Friday, January 8, 2010

GIRLS/GUYS/ i need yout advice on Relationship from your experience?

Last month after being together for 11 mos, my GF broke up w/ me. First 7-8 mos we were extremely in love, etc. Last 2/3 I became clingy/somehwat possessive and wanted all her time. Ultimately she told me she lost attraction for me and broke up. ( I know I was wrong). Last week we decided to work things out and have been hanging out, taking it slow with good results, no fighting. here is the issue, I know she loves sex and so do I. Counting the break up and last few months of our relationship we haven't had sex in 3 months. We kiss, cuddle, etc. Last night we were planning on it, but: she was tired, and then when I kinda pushed her for us to be intimate, she said she doesnt know if she feels attracted to me and doesnt feel that ';umph';. It has nothing to do with looks since I havent changed, but she wants to get back in love with me, or at least try. I dont know what to do. I need/want intimacy between us, otherwise I feel like we are together without sex. how do i get her wanting sexGIRLS/GUYS/ i need yout advice on Relationship from your experience?
You should talk to her and hear if she wants things back the way they were. Some girls want just a close relationship without sex. Maybe she thinks that the sex messed everything up and made it weird. If she only saw you as a friend then she wouldnt cuddle or kiss you. The fact is, its good that the relationship changed, if you changed nothing about it it wouldnt improve and would end in a break up. Her and your emotional well-being is more important than sex so try not to make it a focal point of the relationship.GIRLS/GUYS/ i need yout advice on Relationship from your experience?
i think thismay be what you need to do here....


1) Go get yourself some new clothes....get a hair cut....look a bit sexy


2) Stop trying so hard to please her and say something like...i know you dont feel the oomph so thats cool, il give you bit more breathing space and go clubbing with ya mates but make sure she sees you looking sexy and confident before you go out....dont say ';do i look nice'; be like right baby im off have a great night and be bit confident in yourself and the brilliant night you are about to have. When my boyfriend does that it drives me wild for him looking all manly and sexy and being very confident he has a great night ahead planned


3) pretend you have been told if you have sex with her your penis will shrink so you cant, if you kiss you end the kissing, if you cuddle end it a little bit to soon...leave her wanting more, if she tries it on dont react to soon


4) Be little bit naughty and flirt a bit, if she sees other women after you she might get jealous and thats what you need right now





Good luck
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