Alright well I first met this girl at school firstly it just began with me saying ';hi'; to her and stuff. Then we became friends. And I always support her through her situations and she did the same. Then at the end of the year I gave her a card for christmas with 20 dollars in it because i was leaving the school. In the holidays we didn't catch up once :( but we still spoke on msn and sent text messages and stuff. After a while i started my new school and was depressed. She starting supporting me through all of it. I supported her to and we preety good from there. After a while we stopped talking for about a month. We then started speaking again but on msn and i found out that she removed me from her top friends on myspace. From that point on she still supported me and i supported her but I always had to be the one to say ';heyy'; on msn to start a conversation. We discussed catching up and stuff but It was like she didn't want to see me or something. I sent her a lovely card thanking her for her support with 30 dollars in it and a message from my heart. She thanked me in a really sweet way. And we just went on from there but we still havn't caught up and i still say heyy on msn. I told her that ';we shouldnt be friends again and that it wasn't her fault'; and she said huh why. So i said im sorry for saying that we should still be friends so we still are i think. Now i might give her money but It just doesn't feel right giving a card and not giving money. I don't care if she doesn't give me cards or gifts the point is she gives me her amazing friendship and support and that is worth more then anything.
she is going through pretty tough times to,
What happend im really confused if she still likes me as a friend but I can't tell because we talk on msn all the time. Or shes just sick of me.
Please tell me what you think is going on,,,
im :( about this,30p!!! please guys i need serious advice about this i can't take it any longer please help :(?
Most likely it's not you; things may be going on in her life that are distracting her. Instead of giving her money, give her gifts instead, to show you're really thinking about her. Money may give the impression you're paying her off. The idea of giving her tapes of yourself is a great one.30p!!! please guys i need serious advice about this i can't take it any longer please help :(?
Why would you give her money, you are a ******* idiot.
She might feel smothered. Sometimes sending cards and money is coming on a little too strong... When people move away, it's always hard to keep in touch, relationships, as well as people, change. I'm pretty sure that even if you were two were to meet up, it would be somewhat awkward, and silent. She might not be the person she was the last time you seen her. It's always easier to give advice from the comfort of your own home on a computer, but sincerity might not all be there... Try meeting up with her, and seeing how things are. If you guys are still the same friends you were before, go from there.
in my sense, she probably wants to talk to you, but doesnt know what to say; im pretty sure shes not sick of you, but maybe instead of sending money, send her a tape of you, and ask her to do the same ; but one thing is for sure, shes not sick of you, unless she doesnt talk to you, but that doesnt seem like the case, so your fine :)
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