Ok ladies and guys I need your advice PLEASE HELP!?

ok ladies what would you do if you really liked someone and had deep feelings for a guy but he said he loves and cares about you but hes not in love with you and he use's you for a place to sleep sometimes and whatever else but you keep geting your deep feelings back everytime he comes around. and you mite be pregnant with his child. ok now fellas what would you do if your stuck on your self and think your player matirel and you told the girl that has deep feelings for you that you cant be in a comited relationship. what would you do. oh and your always in and out of jail. yeah I know lol crazy but I cant help it pls I really need someone adviceOk ladies and guys I need your advice PLEASE HELP!?
I don't know how old you are, but you seriously need to start growing up!


Get yourself away from this guy and out of the crap you are living with as soon as you can. Try to think ahead a few years. Do you really want to raise a child with someone like him as a role model for your child? You can not change him no matter you think. Get out of that situation NOW!Ok ladies and guys I need your advice PLEASE HELP!?
He might love and care for you as a friend, and you are being a friend with benefits (he's using you for what he can get off you). He's a waste of time. He's not looking for commitment obviously. If he's in and out of jail, I have to ask...what in the HELL do you see in him? Not even a good choice for a man. If you think highly enough of yourself, don't lower your standards for a loser.
I'm not a stupid woman and I have intelligence. So I would NOT be in this situation, in the first place. And as for the guy, if a girl wants a guy like that, she is always either desperate or isn't good-looking and that's why she has to settle for a guy like that.
First of all, find out if you're pregnant and decide what to do if you are.


Second: if he's in and out of jail, dump him. You can do better than a jailbird. He's just using you for sex and doesn't care about you at all.
ok, so ur saying ur in love with someone who doesnt love u back, but u had sex and now u may be carrying his child. but he continuously uses u just for a place to sleep, ea,t and get some and then goes off and gets put in jail? is that all? wooooooooowwwww
Swingin frying pans might help the whole situation. Aside from jail term and a record, you might be able to break the player habit. for you get the test done, if you are , then take care of YOU. let the dude go, no more crash here and move down the road.
say you can be his friend but you cant keep dealing with his poblems, if he needs some place to sleep tell him to get a job and a motel!!! and I understand if you have feeling for him but you cant keep getting hurt
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Sounds like he is a user. Get an abortion and a better boyfriend before your life gets messed up.





Seen that situation a lot around here.
oh god...the whole deal sounds horrible for you :/.....ummm, i haven't got a clue what i would do in that situation...sorry
He's playing you, dont be chumped by a playa
i would start saying no to him and make him work for what he has. It kind of sounds like he is just using you.
CHEYENNE J. I hope this answer will reach you because I will be direct %26amp; honest with you.


If you were my Daughter %26amp; you are really PREGNANT then you could not comes back @ my door never mind my house because you have no ambition for your self, because you have a man who are USING you %26amp; also let you know, he did not hide it from you he tells


%26amp; shows it to you %26amp; you see it as Claire as can be %26amp; you are still hanging on to him.


C J. get a life and some ambition for god sake PLEASE!





Have you seen how short I am? There are on use for me to be long explain to you because you still would not understand what I an saying so I just cut Straight to the bone because you ask for an answerer so I just give you an honest one.
I would get myself out of this relationship before you give him more opportunity to hurt you. He is telling you things just to keep your door open so he can take advantage of your feelings toward him, like when he needs a place to crash. He will tell you nice things, but be sure to include that he is NOT in love with you, isnt that convenient....for him.





This guys being in and out of jail should tell you something too, is this really the kind of person you want to commit to? Even if a miracle happens (it wont) and he tells you he loves you, how long is he gonna be around if he's off to jail (again), and....this is the father you want your potential child to have???





Get your head on straight and get real girl, this R ship is nowhere and you know it. Dont let your heart rule your head, run like hell and find a real man.





Sorry to be harsh, but this is the truth
Hey Girl!!! my one and only advise to you is, That man is simply using you b'c you got place to stay. He think he is a player. wanna know him better!!! YOu better be strong... 1) tell him you are going to be daddy of his child.... 2) next time comes from jail tell him you can't be friend with him then you will find out his true feelings about you.... 3) HARSHHHH TRUETH is you are being used day in and out....


PLEASE come out of this you will find so much better person in ur life then one who constantly visits JAIL.... you don't need this kind of trouble.... Better be safe then SOrr!!!!!!??????!!!!!!
Okay lady please leave. I've been in a similar situation and it only led to heartache believe me. This man is obviously playing you. The key from a man say he is not ready for a commitment is the way he is telling you he wants to still sleep with other people but have you too. He is telling you all you need to know. He says he cares about you but he never says he loves you. He is telling you he doesn't love you but is SUGAR COATING IT!! I'm a woman and I've used that one a time or two and the men stayed interested. No i didn't lie to them but it kept them there. Leave and if you are pregnant tell him because it is nothing you can do about that situation.
Is this a ';for real'; question or someone playing a joke???





If for real, then I feel so terribly sorry for you.....to have gotten yourself mixed up with such a bad guy....one who will only make you unhappy and ruin your life.....but also I feel even sorrier that something is going on in your head that you have convinced yourself that you can't do any better and that you ';love him';...





Think you should get with your parents and tell them at once about your pregnancy issue.....sooner they know, better they can go about figuring out how to help you....





Even if you are not pregnant, do not ever see this guy again...he doesn't love you and is using you.....and, since you think you might be pregnant, you obviously either wanted to use a baby thinking it would make him love you or not be able to leave you....or you were not smart enough to think about protection.





Either way, you are not thinking clearly and think you should take a break from guys for awhile....get yourself straightened out and think about how to go about having a happy life instead of that nasty life you are headed into with mistakes like this...





Good luck to you