Im 20. Ive been seeing a girl (also 20) for two and a half months. A month ago I asked her to be my girlfriend and she said she wanted a relationship eventually with me but gets scared because of a bad experience in the past. She told me twice she wanted to take everything very slow. We have gotten close over this period. We talk every day and are together nearly everyday. We have pretty much acted like a couple (except sex). Since she hasnt ';officially'; agreed to be in a committed relationship with me yet, does this mean she could still be dating other people even though she told me she wanted a relationship but wanted to take it slow??HELP!!! GIRLS or GUYS I need your advice!!!!!!!!!!!!?
ok I think when she says I want to take it slow is, I dont want to have sex right away and stuff like that. Id act the same. Also i dont think that she would be dating anyone, because by saying ';taking it slow'; she already told you that she has a realashinship with you...just a slow one
I think she is smart, and that you shouldnt be forcing her to do anything she doesnt want to...that way she will start to trust you more and more, and like you more.
And you dont have to get that close yet, just talk to her take her on fun dates, and just dont force her in doing things she doesnt want to.....eventaully she will...=) GOOD LUCK!!HELP!!! GIRLS or GUYS I need your advice!!!!!!!!!!!!?
if you love her enought that you see her all the time like a couple, when would she have time to be with some one else. if she wants to take it slow then she means what she says. relax and don't be so paranoid
no. try to prove to her that the bads experience she experienced will not happen to her with u?
give her time. and be there to listen and talk about her feelings she needs to feel like she can trust you.
If she's taking it slow with you chances are she is with other people if there are any. Don't be paranoid.
If there's one thing I've learned, it's don't force anything onto her. Don't push for anything.. if you don't push, chances are she'll do it. I know it seems strange, but it's the truth. Let her take her time about it. If you do find out she's with someone else too, then you don't need her. Until she lets you down, don't doubt her.
my man hugh g....if you want it to work just listen to her and ';take it slowwww'; do not do anything stupid either
Yeah just talk to her about it and say if you don't trust me then you are being completely unfair and if you think I'm going to end up hurting you then you are only hurting yourself by not giving me a chance, tell her to grow up.
Sounds to me like you HAVE a relationship. And if it's worth anything at all to her then she should be more than willing to answer your questions. She's the only who can.
Do you know what the bad experience in the past is? If it's something that makes you think it would make someone want to take things slow..then go with it and take things slow. If it's not..I'd say she's probably still fishing..and her ';eventually'; means after she hasn't made sure there's someone else.
the best way to answer that question, man, is just to ask her...be straight up to her and find out. Killing urself over something you dont know wont solve anything.
When girls say that, it means exactly what she says. Most girls don't like to fool around with all guys. She means what she says. I think that she does not want a sexual relationship until she trusts you completely and believes that you won't hurt her like what happened in the past
no
her heart and soul are with u
but her brain isnt mature enough
yet
just wait a little longer
shell be ready to comitt
SHE COULD STILL BE DATING OTHER GUYS TO FIND HER MATCH.
i dont understand the question
see u love her ya so u need to trust her
n ';generally'; girls never do things like dating 2 pple at a time
u said u 2 r lik couples ya
so if u think u really feel something for her
just trust her
i dont think she would b dating some1 else
i think she loves u but is scared ..... n insecure 2
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