GIRLS/GUYS/ i need yout advice on Relationship from your experience?

Last month after being together for 11 mos, my GF broke up w/ me. First 7-8 mos we were extremely in love, etc. Last 2/3 I became clingy/somehwat possessive and wanted all her time. Ultimately she told me she lost attraction for me and broke up. ( I know I was wrong). Last week we decided to work things out and have been hanging out, taking it slow with good results, no fighting. here is the issue, I know she loves sex and so do I. Counting the break up and last few months of our relationship we haven't had sex in 3 months. We kiss, cuddle, etc. Last night we were planning on it, but: she was tired, and then when I kinda pushed her for us to be intimate, she said she doesnt know if she feels attracted to me and doesnt feel that ';umph';. It has nothing to do with looks since I havent changed, but she wants to get back in love with me, or at least try. I dont know what to do. I need/want intimacy between us, otherwise I feel like we are together without sex. how do i get her wanting sexGIRLS/GUYS/ i need yout advice on Relationship from your experience?
She wants you in her life because she truly loves you but I don't think she wants you for her lover. She is not physcially passionate about you but doesn't want to let you go because she is used to you and you make her feel secure. You need to realize that a girl who doesn't find you attractive never will. In the last part of your relationship you became clingy because she was pulling away. It seems like she is trying to move on and grow but is scared and goes back to what makes her feel safe, excepted, desired, and love, You. My advice break up with her because things will never change. This will only hurt you and the longer you wait, the worse it will get.GIRLS/GUYS/ i need yout advice on Relationship from your experience?
The best thing you can do is just be calm and give her time to figure things out . You really shouldn't try to pressure her into having sex . That's a big turn off , plus she might end up thinking that's all you want from her.
lol wow well if shes trying then let her do things her way


give her space and dont be too possesive make her feel special just do anything to m ake her fall back in love with you but not too much of it