So okay anyway... this is my problem.. i used to be in a group and this just happened recently.. so you see my former friend(let's name ';Ad';) liked this particular guy(let's name him ';ze';)... so anyway Ze hit on me... blabla... and at that time i was in sort of an emotional breakdown and sorta forgot everything, my values ... so this is what happened i hit on him too... and once Ad knew about it Ad got furious... in the group they comforted me... but time passed by i wasnt hanging out with them since Ad was there.. and i didnt want to start another misunderstanding or fight in the group... so recently ive been asking my ';friends'; how've they been and now its like they're mean to me saying im a whore or whatever and at times they make me feel bad about myself... and how could i be a whore if ive only been out with 2 guys... but ive been repenting on what i did and i know it is wrong... so guys.. can u tell me what bout ur thoughts? should i keep going for this group or should i find new friends...? any advice thanks...Hey guys... I need some advice regarding friendships...?
get new friends...Hey guys... I need some advice regarding friendships...?
just keep away from them for some days.. see whether they are calling you again.. if they call you, join them, it means that they are true friends.. if they dont mind about leaving you.. you also dont mind..
better be with one guy.. thats always good..
If your ';friends'; are calling you a whore.
They aren't your friends.
If they make you feel bad about yourself
They aren't your friends.
Ad overreacted in my opinion; and maybe if she's turning your friends against you; maybe you shouldn't care.
Just, don't think about it. By talking about it, you're adding to it.
If you let things be, they'll settle down.
Pain is inevitable, suffering is optional.
If they're attacking something you're not bothered by, then it's a one sided battle.
Find some new friends.
Relax, go for a run.
Don't stress out about it.
Find some friends you haven't seen in a long time.
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