Friday, January 8, 2010

HELP!! GIRLS or GUYS!! I need your advice please!!!!!!!!!!!!!?

I am 20 yrs old. Ive been seeing a girl for three months (1 month of the time has been spent away from each other on break from college and Ive never met her before this). After 2 weeks I told her I really liked her and asked her how she felt about being my gf. She said she really likes me but she gets scared because she had a long on and off bad relationship in the past that she was hurt badly in. She told me its hard for her to open up. She did say she liked me and wanted something out of it with me but said she wants to take everything very slow. We have hung out a lot and things have gone well. She has moved slow and still seems like she isnt 100% comfortable with me and acts a little shy and reserved around me. I fell in love with this girl over this time. Should I tell her now or just wait til she gets more comfortable with me since she wants to move slow??HELP!! GIRLS or GUYS!! I need your advice please!!!!!!!!!!!!!?
let her be more comfortable with you.. you know lots of girls who had a experience bad relationship learn how protect themselves until they're 100% sure that this guy really true to them.. she may really likes you but shes not ready into relationship..so try to be more patient.. :)HELP!! GIRLS or GUYS!! I need your advice please!!!!!!!!!!!!!?
i think telling her how u feel will make her comfortable with u so ur reeli killin 2 birds wit one stone
Chill. If you start talking feelings again it will appear that you didn't listen to the take it slow remark.


To many people worry about the Gf/BF tag.





If your relationship is going well just go with the flow. Adding the tag just causes more pressure. Whats the difference.


If your supposed to be together it will work If not you will have to find someone else
i think you should tell her how you feel! that might make her open up to you!
I would wait until she gets a little more comfortable with you.
I would wait for about another 2-3 weeks or so. She might get more comfortable with you.
It is tough beeing a guy in this world, cuz so many men hurt the girls, that we fall in love with. Go ahead and tell her that your falling in love with her and she is amazing and all that, it may comfort her and make her feel she can trust you more. You just cant be pushy or aggressive, just be there for her and take it slow, she will eventually figure out your not the same as the last Dumba** she had. Good Luck with ya bro
i think you should give her time to come around. if she was hurt before she neds time to heal herself. sound like she likes you too but she has issues she needs to resolve on her own. just wait it out %26amp; if its ment to be it will.
I would really wait a little longer till she gets more comfortable with you. Sounds like she really really needs to take it slow. Just be patient with her. Good luck
NO!!! DO NOT TELL HER YOU';RE IN LOVE WITH HER!!!





She's already told you she needs to take things slow. Respect that.





Avoid blurting out your feelings.





Let her set the pace.


If you really love her, let her take it to the next level.





DON';T PUT PRESSURE ON HER!!!

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