Hey guys, I need some advice?

I joined a yahoo group not too long ago and have been frequently replying to, reading, and posting conversations. There are 800 members but only a handful partificpates regularly. It's a wonderful group. Most, if not all regulars are extremely intelligent and knowledgeable and it's the kind of environment I want to submerge myself in. The only problem is that while the group is doing me loads of good, it's also making me feel like sh*t. I seem to always stick my foot in my mouth, never have many worthwhile things to say and get punched when I make a bad joke. For the first time in my life, I feel so out of it because I don't feel good enough to belong there. I don't feel smart enough to belong there. I feel so ridiculously dull and stupid. Reading the streams of ideas that flow from those guys gives me a dualistic sensation of vulnerability matched with awe. I just can't do that. I'm not able to think that brilliantly. I love it though, but I don't want it to become an unhealthy addiction to me.





Should I click the leave group button and put it behind me?Hey guys, I need some advice?
i'd say don't wry so much about it! just stop making the bad jokes and answer the questions you can answer! no worries!!! rly it's not that big a deal not to be that active in the group! if it makes you feel better though then just leave it? it's not a big deal either way!





good luck :)Hey guys, I need some advice?
that group is causing you more distress than pleasure


time to leave the room ..
Internet addiction is a serious concern, sometimes more for some people than others. Many people describe ';feeling'; like a different person when they interact with others via a chat room or something like a Yahoo group.





First, you have discovered that there is something that is not feeling right for you in this situation. Trust that feeling and seek professional help! Many community centers have trained (free) counselors that you can talk with. At least, call 211 and have them refer you to some social service organizations providing counseling. And KEEP the appointment.





Second, give balance to your life. For every hour you are on-line, make an hour for yourself to be open to the wonders of interactions with people in real life. A walk in a park, sports, volunteering, helping friends or family.





I think with implementing these ideas, you will begin to feel much more satisfied with yourself and others in this group.
I felt the same way when I joined these message boards. I gradually disappeared from the forums and became a lurker, only posting when I had something worthwhile to say or ask.
just go on when ur bored like i do. just answer stuff u think u can answer good. i go on several times a day, but randomley when im home and i answer couple uestions then go and off.