Its been a over a week since my best friend told me he as a girlfriend. We've talked about it and I told him how I feel, but I still have a heavy heart. I can't help but to worry about him. I know he hurt me but how was he supposed to know how I felt? Im afraid to talk to him about it how I feel because Im afraid of saying the wrong thing and losing him forever. I just cant help but wonder if what he said is true, that he loves me, why is he still with her? why love someone, but be with someone else? Right now Im trying to act like everything is fine, but I feel like Im lieing to him because, everything isnt fine....Im still confused. I'm afraid that he might be too, and the reason why he's still with her is because he doesnt want to break her heart too. I dont know!!!...so what does this mean? why would he say he loves me and he feels guilty about having a gf, but hes still with her?! should I bring it up again or just w8 things out?Im so confused..Guys I need your advice?
He's playing you right now. See, even if he has feelings for you, he has feelings for the other girl. He doesn't want to hurt you, but I'm sure he knows you're hurt. It's not that he doesn't want to hurt the other girl, he just wants to see where that relationship is going. If after a short time it goes nowhere and he still has you around his finger, then he'll go with you. The best thing for you to do is remain positive. If you really do care about him, then believe in yourself and that the two of you will be together. Let him do/ be with whomever he wants. Live your life and have fun. Open yourself to various other things around you. You may find he isn't what you really want, or he may break up with the other girl and come to you. Above all.. don't worry. I know you may be hurt, but the last thing you want to do is tell him that he hurt you or show it to him. Instead, show yourself to be a strong and confident person.. which you are! For all you know, another love may be right around the corner.. We don't know what the future holds for us! You may be with him, you may not. At this moment right now,you are being taught a lesson in life.. How to deal with a lost love. It hurts.. but learn from this.. you'll do alright and be better off if you think less about how much this has hurt you, and more about how much this can make you a better person.Im so confused..Guys I need your advice?
don't wait things out so the pain builds up just tell him how you feel sit him down and say listen.... make him choose if he doesn't choose you, at least you'll know and you'll spare yourself a lot more grief
GOD bless
so he can have his cake and eat it too, as long as he can get away with you hanging on, he can string you along...
you say he is your best friend were the 2 of you in a relation ship because he may still regard you as a best friend and he went and got himself a girlfriend talk to him about it and take it from there
hii ,,,look for somebody else ,and dump ur old boyfrd,,,,simple and easy ...
i dont think you have to blame your best friend, bcos he does not have any idea how you feel and i think you will have to remain calm and be yourself around him.
if he true loves you like the way you do, then i assure you that he will come back but till then i dont think its the right time for you to tell him how you feel because if you do you will be hurting another innocent lady some way.
i suggest that you leave everything to God. All the best.
Thjere is nothing you can do now. Just remember for the future that ';nothing ventured is nothing gained'; You should have told him how you felt before he got a gf.
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