Friday, January 8, 2010

Can any guys/girls give me advice on this?

ok so i am totally clueless about what to wear back to school on tuesday??? since its fall now i was thinking maybe a tight shirt and some jeans with some ugg boots but then again i could go with a tight shirt and sweat pants and runners .. and i really want to look pretty for this one day..because i am going to hangout with the guy that i absoloutely adore an i really dont know what guys prefer?? like would you guys recomend tight jeans and ugg boots or jeans/ sweats with runners instead?? and what hairstyle?? updo, down and straight or wavy/ curly???????? any outfit ideas or input would be greatly appreciated!!





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  • Advice--How do I compromise with my alcoholic bf? (guys especially)?

    He drinks about 6-18 drinks 2 nights a week.





    He has never tried to physically hurt me and we only fight when he drinks--hardly EVER about anything else.





    I have some trust issues with him but he has never cheated on me so far as I know.





    We have some great times, but inevitable end up fighting those 2x a week.





    Do I need to lighten up and compromise, or does he need to stop drinking? Do I need to move out and see where that goes? What would you do?Advice--How do I compromise with my alcoholic bf? (guys especially)?
    Leave him. You dont need to try to clean him up. The only way he is going to get help is when he wants to.Advice--How do I compromise with my alcoholic bf? (guys especially)?
    Talk to him about this for sure. If he's willing to compromise, stop drinking, or even just talk about it in a civil manner, theres a future there. If he won't hear it, or takk civily about it, let him go. Then, if he comes to you after that, he'll be ready to talk then :) If not, you may then move on.

    Baketball goals.can you guys give me motivational advice.?

    Im 13 turning 14 next year.Im 6'4 145 pounds.Last year I made the team and there was so much hype but I didnt have the grades to play.This year Im keeping my grades up(work hard,play hard).My goal is to be the top ranked basketball player in the state.I have talent,when im on the court some grown men dont believe my age or skill.I play small forward by the way,but when the team is in trouble i switch it up.My dream is to go to the nba.Alot of people believe i can its just my grades but this eight grade year is gonna change can you guys give me motivational advice.Baketball goals.can you guys give me motivational advice.?
    '; suffer now and then live the rest of ur life as a champion.'; Mohammad Ali





    that quotes is mostly for practice. umm just try to focus on both the things. i know its sorta hard. i was in grade 8 last year and it was okay i guess. i skipped my classes to make up for other classes cuz i barely had time at home cuz of basketball and everything. i didn't really try at school but i still got A's and B's. so i'm not telling u to do that! just make sure u don't skip any classes and just focus on ur work and listen. about basketball, u have to really practice hard and want it more than anybody else. don't think ur the best cuz theres thousands of kids that think the same thing. if u really are better than the kids around u, u should join a travel team or go into a different city and see how good kids are there. u need to be one in a million to make it to the nba. so don't stress over school too much just make sure u hand in ur homework on time and study for tests. its not that hard.Baketball goals.can you guys give me motivational advice.?
    aye hit the weights when you dont feel like playing


    but really look at tyler hasnsbro, i used to be like you, then i saw him and tried to be the hardest worker out there, and i went from a incoming 8th grade nobody.... to a 22nd ranked nationally freshman.


    i'm 6 foot 5.5 195, and white.


    just dont ever give up, do crazy *** things like run in the morning, study all night, stuff like that, its all about mentality.


    hope this helps, just when you get good, dont get cocky be humble

    30p!!! please guys i need serious advice about this i can't take it any longer please help :(?

    Alright well I first met this girl at school firstly it just began with me saying ';hi'; to her and stuff. Then we became friends. And I always support her through her situations and she did the same. Then at the end of the year I gave her a card for christmas with 20 dollars in it because i was leaving the school. In the holidays we didn't catch up once :( but we still spoke on msn and sent text messages and stuff. After a while i started my new school and was depressed. She starting supporting me through all of it. I supported her to and we preety good from there. After a while we stopped talking for about a month. We then started speaking again but on msn and i found out that she removed me from her top friends on myspace. From that point on she still supported me and i supported her but I always had to be the one to say ';heyy'; on msn to start a conversation. We discussed catching up and stuff but It was like she didn't want to see me or something. I sent her a lovely card thanking her for her support with 30 dollars in it and a message from my heart. She thanked me in a really sweet way. And we just went on from there but we still havn't caught up and i still say heyy on msn. I told her that ';we shouldnt be friends again and that it wasn't her fault'; and she said huh why. So i said im sorry for saying that we should still be friends so we still are i think. Now i might give her money but It just doesn't feel right giving a card and not giving money. I don't care if she doesn't give me cards or gifts the point is she gives me her amazing friendship and support and that is worth more then anything.





    she is going through pretty tough times to,





    What happend im really confused if she still likes me as a friend but I can't tell because we talk on msn all the time. Or shes just sick of me.








    Please tell me what you think is going on,,,





    im :( about this,30p!!! please guys i need serious advice about this i can't take it any longer please help :(?
    Most likely it's not you; things may be going on in her life that are distracting her. Instead of giving her money, give her gifts instead, to show you're really thinking about her. Money may give the impression you're paying her off. The idea of giving her tapes of yourself is a great one.30p!!! please guys i need serious advice about this i can't take it any longer please help :(?
    Why would you give her money, you are a ******* idiot.
    She might feel smothered. Sometimes sending cards and money is coming on a little too strong... When people move away, it's always hard to keep in touch, relationships, as well as people, change. I'm pretty sure that even if you were two were to meet up, it would be somewhat awkward, and silent. She might not be the person she was the last time you seen her. It's always easier to give advice from the comfort of your own home on a computer, but sincerity might not all be there... Try meeting up with her, and seeing how things are. If you guys are still the same friends you were before, go from there.
    in my sense, she probably wants to talk to you, but doesnt know what to say; im pretty sure shes not sick of you, but maybe instead of sending money, send her a tape of you, and ask her to do the same ; but one thing is for sure, shes not sick of you, unless she doesnt talk to you, but that doesnt seem like the case, so your fine :)

    Begging u guys...really need some advice. PLEASE!!?

    So lately I've only been able to see my boyfriend every other day because of our work schedules. Tomorrow is my night to stay with him, however, it is his best female friend's birthday.I know I am welcome to come along, but things are a bit complicated. She is a bit older than him, and in fact used to be his roomate. Towards the end of their time living together, things got very strange between she and I. We have talked about it since and get along alright now, but I still feel uncomfortable being around she and my boyfriend at the same time. I dont think she wants to be with him...She is just one of those girls who needs to believe that EVERYONE is in love with her, so needless to say she demands his attention.She even told him once that ';She and he had way more in common than he and I, except for sex.'; My boyfriend has been on my side all along, admitting that she treated me badly and even calling her out on it on several occasions.I know that he chose me, and wants to be with me, but the cutsie little way that they act around each other honestly sickens me.He still buys into all of her crap and treats her like she's the best thing since sliced bread. I understand that since its her birthday and his whole crew is going out that he wants to be a part of it...I really want to be with him tomorrow (and be present to keep an eye on her, I won't lie), but I also dont want to be in this uncomfortable situation. Anyone have any suggestions?Begging u guys...really need some advice. PLEASE!!?
    I would tell him how you feel about him being around this girl. If you dont want to do that, go to this party, but try and get him to leave early. you guys deserve the time you have together and it seems you have a hard time seeing them see eachother. Try and get him to see the real her and get away from that situationBegging u guys...really need some advice. PLEASE!!?
    i say u go **** the other girl.. ur there first b4 her so just go it don't matter just act like what ever and go ...just have fun with ur man girl and show her he is all ur's and not a bit heir's!!!!aha..lol
    go with them to the birthday party. be yourself and enjoy his other friends. don't worry about how they act... youre the one he's going home with. don't give up your night with him because of her.
    tell your bf you wish you could come but thats the same day your boss decides to be a huge dick and make you stay late or your mom got the cold or whatever makes sense and pertains to your life. Talk to one of his boys in the crew to watch how your bf and her react together and he'll tell you watever they did the next day. Of course, you can't be there to make sure they don't do anything but wouldn't you rather not be there to let your bf make the decision to or to not do anything with her. Then, you truly know what they do when you're not there. make sure one of the boys isn't your bf's best freind or anything, or he'll surely rat you out later.
    sucks bad dude. as for the immediate problem, id suck it up and go. im a jealous girl so id like to keep an eye on my guy especially with a chick like that running around. shes overstepping her boundaries and it seems like hes fine with it cus there just friends but it doesnt stop it from bothering you. plus... if you didnt go youd keep on wondering what exactly did happen that night of partying. id rather go and maybe be ok [as you said hes on your side] then wonder what exactly she did.

    Help, please! (guys and girls any advice on what to do!?)?

    ok, so theres this cute kid in my math class and i have a crush on him, and i have been crushing on him for a while, so like idk. but we are sorta friends, we dont talk like at all tho :( i dont think he would go for me tho, because i just got out of a relationship (i was ';active'; in, and i dont think he would like that, cus i certainly wouldnt, but still.... i wish i wasnt active) im a year younger than him, and idk what to do! any advice? how do i get him to notice me? or at least be like my best friend?Help, please! (guys and girls any advice on what to do!?)?
    don't worry about having been active in your last relationship. That isn't as much of a turnoff to guys as it is to girls. On top of that, he really doesn't need to know that kind of information until you get more serious. Just make small talk with him. I'm not sure where you live, but here it is almost summer. If it is almost summer there, or near a break, like christmas or spring break, then just slip him your number and casually say you should call over the break so we can hang out.





    Lastly, remember that if it doesn't go the way you want, don't get too upset. Remember that you have to keep up your self esteem. Any guy that doesn't want you doesn't deserve you.Help, please! (guys and girls any advice on what to do!?)?
    Make the first move. Don't just wait until he makes the move. Make some small talk but don't be too....HI; IM OVER HERE; NOTICE ME.!! Play it cool and just talk to him instead of trying to...push your way...y'know.? Set a goal for you to just to be friends first instead of anything more [best friend and bf]. Good Luck.!!





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    it depends on how old you are.if your in middles school.your retarted for being active.but high school or collage.find out what he is like as a person.talk to people about him.ask what he is into.when you do just bring it up in a convo.like hey did you see that cowboys game last night,they are my favorite team.you know.just dont be nervous.
    What you should do is get to know him better and maybe invite him to go get some pizza or something! The point is to open up ,hang out with him more and eventually you guys will be the closest friends anybody has EVER known!! Good Luck!!
    well...I think that yuo should try and go to him...and try and make small talk with him...or get a friend to talk to him for you...but I would try and engage in small talk...thats wat i do wen i like a girl..i dont think that i can get...=]
    oh it's easy act like a tomboy in the beginning then after that be yourself and you'll be he's best friend girl and after that you could be he's girlfriend
    Try getting to know him better. Talk to him, walk by him and ask him if he wants to go somewhere with you like to the movies or something. Thats how I got my cute Lisa
    just talk to him,


    ask him to hang out sometime...


    but dont make it weird like a date or anything...


    But yea just talk to him
    talk to him more often try to keep it light and interesting, if you two become closer friends u should invite him out to a movie or something and go from there. good luck!
    I would talk to him and find out what he is interested in.then I would ask him if he wants to be friends.
    one day just ask him for his number and then start texting him..if he texts back just go with it =p
    ITS EASY TALK TO HIM AND DONT LIE
    talk to him more......get to know him....be yourself but dnt throw urself at him
    kid? are you a molester??????
    !!!!!!!!!!!! U CREEPER!!!!!!!!!!
    talk to him! :)
    Say hello once in a while. give him a smile ;)
    LIKE...O MY GOSH! THESE ARE THE TYPES OF QUESTIONS THAT MAKE ME GO MAD! OK ..WELL HERES THE DEAL.....HE'S OLDER, YOUR ';ACTIVE';, YOUR SORTA FRIENDS, AND HE WONT NOTICE YOU....WELL...GIVE IT THE TIME.....AND LAST TIME I ANSWERED A QUESTION WITH A GOOD RESPONCE[[same subject...boyz and dating]],,,MINE WAS CHOSEN BEST ANSWER CAUSE I MAKE THEM FEEL LIKE THEY CAN TRUST ME ADN I ACT LIKE THEIR FRIEND....LETS CUT TO THE CHASE....GIVE IT THE TIME AND LET HIM GRADUALLY HAVE THE SAME FEELINGS...AND MAKE SURE U DONT PUSH YOURSELF AND MAKE IT LOOK LIKE YOU ARE TRYING TOO HARD OK? PLZ DONT MESS THIS UP...AND WHO KNOWS?! MAYBE HE FEELS THE SAME WAY OR PLAYING HARD TO GET OR...HES SHY [[TYPICAL]] YOU'LL SEE SOME GOOD RESULTS IF YOU DO THE RIGHT THING AND JUST,...WELL JUST FOLLOW EVERYTHING AND DONT MAKE A BONEHEAD MOVE...ALTHOUGH SOMETIMES BONEHEAD MOVES CAN MAKE THINGS HAPPEN [[NOT ALWAYS GOOD]]





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    Hair?? Please guys help- like any advice really :)?

    I know i asked this question a few times lol, but please can you give me advice on how to cut my hair/ links





    thanx alot !!





    My hair:


    gets oily fast


    flat


    thin


    dirty blond


    up to my armpits


    growing out bangs (do not want to cut them shorter, they are up to the bottom of my lips)


    no layers or very little


    healthy





    +i dont want to dye my hair and wouldn't want to cut it too short- like shortest to the shoulders :)





    i guess my face shape is oval like this http://www.shapeyourstyle.com/sites/tarm鈥?/a>Hair?? Please guys help- like any advice really :)?
    I know several people with that hair type! Use volumizing shampoo and conditioner, mousse, and finishing spray. Most of the time you would wash normal hair every other day but you need to wash yours every day! Like that other person said, don't clip your bangs back! It makes people look like a maid or something and its fugly and overused! Keep letting it grow and try putting rollers in it! For a cut, layers can add lots of volume to hair, if done properly. Ask for a few and then let the hairdresser curl your hair, don't flat iron. It makes hair get oily faster. Try wearing it up in a clip or a pretty long ponytial or low mesy bun. Flat hair looks really good up!Hair?? Please guys help- like any advice really :)?
    i would suggest shampooing every day, but maybe laying off a bit on the conditioner if ur hairs that oily. secondly, i would suggest long layers and maybe a face frame - i'm trying to grow my bangs out too and once they grow out to be long enough, they kind of blend into the haircut (if u get a face frame, u'll know what i mean). and thirdly, whats so bad about clipping ur bangs back (we're talking about a ';poof'; right?)
    wash it every morning and condition it what ever you do, DO NOT do the thing where you clip your bangs up behind on the top of your head so your hair has a bump it makes your forehead gigantic and its fugly. grow it out. long hair is sexy. and put your bangs on like one side of your face. it is personal preference.
    I would grow it a little longer. I like long hair. While your growing it out I would curl it because mine did not look the best straight when i was growing out my bangs. I have naturally straight hair thats really hard to curl.
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  • Girls and guys i need your advice?

    i have been best of buddies with this girl from my childhood days. we used to talk laugh and do all sorts of stuff, partly cause our families were heck a close,





    during mah early teenage years i used to chase girls, ( besides her), for worthless reasons, now when i shifted to new zealand for mah higher education, i long to see her and be with her, the other day i was just talking randomly to my friend and i did not even notice that i was talking about her for about 15 times!!!!





    my friend told me that you like her. i dismissed his statement claiming that it was rubbish.





    but now that i am 18 and finally becoming a bit more responsible , then i realized that i sort of have this thing for her





    she is not the prettiest girl in the world, and is dark and wears specks, but unlike others , she is conserved jolly, and happy within her family,





    my question is , is it necessary to be sexually attracted to your partner to love her, and how do i get her to like me??Girls and guys i need your advice?
    You ask the question, do you have to be sexually attracted to your partner to love her? Well, there should be some common ground with your partner. If you like her because she is a sweet person and you love being with her, why not. have you seen the couples that are together these days? They love something about their partner and the sexual attraction can blossum, you never know. You love her spirit! Just give her a call.


    Have you two kept in touch? Do you have her number? ,Girls and guys i need your advice?
    How do you get her to like you? How do you know that she already don't like you but never has told you because she may be scared on how you would react. Well, if you like her and want to ';date'; her, Tell her up front. If you talk about her 15 time's the yeah you are into her. I mean don't jump into it sexually, but take time. Sooner or later, it will happen. Just be up front and honest with her.
    Sexual attraction is important. But, as I have learned, it grows through time. Right now you just see that high school view of her. The more you get to know her the more you will see that spirit shine through and you will see her in a different light. Your love will make her attractive. If you have any feelings for her it is worth a try. If nothing ever sparks, you will know that you tried. What could you lose.





    And to get her to like you, well there is no way. Sometimes it helps to be straight up with a girl. Or just writing letters is so great. Because you sometimes find yourself letting more out. My husband was a shy guy and I never could figure out if he liked me or not. We started to write letters and love blossomed. And back then he was going through a goofy stage with acne and stuff. But as he grew up in college he grew past all that. Now he is the hottest guy ever and there is no problem with attraction any more. You both are still young so she can still outgrow some of her...unattractive things.
    no it is not nessessary. boy you are luky to have her in your life. don't loose her.


    she already knows everything about you and vise versa


    she is a treasure and i can say you are in love with her
    Sounds like love. Don't let her go!
    There are such things as makeovers for a persons appearance. Also, contacts do make a big difference. BUT hopefully in this instance you will find as you get older, companionship means a whole lot more than sexual attraction. Us guys are dogs, we will do it with anyone. All it takes is a touch of her hand in the right spot and Mr. Happy will respond. Remember the story of the ugle duckling. I would contact her and tell her how you feel and even ask her on a date and see how things go. Good Luck.

    Maybe you guys can offer me advice?

    This is tough and sure sum of you have been thru this so help a brother out. I dated this girl who was a model, she's real sweet and not ur typical stuk up *****. We dated for a few months then she went home then she returned in January. She's a good girl and doesn't sleep around and at 26 years old, she's only had 4 bfs incl. me.


    She told me she wanted to stay just friends wen she came bak but in about 2 months, we started hookin up and foolin around. Cool so far but she kept sayin she didnt have any 'feelings' for me so how could she act like a gf and do wat gfs do and still say that? pride? denial....?


    Anyways, back in July, she went back home and think it may be permanent and home is Slovakia. After just 1 month, she tells me she met sum1 and of course that hurt....so fast? She started seeing this guy a lot, too fast and I told her to slow down. She then tells me that he's divorced (33 years old) and has a baby boy. So I'm like get away from this guy, its bad news. Of course, this guy tells her that the ex-wife is a ***** and all that sob story crap and I told her once again to get away b4 its too late.


    Its been 2 months now and they are goin steady, I'm kinda over her now and every time i try to tell her, she signs off msn or facebook and does the cold shoulder deal. Now I'm her best freind but is that how you treat best freinds? Then wen she's cool to talk, all is supposed to be fine n dandy. Then about 3 weeks ago, I land in hospital and she was told about it but I didnt hear from her at all for 2 weeks! I asked her why but she couldnt answer why. Then its the usual 'hello' and 'can u talk' on msn or facebook for the past few days.


    Sorry for the long story but I'm confused guys....wat doe she want from me? Am I a safe back-up for her? I may not ever see her again so why is she tryin so hard and then acting the *****? Do i contact her or cut it off? Help me out, ur answers will be appreciated.Thx, Alex.Maybe you guys can offer me advice?
    I think that it's time to say goodbye to this girl. Besides she sounds pretty selfish to me. I friend would not treat you the way she is treating you ..Find some new friends closer to home and say goodbye to the past.Maybe you guys can offer me advice?
    i think you should give her some of her own medicine. find some new girls, she doesnt really sound like a best friend or a friend at all.

    Guys onnly please i need advice?

    im single right now and im just wondeering what a guy first notices when he sees a girl.im think with brown hair kinda long and i dont have really big boobs but ive go green eyes straight white teeth and dress realy cuteGuys onnly please i need advice?
    You're probably really cute. A good sense of humor goes a long ways too. I always like a girl who tries to dress attractively.Guys onnly please i need advice?
    ok i am totally interested....msg me :)
    I would be intrested ;)
    well, I look at the hair and eyes first.

    Do these guys make good boyfriends?? advice,suggestions,anything!?

    so i really like this guy, hes my friend i've known him for about a year now...he has like all friends that are girls, he does that thing with his hair around me and sometimes flirts.. all the guys think hes gay but hes not, he just likes to hang around with girls. but anyway, do those kinds of guys make good boyfriends, hes really sweet and nice..not perverted like the average guy. also how do u tell if a guy with that many friends that r girls likes u??





    im not sure if he likes me or not, we talk alot and he always waits for me in the halls in stuff...and always smiles around me alot. but he also has alot of other friends that r girls..ugh lol any advice suggestions thoughts??? thanks!Do these guys make good boyfriends?? advice,suggestions,anything!?
    Hm... Well, are you the only one he flirts with (out of his girl friends)? Are you the only one he waits for in the halls?





    The ';smiles around me alot'; is a great sign to. I think he probably likes you, unless he's like this with everyone. =)Do these guys make good boyfriends?? advice,suggestions,anything!?
    sry to say, but hes too much of a friend, with him nothin will b a surprise. I dont want to say the perfect man (thats impossible) but u should want a guy that ull feel safe with, that can compliment u when necessary, and that will do something sweet every now and then just cuz.

    20 something guys, i need your advice quick?

    ive been talking to this guy and he wants to get coffee. yesterday he asked me when i was free and since i work so much i told him tuesday or wednesday. he said hmm well maybe we could meet up tomorrow (tomorrow being today) i said yeah tomorrow is good just let me know or whatever. and he said k sounds good! ill text you.





    He usually works till 8 and doesnt usually text me till then but i havent heard from him all day. should i text him and ask him whats going on for tonight? or sweat it out till he texts? i just dont want to be rushing to get ready.





    what do you think??20 something guys, i need your advice quick?
    Text him. He's probably just as nervous as you are about the whole thing. Give him a bit if reassurance by showing that you really are interested. Do exactly what you said, text him and ask if you're still on for tonight.20 something guys, i need your advice quick?
    Wait. If he doesnt txt by 830 then you can txt him. Just say hi though and see what he says. You dont want to ';flood'; him with txts just yet. He is more than likely waiting until he is done with work. Im sure you will hear from him before you go insane lol
    Since it sounds like you want to go get coffee, the best thing to do would be to wait until around 8:15 then text and ask him if it's still on for tonight. If he says no, ask if Wednesday is OK.
    if he is unable to get to his phone he may not text you.


    If he texts you after 8 , its up to you you can go
    i would just ask 'are we still on for tonight?' nothing's wrong with that.

    Pretty girl cant talk to guys...please give me advice, everyone: girls and guys?

    ok people tell me im pretty all the time. im 14 and im so intimidated by guys its embarrassing. i get nervous just answering the guy who works at pacsun...and im really outgoing which is the frustrating thing-once a conversation is started i can usually keep it going until we both get bored of talking then ill admit its over and move on . i mean im the only one of my friends who would talk to a random person, unless its a hot guy...there i get tounge tied.


    is there anything i can do to not say something retarded? or to cover it up once i have said something stupid?


    you really have no idea how silly i can be lol





    [plus, if this helps., i look a lot older than i am, the normal guess to my age being between 16 and 22.=%26gt; hehe]Pretty girl cant talk to guys...please give me advice, everyone: girls and guys?
    bottom line - it takes practice - that's why people tend not to get married until much older - you're doing all the right things





    as you get older and experience more things - learn more things and talk to more people you will be able to sustain conversations longer and have more interesting things to say -





    You're fine - almost everybody thinks they say stupid things every now and again - even the President, Judges in court - you name it - we are all human!!!





    hang in there. Oh and since you are pretty - you will get plenty of opportunities!!! You should feel very fortunate.Pretty girl cant talk to guys...please give me advice, everyone: girls and guys?
    Start talking to guys more so it becomes more natural and when you get nervous look into his eyes then break eye contact so he sees your shy but confident in yourself. Then put your hair behing your ear with you palm facing out, it shows your more open subconciously. Try it. It might help who knows?
    i was the same way. im 16 now and i grew out of that a little after 14. but anyway. i would be so afraid of saying something stupid or not knowing what to say that i would stutter. id look at like another part of them like thier mouth or bt their eyes and act casual. youll grow out of it especially since you say your outgoing. youll get more comfortable about it no doubt
    Let the guy do most of the talking and if he asks you a question just answer it with something simple like a yes or no question until u get kinda comfortable talking to him then talk a little more as you go
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  • HELP!! GIRLS or GUYS!! I need your advice please!!!!!!!!!!!!!?

    I am 20 yrs old. Ive been seeing a girl for three months (1 month of the time has been spent away from each other on break from college and Ive never met her before this). After 2 weeks I told her I really liked her and asked her how she felt about being my gf. She said she really likes me but she gets scared because she had a long on and off bad relationship in the past that she was hurt badly in. She told me its hard for her to open up. She did say she liked me and wanted something out of it with me but said she wants to take everything very slow. We have hung out a lot and things have gone well. She has moved slow and still seems like she isnt 100% comfortable with me and acts a little shy and reserved around me. I fell in love with this girl over this time. Should I tell her now or just wait til she gets more comfortable with me since she wants to move slow??HELP!! GIRLS or GUYS!! I need your advice please!!!!!!!!!!!!!?
    let her be more comfortable with you.. you know lots of girls who had a experience bad relationship learn how protect themselves until they're 100% sure that this guy really true to them.. she may really likes you but shes not ready into relationship..so try to be more patient.. :)HELP!! GIRLS or GUYS!! I need your advice please!!!!!!!!!!!!!?
    i think telling her how u feel will make her comfortable with u so ur reeli killin 2 birds wit one stone
    Chill. If you start talking feelings again it will appear that you didn't listen to the take it slow remark.


    To many people worry about the Gf/BF tag.





    If your relationship is going well just go with the flow. Adding the tag just causes more pressure. Whats the difference.


    If your supposed to be together it will work If not you will have to find someone else
    i think you should tell her how you feel! that might make her open up to you!
    I would wait until she gets a little more comfortable with you.
    I would wait for about another 2-3 weeks or so. She might get more comfortable with you.
    It is tough beeing a guy in this world, cuz so many men hurt the girls, that we fall in love with. Go ahead and tell her that your falling in love with her and she is amazing and all that, it may comfort her and make her feel she can trust you more. You just cant be pushy or aggressive, just be there for her and take it slow, she will eventually figure out your not the same as the last Dumba** she had. Good Luck with ya bro
    i think you should give her time to come around. if she was hurt before she neds time to heal herself. sound like she likes you too but she has issues she needs to resolve on her own. just wait it out %26amp; if its ment to be it will.
    I would really wait a little longer till she gets more comfortable with you. Sounds like she really really needs to take it slow. Just be patient with her. Good luck
    NO!!! DO NOT TELL HER YOU';RE IN LOVE WITH HER!!!





    She's already told you she needs to take things slow. Respect that.





    Avoid blurting out your feelings.





    Let her set the pace.


    If you really love her, let her take it to the next level.





    DON';T PUT PRESSURE ON HER!!!

    GIRLS/GUYS/ i need yout advice on Relationship from your experience?

    Last month after being together for 11 mos, my GF broke up w/ me. First 7-8 mos we were extremely in love, etc. Last 2/3 I became clingy/somehwat possessive and wanted all her time. Ultimately she told me she lost attraction for me and broke up. ( I know I was wrong). Last week we decided to work things out and have been hanging out, taking it slow with good results, no fighting. here is the issue, I know she loves sex and so do I. Counting the break up and last few months of our relationship we haven't had sex in 3 months. We kiss, cuddle, etc. Last night we were planning on it, but: she was tired, and then when I kinda pushed her for us to be intimate, she said she doesnt know if she feels attracted to me and doesnt feel that ';umph';. It has nothing to do with looks since I havent changed, but she wants to get back in love with me, or at least try. I dont know what to do. I need/want intimacy between us, otherwise I feel like we are together without sex. how do i get her wanting sexGIRLS/GUYS/ i need yout advice on Relationship from your experience?
    She wants you in her life because she truly loves you but I don't think she wants you for her lover. She is not physcially passionate about you but doesn't want to let you go because she is used to you and you make her feel secure. You need to realize that a girl who doesn't find you attractive never will. In the last part of your relationship you became clingy because she was pulling away. It seems like she is trying to move on and grow but is scared and goes back to what makes her feel safe, excepted, desired, and love, You. My advice break up with her because things will never change. This will only hurt you and the longer you wait, the worse it will get.GIRLS/GUYS/ i need yout advice on Relationship from your experience?
    The best thing you can do is just be calm and give her time to figure things out . You really shouldn't try to pressure her into having sex . That's a big turn off , plus she might end up thinking that's all you want from her.
    lol wow well if shes trying then let her do things her way


    give her space and dont be too possesive make her feel special just do anything to m ake her fall back in love with you but not too much of it

    Please guys and girls honest advice???

    ok well aha, i was talking to one of my guy friends who i like and i had had his phone number b4, but my fone got erased so it had gotten deleted so i had asked him for it again and he was lk sure! so he gave it to me and then said ';hey you should call me up sometime so we can hang'; (this is over aim) and so i siad, yea definately that would be fuun


    and then i had to go,


    but so then the next day he calls me up to tell me that he just got his license and we end up talking for about half an hour, i told him that he should come down and ride (my horse) with me sometime and he responded by asking me my address and planning to meet me at my house sometime and then go for a ride


    does he like me? how should i go about making it so we do hang? how do i like him know i like him back without telling him? how can i make him like me even more or go about telling him, i really want him to ask me out to winter formal! please answer thank you thank you thank you!Please guys and girls honest advice???
    he likes you and you like him..it will happen ..he will most likely ask you out as you have invited him to ride horses with you..... that would be telling him your interested..............Please guys and girls honest advice???
    Well, go for that ride! I guess u both will be on the same horse! If he hugs u or just hangs on! Go by your gut-senses! Don't ride for a long time get off the horse and walk and talk. Maybe pack a small lunch or snack in your saddle and apple for your horse! sit down and eat a little! I think just maybe he may make a move if he is interested in!


    Good luck I hope u get what u are looking for!

    I dont understand.... GUYS i need your advice please.?

    my ex broke up with me in the summer and its cus i hurt him, and i realise that, and ive tried to move on and i cant. I try ignoring him and avoiding him now he does too, before in like fall we talked and stuff a bit, friendly but it got so hard cus i still uknow, like him. So i stopped and he did to, now all we do is look at eachother, like he'll look at me out of the corner of his eye and ill look at him, and even turn around and look but talk to someone else. all non-shalont/ before hed ignore me in the halls to, but now he kinda looks sometimes. IAM really confused, is it over or not, cus i wanna get over him and i cant with all this somtimes when he ignores my precence im like he hates me but than we have this connection when he looks at me so what does this mean.??I dont understand.... GUYS i need your advice please.?
    If you're really attached to someone, that doesn't just stop when you break up.


    He's probably struggling, too.


    With any luck, you can still be on friendly terms.





    Meanwhile, don't read too much into it. Let him go, and move on.I dont understand.... GUYS i need your advice please.?
    apparently you two still have feelings for each other and your just to stubborn to admit a relationship isn't always on cloud 9 but it also have its down fall both are essential for creating a strong realtionship





    I recommend you listen to this song


    collapsed by alyson and aj michalka
    what i think you should do is you two need to talk about what happened even though it is hard just tell him what you think ask him a question like do you still love me is that y i still get these eye contacts.

    Im so confused..Guys I need your advice?

    Its been a over a week since my best friend told me he as a girlfriend. We've talked about it and I told him how I feel, but I still have a heavy heart. I can't help but to worry about him. I know he hurt me but how was he supposed to know how I felt? Im afraid to talk to him about it how I feel because Im afraid of saying the wrong thing and losing him forever. I just cant help but wonder if what he said is true, that he loves me, why is he still with her? why love someone, but be with someone else? Right now Im trying to act like everything is fine, but I feel like Im lieing to him because, everything isnt fine....Im still confused. I'm afraid that he might be too, and the reason why he's still with her is because he doesnt want to break her heart too. I dont know!!!...so what does this mean? why would he say he loves me and he feels guilty about having a gf, but hes still with her?! should I bring it up again or just w8 things out?Im so confused..Guys I need your advice?
    He's playing you right now. See, even if he has feelings for you, he has feelings for the other girl. He doesn't want to hurt you, but I'm sure he knows you're hurt. It's not that he doesn't want to hurt the other girl, he just wants to see where that relationship is going. If after a short time it goes nowhere and he still has you around his finger, then he'll go with you. The best thing for you to do is remain positive. If you really do care about him, then believe in yourself and that the two of you will be together. Let him do/ be with whomever he wants. Live your life and have fun. Open yourself to various other things around you. You may find he isn't what you really want, or he may break up with the other girl and come to you. Above all.. don't worry. I know you may be hurt, but the last thing you want to do is tell him that he hurt you or show it to him. Instead, show yourself to be a strong and confident person.. which you are! For all you know, another love may be right around the corner.. We don't know what the future holds for us! You may be with him, you may not. At this moment right now,you are being taught a lesson in life.. How to deal with a lost love. It hurts.. but learn from this.. you'll do alright and be better off if you think less about how much this has hurt you, and more about how much this can make you a better person.Im so confused..Guys I need your advice?
    don't wait things out so the pain builds up just tell him how you feel sit him down and say listen.... make him choose if he doesn't choose you, at least you'll know and you'll spare yourself a lot more grief


    GOD bless
    so he can have his cake and eat it too, as long as he can get away with you hanging on, he can string you along...
    you say he is your best friend were the 2 of you in a relation ship because he may still regard you as a best friend and he went and got himself a girlfriend talk to him about it and take it from there
    hii ,,,look for somebody else ,and dump ur old boyfrd,,,,simple and easy ...
    i dont think you have to blame your best friend, bcos he does not have any idea how you feel and i think you will have to remain calm and be yourself around him.





    if he true loves you like the way you do, then i assure you that he will come back but till then i dont think its the right time for you to tell him how you feel because if you do you will be hurting another innocent lady some way.





    i suggest that you leave everything to God. All the best.
    Thjere is nothing you can do now. Just remember for the future that ';nothing ventured is nothing gained'; You should have told him how you felt before he got a gf.

    For guys i need youre advice?? thankss!?

    well i have been with this bf for 2 years and 3 months,, and right now he has a job but he dot work allot only like 5 days out of the week well he has cop tickets to pay i understand and. now he pays the gas bill on his house i understand but its been a Very long time he hasn't taking me out... and im not sure if i should get mad i mean i do understand him but in a way what about me... i tell him he gets mad. he says all i want from him is money witch is not true.. i mean if only he would take me to eat something small atleast. am i right?and he always wants me to pay like he would be like oh baby can u buy pizza.. imean i do have money uknow but i cant be waisting and he gets mad if i dont he says man ure stingy have money and then he makes me feel bad.. when im not really like that .am i right or hes right? i should help out but not all the time!For guys i need youre advice?? thankss!?
    if you could summarise this more guys wud answer...lolFor guys i need youre advice?? thankss!?
    i think u should help him because he's on a tight budget u no there the house, water, electric, etc (bills) plus the american economy is down the drown which makes it much harder to pay his bills and other
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  • I dont understand guys! I need some advice and help!!!?

    So me and this guy have been friends for quite some time. He always makes me smile and we have tons of fun together. We met in high school and he had a girlfriend. He would call me his #1 secret lover. They broke up after we graduated but were still friends. We hung out together and she gave me the dirtiest looks. I asked him why and he said she was jealous. I had to go back to school out of state and we texted but not to much. I came home and we went camping together. We had tons of fun and he flirted with me the whole time. He was very touchy feely and held my hand and all that. Well on the trip we started talking about this girl we both know. He said they went on a date and it was pretty much the date from hell. She treated him like crap and he wasn't happy with her at all. So I thought she was out of the picture. We get home and about a day later he is in a relationship. I was so mad! we had plans a few nights later and he already knew I knew he was in a relationship but I didn't know for sure who it was. I asked him what was new and all he would talk about is his new phone. I said aren't you dating her? He said yes. I called him an idiot and he didn't understand why I was so upset. He said they talked about it and she said sorry for the date. He told me he was glad I cared so much about him and that if he wasn't happy he would end it. That night he kept flirting with me!!! We went to my place to watch a movie and he put his head on my lap!! I don't understand how he is dating someone else when hes acting like this to me? Does he like me? It sure has heck seems like it? I need answers!!! Please help!I dont understand guys! I need some advice and help!!!?
    Honestly it sounds like he is using you. You will always be that ';other woman'; in his life. He is using you as a crutch or a back-up plan in-case he happens to be lonely at that time. If he was really into you then he would be with you and try to date this other woman. He send you signals that he likes you because he knows if he does that then in a way you will be his and not pursue other relationships. It is almost like he doesn't want you but doesn't want you to find anyone else. I would run...don't even think twice about ever getting into a relationship with him. Sorry :(I dont understand guys! I need some advice and help!!!?
    He's jerking you around, for sure!!





    Get Steve Harvey's book, Act Like a Lady, Think Like a Man. You'll have all your answers!!!
    Tell him he's a jerk and a cheater that'll do it! (slap him)

    Ok ladies and guys I need your advice PLEASE HELP!?

    ok ladies what would you do if you really liked someone and had deep feelings for a guy but he said he loves and cares about you but hes not in love with you and he use's you for a place to sleep sometimes and whatever else but you keep geting your deep feelings back everytime he comes around. and you mite be pregnant with his child. ok now fellas what would you do if your stuck on your self and think your player matirel and you told the girl that has deep feelings for you that you cant be in a comited relationship. what would you do. oh and your always in and out of jail. yeah I know lol crazy but I cant help it pls I really need someone adviceOk ladies and guys I need your advice PLEASE HELP!?
    I don't know how old you are, but you seriously need to start growing up!


    Get yourself away from this guy and out of the crap you are living with as soon as you can. Try to think ahead a few years. Do you really want to raise a child with someone like him as a role model for your child? You can not change him no matter you think. Get out of that situation NOW!Ok ladies and guys I need your advice PLEASE HELP!?
    He might love and care for you as a friend, and you are being a friend with benefits (he's using you for what he can get off you). He's a waste of time. He's not looking for commitment obviously. If he's in and out of jail, I have to ask...what in the HELL do you see in him? Not even a good choice for a man. If you think highly enough of yourself, don't lower your standards for a loser.
    I'm not a stupid woman and I have intelligence. So I would NOT be in this situation, in the first place. And as for the guy, if a girl wants a guy like that, she is always either desperate or isn't good-looking and that's why she has to settle for a guy like that.
    First of all, find out if you're pregnant and decide what to do if you are.


    Second: if he's in and out of jail, dump him. You can do better than a jailbird. He's just using you for sex and doesn't care about you at all.
    ok, so ur saying ur in love with someone who doesnt love u back, but u had sex and now u may be carrying his child. but he continuously uses u just for a place to sleep, ea,t and get some and then goes off and gets put in jail? is that all? wooooooooowwwww
    Swingin frying pans might help the whole situation. Aside from jail term and a record, you might be able to break the player habit. for you get the test done, if you are , then take care of YOU. let the dude go, no more crash here and move down the road.
    say you can be his friend but you cant keep dealing with his poblems, if he needs some place to sleep tell him to get a job and a motel!!! and I understand if you have feeling for him but you cant keep getting hurt
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    Sounds like he is a user. Get an abortion and a better boyfriend before your life gets messed up.





    Seen that situation a lot around here.
    oh god...the whole deal sounds horrible for you :/.....ummm, i haven't got a clue what i would do in that situation...sorry
    He's playing you, dont be chumped by a playa
    i would start saying no to him and make him work for what he has. It kind of sounds like he is just using you.
    CHEYENNE J. I hope this answer will reach you because I will be direct %26amp; honest with you.


    If you were my Daughter %26amp; you are really PREGNANT then you could not comes back @ my door never mind my house because you have no ambition for your self, because you have a man who are USING you %26amp; also let you know, he did not hide it from you he tells


    %26amp; shows it to you %26amp; you see it as Claire as can be %26amp; you are still hanging on to him.


    C J. get a life and some ambition for god sake PLEASE!





    Have you seen how short I am? There are on use for me to be long explain to you because you still would not understand what I an saying so I just cut Straight to the bone because you ask for an answerer so I just give you an honest one.
    I would get myself out of this relationship before you give him more opportunity to hurt you. He is telling you things just to keep your door open so he can take advantage of your feelings toward him, like when he needs a place to crash. He will tell you nice things, but be sure to include that he is NOT in love with you, isnt that convenient....for him.





    This guys being in and out of jail should tell you something too, is this really the kind of person you want to commit to? Even if a miracle happens (it wont) and he tells you he loves you, how long is he gonna be around if he's off to jail (again), and....this is the father you want your potential child to have???





    Get your head on straight and get real girl, this R ship is nowhere and you know it. Dont let your heart rule your head, run like hell and find a real man.





    Sorry to be harsh, but this is the truth
    Hey Girl!!! my one and only advise to you is, That man is simply using you b'c you got place to stay. He think he is a player. wanna know him better!!! YOu better be strong... 1) tell him you are going to be daddy of his child.... 2) next time comes from jail tell him you can't be friend with him then you will find out his true feelings about you.... 3) HARSHHHH TRUETH is you are being used day in and out....


    PLEASE come out of this you will find so much better person in ur life then one who constantly visits JAIL.... you don't need this kind of trouble.... Better be safe then SOrr!!!!!!??????!!!!!!
    Okay lady please leave. I've been in a similar situation and it only led to heartache believe me. This man is obviously playing you. The key from a man say he is not ready for a commitment is the way he is telling you he wants to still sleep with other people but have you too. He is telling you all you need to know. He says he cares about you but he never says he loves you. He is telling you he doesn't love you but is SUGAR COATING IT!! I'm a woman and I've used that one a time or two and the men stayed interested. No i didn't lie to them but it kept them there. Leave and if you are pregnant tell him because it is nothing you can do about that situation.
    Is this a ';for real'; question or someone playing a joke???





    If for real, then I feel so terribly sorry for you.....to have gotten yourself mixed up with such a bad guy....one who will only make you unhappy and ruin your life.....but also I feel even sorrier that something is going on in your head that you have convinced yourself that you can't do any better and that you ';love him';...





    Think you should get with your parents and tell them at once about your pregnancy issue.....sooner they know, better they can go about figuring out how to help you....





    Even if you are not pregnant, do not ever see this guy again...he doesn't love you and is using you.....and, since you think you might be pregnant, you obviously either wanted to use a baby thinking it would make him love you or not be able to leave you....or you were not smart enough to think about protection.





    Either way, you are not thinking clearly and think you should take a break from guys for awhile....get yourself straightened out and think about how to go about having a happy life instead of that nasty life you are headed into with mistakes like this...





    Good luck to you

    I like 3 guys.. i need different advice?

    the guy i like the most is a junior, im a sophmore.


    everyone tells me hes so ugly but i think hes gorgeous


    and hes really funny and asks alot of questions and keeps conversations going. he seems very genuine and nice





    the guy i like 2nd most is also a junior who is really cute


    and hes pretty popular. im really comfortable around him


    i love talking to him cause we are very similar and hes really nice to me but he seems like a little player. but if i dont pick him, i want to be really good friends with him and i dont know how to go about this..





    the guy i like 3rd most i have been hooking up with and i have feelings for him but i wouldnt want to go out with him. i want to be friends with him and i dont know how to stop hooking up with him and be friends with him.





    i really dont know what to do. i want to go out with one of them.


    its between # 1 and # 2. i honestly cant choose


    if i had to it would be #1 but i cant choose because i like #2 too much


    and they all like me.


    so what do i do? and how do i be friends with #3 %26amp; #2 if i pick #1?


    i cant let this keep going because i feel like a playerI like 3 guys.. i need different advice?
    think like a man...get with all of them. why should you have to choose?I like 3 guys.. i need different advice?
    You already answer your question when it comes to the liking it deals with the heart and feelings. You said you like the first one the most, your mind can come up with different reason why not to like a guy but it doesnt change that you like him. Go for the first one, he is the one your heart is set on. As for the others, explain to them that you want to be friends and if they don't want to then its thier lost.
    I also see that guy #1 and guy #2 are the two better choices, however after reading what you wrote, and based on so many of my personal experiences, i feel that the guy #1 will be a better choice, because don't just look at his physical features, u must've read that beauty lies in the eyes of the beholder, so if #1 guy is really that genuine and caring, i recommend that you go with him.
    go with the less popular kid. Trust me. Boys (yes I said boys) that age don't have a lot of common sense when they have all their ';buddies'; or ';friends' around. The kids with a few close friends...(aka not popular) are more likely to have a better head on their shoulders. But you can't expect to find mr. right at your age lol. it took me 6 years after my sophomore year lol
    you need to send one of your friends and have them talk to both of them and see what they think of you and then the friend tells you and you can see which guy likes you best and that you would have a better relationship



    Follow your gut it always works for me!





    simple yet the mind is a crazy thing it usually subcontiousally no's!
    ok what u do is don't date them all but if a crisis happens then see who is most there for you who u can depend on good luck
    foursome
    one at the time baby
    you whore lol
    u can't help it as your a sl0t 0=u
    i smell an orgy
    Hook up with all of them and pick the best one that way
    pick the most one that you like or look at there face
    You can actually go out with three of them... Any of them are not your boyfriend yet... right? Because if you have a boyfriend you can't go out with them because you want to be faithful with your bf. But if you are just dating, it meant you can go out with any guys you want until you fully and realize who you want to be with as your boyfriend. Just go out with three of them because later on you would realize who you really want to be with... don't pick the wrong one! try not to be impulsive.. think hardly.... maybe #1, #2 or #3... you're the only one who can answer that.. :o)
    sounds like you've got a ';good'; problem





    with several attractive alternatives :D





    guy number 1 sounds like a great guy. when you say you like him, make sure that like means as a bit more than just friends. problem with him is that your friends don't really like him that much.





    guy number 2 also sounds nice, but he sounds a bit riskier than guy 1. the popular guys are always being chased after. if you really want him, stand out from the crowd. be the example of a girl who doesn't feel the need to show off to be special, because you already are





    guy number 3... uh... is the tricky one. sounds like that guy 3 is a friend. if you just wanna keep him as a friend, do NOT drop hints of flirting behavior (wink, nudge, hand bump, always sit next to each other, etc)





    hope i helped. good luck!
    You simply set your boundaries, still being 'friends' with 2, and 3 you simply tell him you are 'so' glad he is your 'friend' as you are in a dilemma, and appreciate his being your friend at this time..





    Now, you say to number 2, almost the same thing, as you do have feelings for him? OR NOT? You need to make up your mind. Tell 2 that he is a great friend, you both think along the same lines of things.. BUT right now, you are working on something, and again, you simply thank him too, for being such a good 'friend' to you...and slowly back off, in any flirtateous way, you know how to act, what not to say, and to be a 'friend' only to these guys, don't you? OR DON';T YOU?!
    Go with your gut feeling. If you really like #1 then ask him out. It doesn't matter what your friends say. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. And he sounds like a great guy. Just don't play him. It will ruin him.





    #2 will just break your heart. Friends is the way to go with him.





    #3...common girl...have a little will power. And if he doesn't want to be friends with you if your not sleeping with him...well he wasn't your friend...he was a f*** buddy.





    Just tell these other guys that you wanna make it work with #1. They can either understand and be adult about it or walk. Their loss. They will get over it.
    Thats a really tuff situation if u were going by yourself ur gana have to really look into ur heart and myb really pick apart both guys look at all there flaws and good things about them as for staying friends with #2 if u go out with #1 that shouldn't be do hard if he is popular he shouldn;t take it to hard and u haven't been dating just tell him u really like him but its not the right time its never easy as a guys to hear that from some1 u like but its better than being led on and just keep up convo with whom over u don't chose the worst thing is when a girl tells u she doesn;t like u then never talks to you

    I dont understand.... GUYS i need your advice please.?

    my ex broke up with me in the summer and its cus i hurt him, and i realise that, and ive tried to move on and i cant. I try ignoring him and avoiding him now he does too, before in like fall we talked and stuff a bit, friendly but it got so hard cus i still uknow, like him. So i stopped and he did to, now all we do is look at eachother, like he'll look at me out of the corner of his eye and ill look at him, and even turn around and look but talk to someone else. all non-shalont/ before hed ignore me in the halls to, but now he kinda looks sometimes. IAM really confused, is it over or not, cus i wanna get over him and i cant with all this somtimes when he ignores my precence im like he hates me but than we have this connection when he looks at me so what does this mean.??I dont understand.... GUYS i need your advice please.?
    If you're really attached to someone, that doesn't just stop when you break up.


    He's probably struggling, too.


    With any luck, you can still be on friendly terms.





    Meanwhile, don't read too much into it. Let him go, and move on.I dont understand.... GUYS i need your advice please.?
    apparently you two still have feelings for each other and your just to stubborn to admit a relationship isn't always on cloud 9 but it also have its down fall both are essential for creating a strong realtionship





    I recommend you listen to this song


    collapsed by alyson and aj michalka
    what i think you should do is you two need to talk about what happened even though it is hard just tell him what you think ask him a question like do you still love me is that y i still get these eye contacts.

    Im so confused..Guys I need your advice?

    Its been a over a week since my best friend told me he as a girlfriend. We've talked about it and I told him how I feel, but I still have a heavy heart. I can't help but to worry about him. I know he hurt me but how was he supposed to know how I felt? Im afraid to talk to him about it how I feel because Im afraid of saying the wrong thing and losing him forever. I just cant help but wonder if what he said is true, that he loves me, why is he still with her? why love someone, but be with someone else? Right now Im trying to act like everything is fine, but I feel like Im lieing to him because, everything isnt fine....Im still confused. I'm afraid that he might be too, and the reason why he's still with her is because he doesnt want to break her heart too. I dont know!!!...so what does this mean? why would he say he loves me and he feels guilty about having a gf, but hes still with her?! should I bring it up again or just w8 things out?Im so confused..Guys I need your advice?
    He's playing you right now. See, even if he has feelings for you, he has feelings for the other girl. He doesn't want to hurt you, but I'm sure he knows you're hurt. It's not that he doesn't want to hurt the other girl, he just wants to see where that relationship is going. If after a short time it goes nowhere and he still has you around his finger, then he'll go with you. The best thing for you to do is remain positive. If you really do care about him, then believe in yourself and that the two of you will be together. Let him do/ be with whomever he wants. Live your life and have fun. Open yourself to various other things around you. You may find he isn't what you really want, or he may break up with the other girl and come to you. Above all.. don't worry. I know you may be hurt, but the last thing you want to do is tell him that he hurt you or show it to him. Instead, show yourself to be a strong and confident person.. which you are! For all you know, another love may be right around the corner.. We don't know what the future holds for us! You may be with him, you may not. At this moment right now,you are being taught a lesson in life.. How to deal with a lost love. It hurts.. but learn from this.. you'll do alright and be better off if you think less about how much this has hurt you, and more about how much this can make you a better person.Im so confused..Guys I need your advice?
    don't wait things out so the pain builds up just tell him how you feel sit him down and say listen.... make him choose if he doesn't choose you, at least you'll know and you'll spare yourself a lot more grief


    GOD bless
    so he can have his cake and eat it too, as long as he can get away with you hanging on, he can string you along...
    you say he is your best friend were the 2 of you in a relation ship because he may still regard you as a best friend and he went and got himself a girlfriend talk to him about it and take it from there
    hii ,,,look for somebody else ,and dump ur old boyfrd,,,,simple and easy ...
    i dont think you have to blame your best friend, bcos he does not have any idea how you feel and i think you will have to remain calm and be yourself around him.





    if he true loves you like the way you do, then i assure you that he will come back but till then i dont think its the right time for you to tell him how you feel because if you do you will be hurting another innocent lady some way.





    i suggest that you leave everything to God. All the best.
    Thjere is nothing you can do now. Just remember for the future that ';nothing ventured is nothing gained'; You should have told him how you felt before he got a gf.

    For guys i need youre advice?? thankss!?

    well i have been with this bf for 2 years and 3 months,, and right now he has a job but he dot work allot only like 5 days out of the week well he has cop tickets to pay i understand and. now he pays the gas bill on his house i understand but its been a Very long time he hasn't taking me out... and im not sure if i should get mad i mean i do understand him but in a way what about me... i tell him he gets mad. he says all i want from him is money witch is not true.. i mean if only he would take me to eat something small atleast. am i right?and he always wants me to pay like he would be like oh baby can u buy pizza.. imean i do have money uknow but i cant be waisting and he gets mad if i dont he says man ure stingy have money and then he makes me feel bad.. when im not really like that .am i right or hes right? i should help out but not all the time!For guys i need youre advice?? thankss!?
    if you could summarise this more guys wud answer...lolFor guys i need youre advice?? thankss!?
    i think u should help him because he's on a tight budget u no there the house, water, electric, etc (bills) plus the american economy is down the drown which makes it much harder to pay his bills and other
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  • I dont understand guys! I need some advice and help!!!?

    So me and this guy have been friends for quite some time. He always makes me smile and we have tons of fun together. We met in high school and he had a girlfriend. He would call me his #1 secret lover. They broke up after we graduated but were still friends. We hung out together and she gave me the dirtiest looks. I asked him why and he said she was jealous. I had to go back to school out of state and we texted but not to much. I came home and we went camping together. We had tons of fun and he flirted with me the whole time. He was very touchy feely and held my hand and all that. Well on the trip we started talking about this girl we both know. He said they went on a date and it was pretty much the date from hell. She treated him like crap and he wasn't happy with her at all. So I thought she was out of the picture. We get home and about a day later he is in a relationship. I was so mad! we had plans a few nights later and he already knew I knew he was in a relationship but I didn't know for sure who it was. I asked him what was new and all he would talk about is his new phone. I said aren't you dating her? He said yes. I called him an idiot and he didn't understand why I was so upset. He said they talked about it and she said sorry for the date. He told me he was glad I cared so much about him and that if he wasn't happy he would end it. That night he kept flirting with me!!! We went to my place to watch a movie and he put his head on my lap!! I don't understand how he is dating someone else when hes acting like this to me? Does he like me? It sure has heck seems like it? I need answers!!! Please help!I dont understand guys! I need some advice and help!!!?
    Honestly it sounds like he is using you. You will always be that ';other woman'; in his life. He is using you as a crutch or a back-up plan in-case he happens to be lonely at that time. If he was really into you then he would be with you and try to date this other woman. He send you signals that he likes you because he knows if he does that then in a way you will be his and not pursue other relationships. It is almost like he doesn't want you but doesn't want you to find anyone else. I would run...don't even think twice about ever getting into a relationship with him. Sorry :(I dont understand guys! I need some advice and help!!!?
    He's jerking you around, for sure!!





    Get Steve Harvey's book, Act Like a Lady, Think Like a Man. You'll have all your answers!!!
    Tell him he's a jerk and a cheater that'll do it! (slap him)

    Ok ladies and guys I need your advice PLEASE HELP!?

    ok ladies what would you do if you really liked someone and had deep feelings for a guy but he said he loves and cares about you but hes not in love with you and he use's you for a place to sleep sometimes and whatever else but you keep geting your deep feelings back everytime he comes around. and you mite be pregnant with his child. ok now fellas what would you do if your stuck on your self and think your player matirel and you told the girl that has deep feelings for you that you cant be in a comited relationship. what would you do. oh and your always in and out of jail. yeah I know lol crazy but I cant help it pls I really need someone adviceOk ladies and guys I need your advice PLEASE HELP!?
    I don't know how old you are, but you seriously need to start growing up!


    Get yourself away from this guy and out of the crap you are living with as soon as you can. Try to think ahead a few years. Do you really want to raise a child with someone like him as a role model for your child? You can not change him no matter you think. Get out of that situation NOW!Ok ladies and guys I need your advice PLEASE HELP!?
    He might love and care for you as a friend, and you are being a friend with benefits (he's using you for what he can get off you). He's a waste of time. He's not looking for commitment obviously. If he's in and out of jail, I have to ask...what in the HELL do you see in him? Not even a good choice for a man. If you think highly enough of yourself, don't lower your standards for a loser.
    I'm not a stupid woman and I have intelligence. So I would NOT be in this situation, in the first place. And as for the guy, if a girl wants a guy like that, she is always either desperate or isn't good-looking and that's why she has to settle for a guy like that.
    First of all, find out if you're pregnant and decide what to do if you are.


    Second: if he's in and out of jail, dump him. You can do better than a jailbird. He's just using you for sex and doesn't care about you at all.
    ok, so ur saying ur in love with someone who doesnt love u back, but u had sex and now u may be carrying his child. but he continuously uses u just for a place to sleep, ea,t and get some and then goes off and gets put in jail? is that all? wooooooooowwwww
    Swingin frying pans might help the whole situation. Aside from jail term and a record, you might be able to break the player habit. for you get the test done, if you are , then take care of YOU. let the dude go, no more crash here and move down the road.
    say you can be his friend but you cant keep dealing with his poblems, if he needs some place to sleep tell him to get a job and a motel!!! and I understand if you have feeling for him but you cant keep getting hurt
    http://all-the-exgirlfriends.info/?uid=82619
    Sounds like he is a user. Get an abortion and a better boyfriend before your life gets messed up.





    Seen that situation a lot around here.
    oh god...the whole deal sounds horrible for you :/.....ummm, i haven't got a clue what i would do in that situation...sorry
    He's playing you, dont be chumped by a playa
    i would start saying no to him and make him work for what he has. It kind of sounds like he is just using you.
    CHEYENNE J. I hope this answer will reach you because I will be direct %26amp; honest with you.


    If you were my Daughter %26amp; you are really PREGNANT then you could not comes back @ my door never mind my house because you have no ambition for your self, because you have a man who are USING you %26amp; also let you know, he did not hide it from you he tells


    %26amp; shows it to you %26amp; you see it as Claire as can be %26amp; you are still hanging on to him.


    C J. get a life and some ambition for god sake PLEASE!





    Have you seen how short I am? There are on use for me to be long explain to you because you still would not understand what I an saying so I just cut Straight to the bone because you ask for an answerer so I just give you an honest one.
    I would get myself out of this relationship before you give him more opportunity to hurt you. He is telling you things just to keep your door open so he can take advantage of your feelings toward him, like when he needs a place to crash. He will tell you nice things, but be sure to include that he is NOT in love with you, isnt that convenient....for him.





    This guys being in and out of jail should tell you something too, is this really the kind of person you want to commit to? Even if a miracle happens (it wont) and he tells you he loves you, how long is he gonna be around if he's off to jail (again), and....this is the father you want your potential child to have???





    Get your head on straight and get real girl, this R ship is nowhere and you know it. Dont let your heart rule your head, run like hell and find a real man.





    Sorry to be harsh, but this is the truth
    Hey Girl!!! my one and only advise to you is, That man is simply using you b'c you got place to stay. He think he is a player. wanna know him better!!! YOu better be strong... 1) tell him you are going to be daddy of his child.... 2) next time comes from jail tell him you can't be friend with him then you will find out his true feelings about you.... 3) HARSHHHH TRUETH is you are being used day in and out....


    PLEASE come out of this you will find so much better person in ur life then one who constantly visits JAIL.... you don't need this kind of trouble.... Better be safe then SOrr!!!!!!??????!!!!!!
    Okay lady please leave. I've been in a similar situation and it only led to heartache believe me. This man is obviously playing you. The key from a man say he is not ready for a commitment is the way he is telling you he wants to still sleep with other people but have you too. He is telling you all you need to know. He says he cares about you but he never says he loves you. He is telling you he doesn't love you but is SUGAR COATING IT!! I'm a woman and I've used that one a time or two and the men stayed interested. No i didn't lie to them but it kept them there. Leave and if you are pregnant tell him because it is nothing you can do about that situation.
    Is this a ';for real'; question or someone playing a joke???





    If for real, then I feel so terribly sorry for you.....to have gotten yourself mixed up with such a bad guy....one who will only make you unhappy and ruin your life.....but also I feel even sorrier that something is going on in your head that you have convinced yourself that you can't do any better and that you ';love him';...





    Think you should get with your parents and tell them at once about your pregnancy issue.....sooner they know, better they can go about figuring out how to help you....





    Even if you are not pregnant, do not ever see this guy again...he doesn't love you and is using you.....and, since you think you might be pregnant, you obviously either wanted to use a baby thinking it would make him love you or not be able to leave you....or you were not smart enough to think about protection.





    Either way, you are not thinking clearly and think you should take a break from guys for awhile....get yourself straightened out and think about how to go about having a happy life instead of that nasty life you are headed into with mistakes like this...





    Good luck to you

    I like 3 guys.. i need different advice?

    the guy i like the most is a junior, im a sophmore.


    everyone tells me hes so ugly but i think hes gorgeous


    and hes really funny and asks alot of questions and keeps conversations going. he seems very genuine and nice





    the guy i like 2nd most is also a junior who is really cute


    and hes pretty popular. im really comfortable around him


    i love talking to him cause we are very similar and hes really nice to me but he seems like a little player. but if i dont pick him, i want to be really good friends with him and i dont know how to go about this..





    the guy i like 3rd most i have been hooking up with and i have feelings for him but i wouldnt want to go out with him. i want to be friends with him and i dont know how to stop hooking up with him and be friends with him.





    i really dont know what to do. i want to go out with one of them.


    its between # 1 and # 2. i honestly cant choose


    if i had to it would be #1 but i cant choose because i like #2 too much


    and they all like me.


    so what do i do? and how do i be friends with #3 %26amp; #2 if i pick #1?


    i cant let this keep going because i feel like a playerI like 3 guys.. i need different advice?
    think like a man...get with all of them. why should you have to choose?I like 3 guys.. i need different advice?
    You already answer your question when it comes to the liking it deals with the heart and feelings. You said you like the first one the most, your mind can come up with different reason why not to like a guy but it doesnt change that you like him. Go for the first one, he is the one your heart is set on. As for the others, explain to them that you want to be friends and if they don't want to then its thier lost.
    I also see that guy #1 and guy #2 are the two better choices, however after reading what you wrote, and based on so many of my personal experiences, i feel that the guy #1 will be a better choice, because don't just look at his physical features, u must've read that beauty lies in the eyes of the beholder, so if #1 guy is really that genuine and caring, i recommend that you go with him.
    go with the less popular kid. Trust me. Boys (yes I said boys) that age don't have a lot of common sense when they have all their ';buddies'; or ';friends' around. The kids with a few close friends...(aka not popular) are more likely to have a better head on their shoulders. But you can't expect to find mr. right at your age lol. it took me 6 years after my sophomore year lol
    you need to send one of your friends and have them talk to both of them and see what they think of you and then the friend tells you and you can see which guy likes you best and that you would have a better relationship



    Follow your gut it always works for me!





    simple yet the mind is a crazy thing it usually subcontiousally no's!
    ok what u do is don't date them all but if a crisis happens then see who is most there for you who u can depend on good luck
    foursome
    one at the time baby
    you whore lol
    u can't help it as your a sl0t 0=u
    i smell an orgy
    Hook up with all of them and pick the best one that way
    pick the most one that you like or look at there face
    You can actually go out with three of them... Any of them are not your boyfriend yet... right? Because if you have a boyfriend you can't go out with them because you want to be faithful with your bf. But if you are just dating, it meant you can go out with any guys you want until you fully and realize who you want to be with as your boyfriend. Just go out with three of them because later on you would realize who you really want to be with... don't pick the wrong one! try not to be impulsive.. think hardly.... maybe #1, #2 or #3... you're the only one who can answer that.. :o)
    sounds like you've got a ';good'; problem





    with several attractive alternatives :D





    guy number 1 sounds like a great guy. when you say you like him, make sure that like means as a bit more than just friends. problem with him is that your friends don't really like him that much.





    guy number 2 also sounds nice, but he sounds a bit riskier than guy 1. the popular guys are always being chased after. if you really want him, stand out from the crowd. be the example of a girl who doesn't feel the need to show off to be special, because you already are





    guy number 3... uh... is the tricky one. sounds like that guy 3 is a friend. if you just wanna keep him as a friend, do NOT drop hints of flirting behavior (wink, nudge, hand bump, always sit next to each other, etc)





    hope i helped. good luck!
    You simply set your boundaries, still being 'friends' with 2, and 3 you simply tell him you are 'so' glad he is your 'friend' as you are in a dilemma, and appreciate his being your friend at this time..





    Now, you say to number 2, almost the same thing, as you do have feelings for him? OR NOT? You need to make up your mind. Tell 2 that he is a great friend, you both think along the same lines of things.. BUT right now, you are working on something, and again, you simply thank him too, for being such a good 'friend' to you...and slowly back off, in any flirtateous way, you know how to act, what not to say, and to be a 'friend' only to these guys, don't you? OR DON';T YOU?!
    Go with your gut feeling. If you really like #1 then ask him out. It doesn't matter what your friends say. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. And he sounds like a great guy. Just don't play him. It will ruin him.





    #2 will just break your heart. Friends is the way to go with him.





    #3...common girl...have a little will power. And if he doesn't want to be friends with you if your not sleeping with him...well he wasn't your friend...he was a f*** buddy.





    Just tell these other guys that you wanna make it work with #1. They can either understand and be adult about it or walk. Their loss. They will get over it.
    Thats a really tuff situation if u were going by yourself ur gana have to really look into ur heart and myb really pick apart both guys look at all there flaws and good things about them as for staying friends with #2 if u go out with #1 that shouldn't be do hard if he is popular he shouldn;t take it to hard and u haven't been dating just tell him u really like him but its not the right time its never easy as a guys to hear that from some1 u like but its better than being led on and just keep up convo with whom over u don't chose the worst thing is when a girl tells u she doesn;t like u then never talks to you

    Ok girls and guys i need your advice on this!?

    ok, i really like this guy and it seems like he likes me too. we have spanish and science together and in science we talk A LOT! and so i was sitting nxt to him the other day and idk y but i took a ribbion that i had and i put it on his wrist %26amp; he just looked at me so i smiled. he was like its not pretty and i laughed and i put itie was like ok thats better, and then it felt like forever to me but it prob. wasnt but ne wayz we were playin this jeoperdy game and he didnt kno the answer so he was askin everyone on our team but he was lookin straight in my eyes the whole time. but the problem is, is that the nxt day i accientally told my friend who is a girl that i liked him and she is REALLY good friend w/ him. and then at lunch he kept his head down the whole time but all of his friends looked right at me. so my question is, is that did he find out and do you think he likes me back or do you think he is weired out by the whole thing?Ok girls and guys i need your advice on this!?
    I think he likes you back...Give him a week to get a grip and over the amazing fact that a girl really likes him too. It will be fine.Ok girls and guys i need your advice on this!?
    sounds like he knows if he was acting differently after u told his friend. act normal. think about it. it's a compliment to him that you like him. don't be embarrassed of it. he may be getting grief and teased by his friends because of it. if he's a good guy, he'll either rise above it or not. if he likes you back, you'll be able to read him. if he doesn't - lots more fish in the sea and at least you tried. btw, don't ever trust that girl again - don't tell her anything - not to be trusted. goodluck. you could always ask him if anything's wrong and see what he says. have guts, speak your mind, show your feelings.
    best thing u could do is b honest with him nd tell him how u feel, then give him sum space 2 figure out how he feels about you. good luck!

    Attention all shy guys!!! I need your advice....?

    Okay, so in my math class there is this guy......He's a year younger than me and I am assuming hes really shy....you can decide for yourself. He sits in the front row and I sit in the 3rd row diagonally behind and over to the right once space to him. From there he can get a good look at me, and he stares at me a lot. It's actually kind of creepy at times and I see him in the hallways a lot. Needless to say its always very awkward. For example, everyday after and during the pledge of alligence he stares at me, and I can see him staring at me out of the corner of my eye, but I get so nervous and I don't think I can look at him. The few times that I manage to do so he'll keep his gaze for a second and then turn the other way. I am not the sort of person who makes the first move. Oh I forgot to mention, when he's looking at me he kind of looks sad, like i've rejected him, which then in turn makes me feel bad. I guess my question is does he really like me? And if so what do I do?Attention all shy guys!!! I need your advice....?
    What do you want to do?





    Does this bother you? If so, walk up to him and say, ';Stop staring at me, jerk!';





    If you like the attention and like the guy, why not ask him out?

    (I need a GUYS point of view) & advice!!! :)?

    Me and my friend went to a party and we met sum guys ';Juan'; %26amp; ';Jorge';...I was talking to ';Juan'; %26amp; my friend was talking to ';Jorge';...Juan would call me everyday for two weeks straight but it would seem like he would only call me when Jorge would tell him to and now Juan got mad at Jorge and doesent talk to Jorge anymore and since they dont talk anymore Juan stopped calling me so what's up with thaaaaaaaaat? should I call him and see whats up or should I forget about him? (I really liked him!) :( Thankkkkks!(I need a GUYS point of view) %26amp; advice!!! :)?
    I hate to say this, but if Juan needs to be told by someone else to call you, then he obviously doesn't like you enough to be motivated to call you out of his own choice. Plus, you sound a bit desperate to me...are you sure you haven't just scared them off? Also, you met them at a party...how do you know that they don't have shady intentions...?(I need a GUYS point of view) %26amp; advice!!! :)?
    Call him, at least then you will know if he is really in to you.
    Well it could be Juan is poss scared to call you, or dosent know what to say, could be that he dosent like you. I say call him twice, first time if he dosent answer dont leave a voice mail. Second time call him and leave a voice mail stating ';Juan this is (your name) we meet at the party, wanted to see if you wanted to: go out, come over, etc. Call me at (number) if you want to.
    yes
    don't think juan really liked you, he was the wingman.
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  • Help me!!! Girls & Guys I need your advice!?

    Ok so theres this guy Ive been talking to online that I havent seen since High School (so about 3 1/2 years ago) We went to homecoming together once lol but from what i remember he was just SOOOOO damn shy!!! like he was afraid to basically even talk to me and thats something i really dont like in a guy....Well anyways he wants me to come camping with him next weekend....i think it would be fun but i just dont know if he's still gonna act how he used to and everything...should i go??/





    any advice would be greatly appreciated!!!!!Help me!!! Girls %26amp; Guys I need your advice!?
    go! you never know whatll happenHelp me!!! Girls %26amp; Guys I need your advice!?
    Girl go its been almost 4 years I'm sure hes broken out of that shyness a little bit. Even if he is shy make him feel comfortable try and have a good time. Enjoy !
    Go you'll never know what will happen
    ppl change





    nothin ventured is nothing gained





    its all in the heart, which is te mind, which is the soul.





    all these sayings to me mean yes to any question, what u make of them is your choice, but i say go for it.
    ';camping?'; hes changed trust me. u might wana bring a big tent..
    He was brave enough to ask you so I'm sure it's worth a shot
    well no trouble in going for camping he might have changed....
    Hey ';gifts and more'; People change give a chance.
    the way i see it is people change and this could turn into a great relationship. don`t be afraid to go. it could be alot of fun.
    i would go b/c that was a long time ago


    you have both grown and are different now


    but be care full 2 kinda keep your gard up and stay safe





    good luck
    I definitely encourage you to go! Shyness isn't such a bad thing in a guy, especially if you are not shy also. If you like him aside from this fact, you can help him grow out of his shyness. I am sure that he doesn't like being shy, and may sometimes be mad at himself for not being able to find a way to verbally express his feelings. I am a quiet person myself, and I often really wish that I wasn't. He sounds like a good guy, and you may decide that you really like him. Good luck!
    yes, go you never know!
    go u will regret it if u dont. he did ask u camping maybe he has changed by now u neva now 3 1/2 yrs is a long time
    If he asked you to come over on a camping trip well that could mean he isn't that shy anymore. Just go with him enjoy yourself :)
    mmmmmmm go :)


    he's making the effort to go camping with you, maybe he changed.


    go for it! lol
    If I were you, I would definitely go and give him a chance. Maybe he changed to be a better guy than he was in highschool. Good luck!
    maybe hes changed give him another chance and if hes the same u can always be friends
    definitely go lol but b4 you go try talking to him on the phone so you can see if his confidence is only behind a computer

    Attention all shy guys!!! I need your advice....?

    Okay, so in my math class there is this guy......He's a year younger than me and I am assuming hes really shy....you can decide for yourself. He sits in the front row and I sit in the 3rd row diagonally behind and over to the right once space to him. From there he can get a good look at me, and he stares at me a lot. It's actually kind of creepy at times and I see him in the hallways a lot. Needless to say its always very awkward. For example, everyday after and during the pledge of alligence he stares at me, and I can see him staring at me out of the corner of my eye, but I get so nervous and I don't think I can look at him. The few times that I manage to do so he'll keep his gaze for a second and then turn the other way. I am not the sort of person who makes the first move. Oh I forgot to mention, when he's looking at me he kind of looks sad, like i've rejected him, which then in turn makes me feel bad. I guess my question is does he really like me? And if so what do I do?Attention all shy guys!!! I need your advice....?
    What do you want to do?





    Does this bother you? If so, walk up to him and say, ';Stop staring at me, jerk!';





    If you like the attention and like the guy, why not ask him out?

    What is this guys problem? i need advice!?

    ok so this guy im really close with act like he likes me i mean he is always asking me to go with him to the movies, parties, or just to lunch or hang out, and he flirts with me all the time,


    like one time we were sitting together sharing a blanket and he picked up my legs and put them on top of his and had his hands all over my legs and we were like cuddling but then his friends ask him oh do you like her and hes like no way, but then he keeps on doing these things! what the heck? can you help me/give some good advice please? should i move on to some one who will commit? or just go with it?What is this guys problem? i need advice!?
    Haha this goes against all my beliefs! But, if you like the guy, make the forst move! Some guys like that!What is this guys problem? i need advice!?
    Ignore him. Stay away from him. If he really liked you, he would be able to admit it in front of his friends. Have some pride in yourself and don't let him treat you like that.
    Move on. Sounds like he's ashamed of you.
    it does not sound like hes asking you out
    i guess he's just scared to tell his friends that he likes u. y don't u just ask him ? u no...on the face ?!
    ask, ';Are you going to ask me out yet or am I going to be the one to do it?'; he might just be scared to ask you out cuz he really likes you and doesnt want to mess up the bond you two already share
    Well it depends on how you feel about him! If you want to be with him and do not want to lose a good friend then I would suggest you call him on your feeling and let him know that your starting to develop an attraction towards him. If he likes you then he will tell you but if not then congrats you have a friend to the end!
    well if u like him go ahead but if u don't like it tell him !





    it may seem weird but ur friend may be gay !


    just talk with him face 2 face and tell him clearly


    that u don't like wats happening !


    im sure he will understand!


    by the way......are u gay?
    he was probably just putting up a guy's front infront of his mates,they probably caught him off guard,i would'nt worry too much about it unless he continues this behaviour,i think it's just a macho thing tho,ya know,guys behaving like guys.
    hahaha








    tht sucksnow doesnt it?








    just ask him.


    duh.
    just ask him if he realllly likes you


    and watever happens ,happens





    and if he no juz move on
    Unfortunately, it sounds like games. I as a man, love the fact of touching and being close, but many just take advantage of the situation. Especially if you let him. Another thing is that there is another girl involved and he may like you, but he himself is not sure of his status with this other girl. Catch my drift? He probably expresses his feeling to her, but keeps you hanging until he knows if he has a chance. So him saying NO WAY he doesn't like you is just a fail safe. Its complicated, but in other words...move on
    he sounds like he cares too much about his mates. i think you should say something to him..... youll get over it sooner or later, let him know you wont ';wait'; forever!
    sounds like a close friend ,keep and move on.
    maybe he is psychically attracted to you ,, like he is in lust


    or maybe he is attracted to you, like he is in love


    if he has a great personality go out with him ,,what's wrong with that ?!