up to him and say: hey! do i know you from somewhere? i have been seeing you staring at me for many years now, whats up?
Guys help with relationship advice please?
ok so im 17 and theres this boy mike whose 18 that i had a thing with over the summer and completely fell in love with. we were crazy about eachother and spent every second together. eventually summer ended and we each went back to r own schools and kinda stopped talking. before i knew it he was involved with another girl. i was hurting but we decided to be friends. we have been texting everyday and hanging out and i just miss everything we had. he calls me cutie and other names and flirts a lottt. i saw him the other nite and brought him his favorite candy as a surprise. we talked and flirted a lot. then later that nite i texted him saying how apart of me still likes him and he was flattered. he said he would text me tomorrow but apart of me feels i shouldn't try so hard considering i don't wanna seem clingy or desperate. guys please gimme some advice on how i should act. i love this boy more than anything and he doesn't know it. he thinks i like a lot of other boys i think. please tellme what to dooo
thanks loves =)Guys help with relationship advice please?
Is he still with the other girl? If so I would say be careful. Otherwise just hang out 1 on 1 at like a non formal venue like the mall or something so he doesn't get the wrong idea and ask him what he's feeling.Guys help with relationship advice please?
well you have strong feelings but in my oppinion hes in a relation ship with a nother girl . he cant be calling you cutie and those things if your just friends but remember if he will do it with you he will do it to you...baby girl listen its like your a safety net back out a lil and make sure whens hes with you he knows he has a girl friend ....haveing strong feelings is good but dont lead him on in that way not saying you are,,just but if its ment to be it will be dont try to make it be...
Different schools?
There is your problem!
We will not commit to girls in other schools when we have hundreds of girls floating in front of us each day at our own schools.
It's like sitting in KFC and refusing to eat because you are loyal to McD's.
Ooh good that you already told him the way you feel. I think you should wait until he answers. If he wants you as badly as you want him I'm pretty sure it wont take long. But wait i don't understand? If he's going out with another girl its not very nice to interrupt. And why would he go out with another girl in the first place if you guys are crazy over each other? And if he does flirt with you while being with another girl , He would flirt with other girls while being with you too...! You don't care about that? And don't sound too desperate because he might not like you that way.
Just pointing out the alternatives. Hope I helped.
Take Care %26amp; Good luck.
xx
Yes he does know it. He's got you right where he wants you. He has his cake and is eating it too. If he really loved you like you loved him he wouldn't have stopped talking to you so quickly and started dating someone else. I hate to say it, but you are and were just a fling. He has you check mated. And your really being disrespectful to the girl he is with now by texting him. And that should tell you alot about him the fact that he is texting you while he is with someone else. As far as you know, he was doing the same thing with someone else all summer while he was with you. Your setting yourself up for a hard fall. He's not the only guy in the universe that was meant for you, and you are all to young anyway to be that serious. Just take it in stride. Enjoy the feeling cuz it isn't as intense when you get older and have takes some bumps on the road from past relationships. You heart will become more guarded and harder to gain access too. You will wisen up.
hmmm..well..most guys flirt with other girls specially thru texting when their gf dont know. But make sure that u let this dude know that u love him, BUT you are not going to wait for him like an idiot until he decides what he wants...show some respect for urself okie?? im sure u are a cool, preety girl, that can find another guy in no time...soo cheer up and enjoy ur life..:)
You don't sound clingy or desperate, but if you would be the girl on the side, then don't be. I know you're heart skips a beat and you want to confess your love madly, but don't. Proceed slowly and take it from there. I know this from personal experience.
alright now ill get alot of gruf from guys sayin this but i was once in the same sit with a girl when i was 18 19.... truth is all depends on him play it coy for a while make him chase u if he comes to u then u no its ment but before u do this tell him how u feel and tell him if u dont feel the same way or something along those lines then we need to distance ourselves for a while .... hope it all works out
jus tel him, wake away immaterialmof the decisions made
if you really want him, parade another guy in front of him, he will either realize what he's missing or he'll ignore it; if he ignores it, you don't want him anyway
If he's swimming in women, then you don't want to seem desperate.
If he's a normal dude, and he loves you, then clingy is fine, even cute.
Considering you said that you two had spent every second together, he obviously isn't the type of guy who needs room, thus making him a good guy. You should definitely tell him how you still feel, and take it from there,
Guys are actually quite pathetic man. I'm one but i know it's true. We would do anything, say anything to 'have fun'. He probably likes you but he will come back to you after he either gets bored of what his girls got to offer or he'll play her and lie to both of you or he'll just keep making you think you stand a chance and totally bask in the attention you are giving him! If their is one thing i can promise you it's that if you got him back it just wouldn't be the same between you two. Time apart makes the past seem so much greater than it actually was and when you get it back it's all so NORMAL and you get bored of each other company and good memories are turned to nasty ones. Why do you want to do that? Just let the past die, you deserve more! But through all my experience if you are just like every other girl i've messed with you are going to ignore everything everyone says feel sorry for yourself and run after him and get yourself more hurt in the future! i just don't know why girls do this to themselves, not all but many! please be strong and get over him, trust me it'll happen and life goes on.Out of 12 billion people on earth you can't tell me you've met the best one for you already!
boys will always be boys..they want to meet lots of girls and have fun. that is what you need to understand...
guys want to stick it any where we can. you wont be the last one for him. this only exists for right now. get him to bend you over while you really want it.
Just be honest and most of all be chill. Guys will think you're obsessive or clingy if you're overly emotional. Take it one step at a time and remember, relationships are like pebbles in a stream, you learn to appreciate something from each. Eventually you'll hit a big nice rock that has all of the wonderful qualities you want and you can stay with it for the rest of your life. Even if this doesn't work out for you, you will get over it and be happy someday. :)
guys get scared when girls act desperate so dont
thanks loves =)Guys help with relationship advice please?
Is he still with the other girl? If so I would say be careful. Otherwise just hang out 1 on 1 at like a non formal venue like the mall or something so he doesn't get the wrong idea and ask him what he's feeling.Guys help with relationship advice please?
well you have strong feelings but in my oppinion hes in a relation ship with a nother girl . he cant be calling you cutie and those things if your just friends but remember if he will do it with you he will do it to you...baby girl listen its like your a safety net back out a lil and make sure whens hes with you he knows he has a girl friend ....haveing strong feelings is good but dont lead him on in that way not saying you are,,just but if its ment to be it will be dont try to make it be...
Different schools?
There is your problem!
We will not commit to girls in other schools when we have hundreds of girls floating in front of us each day at our own schools.
It's like sitting in KFC and refusing to eat because you are loyal to McD's.
Ooh good that you already told him the way you feel. I think you should wait until he answers. If he wants you as badly as you want him I'm pretty sure it wont take long. But wait i don't understand? If he's going out with another girl its not very nice to interrupt. And why would he go out with another girl in the first place if you guys are crazy over each other? And if he does flirt with you while being with another girl , He would flirt with other girls while being with you too...! You don't care about that? And don't sound too desperate because he might not like you that way.
Just pointing out the alternatives. Hope I helped.
Take Care %26amp; Good luck.
xx
Yes he does know it. He's got you right where he wants you. He has his cake and is eating it too. If he really loved you like you loved him he wouldn't have stopped talking to you so quickly and started dating someone else. I hate to say it, but you are and were just a fling. He has you check mated. And your really being disrespectful to the girl he is with now by texting him. And that should tell you alot about him the fact that he is texting you while he is with someone else. As far as you know, he was doing the same thing with someone else all summer while he was with you. Your setting yourself up for a hard fall. He's not the only guy in the universe that was meant for you, and you are all to young anyway to be that serious. Just take it in stride. Enjoy the feeling cuz it isn't as intense when you get older and have takes some bumps on the road from past relationships. You heart will become more guarded and harder to gain access too. You will wisen up.
hmmm..well..most guys flirt with other girls specially thru texting when their gf dont know. But make sure that u let this dude know that u love him, BUT you are not going to wait for him like an idiot until he decides what he wants...show some respect for urself okie?? im sure u are a cool, preety girl, that can find another guy in no time...soo cheer up and enjoy ur life..:)
You don't sound clingy or desperate, but if you would be the girl on the side, then don't be. I know you're heart skips a beat and you want to confess your love madly, but don't. Proceed slowly and take it from there. I know this from personal experience.
alright now ill get alot of gruf from guys sayin this but i was once in the same sit with a girl when i was 18 19.... truth is all depends on him play it coy for a while make him chase u if he comes to u then u no its ment but before u do this tell him how u feel and tell him if u dont feel the same way or something along those lines then we need to distance ourselves for a while .... hope it all works out
jus tel him, wake away immaterialmof the decisions made
if you really want him, parade another guy in front of him, he will either realize what he's missing or he'll ignore it; if he ignores it, you don't want him anyway
If he's swimming in women, then you don't want to seem desperate.
If he's a normal dude, and he loves you, then clingy is fine, even cute.
Considering you said that you two had spent every second together, he obviously isn't the type of guy who needs room, thus making him a good guy. You should definitely tell him how you still feel, and take it from there,
Guys are actually quite pathetic man. I'm one but i know it's true. We would do anything, say anything to 'have fun'. He probably likes you but he will come back to you after he either gets bored of what his girls got to offer or he'll play her and lie to both of you or he'll just keep making you think you stand a chance and totally bask in the attention you are giving him! If their is one thing i can promise you it's that if you got him back it just wouldn't be the same between you two. Time apart makes the past seem so much greater than it actually was and when you get it back it's all so NORMAL and you get bored of each other company and good memories are turned to nasty ones. Why do you want to do that? Just let the past die, you deserve more! But through all my experience if you are just like every other girl i've messed with you are going to ignore everything everyone says feel sorry for yourself and run after him and get yourself more hurt in the future! i just don't know why girls do this to themselves, not all but many! please be strong and get over him, trust me it'll happen and life goes on.Out of 12 billion people on earth you can't tell me you've met the best one for you already!
boys will always be boys..they want to meet lots of girls and have fun. that is what you need to understand...
guys want to stick it any where we can. you wont be the last one for him. this only exists for right now. get him to bend you over while you really want it.
Just be honest and most of all be chill. Guys will think you're obsessive or clingy if you're overly emotional. Take it one step at a time and remember, relationships are like pebbles in a stream, you learn to appreciate something from each. Eventually you'll hit a big nice rock that has all of the wonderful qualities you want and you can stay with it for the rest of your life. Even if this doesn't work out for you, you will get over it and be happy someday. :)
guys get scared when girls act desperate so dont
Guys, I need your advice ???!!! 10 points?
OK so I like this guy, but he doesn't even know I exist. Everytime I am around him I act stupid or foolish.(In my eyes) But I can't figure him out ! For example, in the library, where I tutor a student, he just sat down next to my student's friend and started doing his homework. So because I got nervous, I started getting tense and focusing more on my student saying, ';UMM number 2. It's wrong. Try it again this way.'; Than his friend tells him,'; Your stupid !'; and I reply, ';Your no help.';
Than the guy I like moves us to a different topic and whispers something in my student's friend's ear and looks at him. My student than says, ';What? ' And I am left there stupid. What was he trying to communicate ? Am I just stupid or nonexistant to him? If so, how can become less nervous and more likable?
*We are all eighth graders. I tutor because I meet student tutor qualifications.Guys, I need your advice ???!!! 10 points?
yeah he likes you fersher. im in 11th now but yeah he likes you i did the same stuff he was prolly saying that ur hott or something like that. try talking to him and laugh at everything u think is meant to be funny, it makes them feel . were like monkeys little things go a long way. also make physical contact like touch his arm or his leg. trust me on this im a guy every dude will be down for that and dont think he'll pull away, well he might but just cuz hes shy but if he has confidence he'll act very positive towards this..... hope i helpedGuys, I need your advice ???!!! 10 points?
well, usually, in this situation, i would say that this guy likes you, but is too nervous to ask you out.
Sometimes, we feel like if a girl is REALLY pretty, that we have no chance what so ever.
Hope this helped.
Than the guy I like moves us to a different topic and whispers something in my student's friend's ear and looks at him. My student than says, ';What? ' And I am left there stupid. What was he trying to communicate ? Am I just stupid or nonexistant to him? If so, how can become less nervous and more likable?
*We are all eighth graders. I tutor because I meet student tutor qualifications.Guys, I need your advice ???!!! 10 points?
yeah he likes you fersher. im in 11th now but yeah he likes you i did the same stuff he was prolly saying that ur hott or something like that. try talking to him and laugh at everything u think is meant to be funny, it makes them feel . were like monkeys little things go a long way. also make physical contact like touch his arm or his leg. trust me on this im a guy every dude will be down for that and dont think he'll pull away, well he might but just cuz hes shy but if he has confidence he'll act very positive towards this..... hope i helpedGuys, I need your advice ???!!! 10 points?
well, usually, in this situation, i would say that this guy likes you, but is too nervous to ask you out.
Sometimes, we feel like if a girl is REALLY pretty, that we have no chance what so ever.
Hope this helped.
Can you guys give me an advice on this situation please?
I NEED AN ADVICE. WHAT SHOULD I DO!? I HAVE A FRIEND WHO’S STRAIGHT BECAUSE I’M A LESBIAN AND WELL OVER THE TIME OF BEEN FRIENDS I FELL IN LOVE WITH HER, AND I JUST FOUND OUT THAT SHE’S LEAVING, TO GO LIVE IN ANOTHER COUNTRY. BUT SHE DOESN’T KNOW THAT I LOVE HER, AND WELL I NEE YOUR OPINION. SHOULD I TELL HER THAT I LOVE HER BEFORE SHE LEAVES? OR WRITE HER A LETTER EXPLAINING MY FEELINGS TOWARDS HER AND GIVE IT TO HER THE DAY SHE LEAVES?? WHAT DO YOU GUYS THINK? I NEED YOUR HELP! SHE’S ALMOST LEAVING AND I REALLY DON’T KNOW WHAT TO DO!Can you guys give me an advice on this situation please?
She's not a lesbian though. You can tell her that you're going to miss her because you have stronger feelings then you expected to grow for her especially for someone who is not gay. And see what she says. Its honest of you if you feel the need to confess these feelings.Can you guys give me an advice on this situation please?
well, being that one of my best friends is bisexual, if i were leaving i would want her to tell me everything she needed to tell me before i left. you cant help who you fall for and should always tell the person you love even if they are same sex and your best friend. tell her. it can go many different ways though. you should get it off your chest and accept what ever happens.
I don't think you should tell her at all - she's not gay and telling her that you love her may make her feel uncomfortable and strain your friendship even more.
Yelling never solved anything.. :O
Go out and find your own kind.
She's not a lesbian though. You can tell her that you're going to miss her because you have stronger feelings then you expected to grow for her especially for someone who is not gay. And see what she says. Its honest of you if you feel the need to confess these feelings.Can you guys give me an advice on this situation please?
well, being that one of my best friends is bisexual, if i were leaving i would want her to tell me everything she needed to tell me before i left. you cant help who you fall for and should always tell the person you love even if they are same sex and your best friend. tell her. it can go many different ways though. you should get it off your chest and accept what ever happens.
I don't think you should tell her at all - she's not gay and telling her that you love her may make her feel uncomfortable and strain your friendship even more.
Yelling never solved anything.. :O
Go out and find your own kind.
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