Friday, April 30, 2010

Guys please answer. i need your advice big time.. :/?

ok so theres this guy i like.. and we always joke around.


and he blushes whenever i talk to him(: hes only in one


class of mine; science.. and he sits really close to me


and we always talk. %26amp;+ he is polite around me.. like he


asked me to hand in has paper; i said yes; and he said


thankyou.. which he never does. So do you think that he


might like me? because i like him sooo very very much.








thanks..Guys please answer. i need your advice big time.. :/?
yea you have a chance :DGuys please answer. i need your advice big time.. :/?
the paper thing means NOTHING. really, you ahve to get over that sorry. and guys are supposed to be polite. lol


i do think he likes you a bit. keep flirting, just give it time.
Does he have a freckles and a Bluetooth?





Anyways, he does like you, but he must not like you enough if he didn't ask how often you masturbate.
He definitely likes you, try flirting with him.

I have a problem.. i get over guys WAY too fast. advice?

i guess in a way its a good thing... but its pretty stupid... id like a guy, and when i start feeling like its never going to work out... i give up and get over it. its stupid cuz then soemtimes i learn the guy liked me, but by the time he has guts to ask me out, i stop liking him, and I start liking someone else.





so when he does ask me... i always sayy no. i would never say yes, if i didn't honestly like the person.





so now i like this guy, and hes amazing.. but now i feel guilty for sort of leading on the last guy.


i think he still thinks i like him, but i dont. so i don't want to get his hopes up, but how do i break it to him gently?





I have a problem.. i get over guys WAY too fast. advice?
rabbitI have a problem.. i get over guys WAY too fast. advice?
Don't worry I am sure we have all gone through this faze in our lives.





When the right one comes along you will know because everything falls into place.





And you can't have to many friends. So why not be friends first and then see where it goes from there instead of jumping into a relationship.
omg ! you're like my twin!





im the same exact way! but i think of it as : that you'll meet this ione guy, this one very special perosn that you wanna spend the rest of your life with and your feelings willl never chnage for him no mtter what happens.





i can p[icture this niow: you're telling a joke and then he laughs. you say: ah... your a good friend, your my buddy





too obvious? then just say your a good friend lol





hope i helped!
uhm honestly i think your lucky because i dont qet over quys quickly . it takes me a LONG time even tho it may never work out . and about the quy your leadinq on . . well just say that you quys are better of friends , because thats all you see him as . somethinq like that . and qo for the boy you likee . =]
let me guess: you are still in high school.


your problem is not a problem.


it is called being young and enjoying the freedom it grants. you aren't obligated to stick with anyone or become more involved than you feel like being. enjoy it!!!
If you keep whoring around, no guys are going to like you or ask you out, find a guy who treats you nice and marry him, that's my advice.
congrats you're a guy!





Me I just have one-night stands and in the morning I get the f*ck out her apartment! If she's at my place, I send her packing and never call her again!





It's friggin' great!
i think that's amazing how you get over guys quickly. i think i have a new hero.



yes in all honesty isa good thing because when it takes a long time toget over a guy it hurts soo bad
then maybe guys aren't your thing. Go for girls!!!!! ^ _ ^

On line dating advice (for a girl) guys are invited?

so this guy got my attention and really like him ( his profile) he flirted with me i flirted with him, sent me an email, i respoded to his email. but then he came online 2 days checked my profile but did not send me an instant msg, so today i came online, and saw that he was there for 8 mn and even checked if i was on line ( the system shows who checked u and when) so i waited 2 mn and i sent him instant msg we talked about the weather and what i do and then he just wanted to go. is he intrested, is he playing a game how should i deal with him is he very reserved??? what do u thinkOn line dating advice (for a girl) guys are invited?
Maybe he already has someone and was feeling guilty about the previous flirting. That happens a lot. Don't stress yourself over an online chat. Too much deceit happens online. People can say anything, and put up pictures of anyone in order to lure you. Don't invest that much time and effort trying to find ';the One'; online. It happens, but very, very rarely. Most of the time, when they end up meeting each other, they find out that the reality is much different from what they anticipated.


Try joining some clubs or organizations that interest you. You will find that you will meet people that have much more in common with you.On line dating advice (for a girl) guys are invited?
I think that you should just stop checking to see if he's interested and just ask him instead...
Its next to impossible to know if someone likes your online because you can't see a person's body languages. It depends he probably thinks this not going anywhere since online flings can only go as high as cyber sex if your far apart.
Don't do it - the best advice.
  • face cosmetics
  • How should I save this situation? PLEASE guys, I need good advice?

    ok i got this girl's number off msn. she is my primary sch m8 btw. After 2 days, I sent her a message telling her it's me and she didnt reply. So I waited for a couple of days and sent her another msg, asking whether it's her. She replied Yes. I sent another msg telling her that I guess she didnt receive my msg I sent few days back and told her its me again. She's not replying. What's wrong with her?





    I got the number from her. Based on what happened, should i still call her? I thought a text msg won't hurt. I was actually planning a few text msges and a call after those. However, the situation seems dead now. Any more tips? I would appreciate all of it. Thanks guys.How should I save this situation? PLEASE guys, I need good advice?
    I am a girl and I undrestand them%26gt;in thus situation you';d better call and propose your text msg through call%26gt;


    good luckHow should I save this situation? PLEASE guys, I need good advice?
    Just be cool and leave it.





    You've been a gentleman, it's up to her to show a bit of courtesy. Don't sweat over it.
    It appears that she doesn't want to be with you, maybe because you were primary friends i dont know. Since she isn't replying to you often, and giving you vague comments when she does. Don't take my word for it, but i think you should just forget about her since she obviously doesn't care about it all.

    Is the advice of women to guy to ';be yourself'; misguided in some ways?

    Considering that a woman has a far greater chance of finding a mate being herself (say shy and quiet) then a man with the same characteristics? Isn't it more true that women as a whole look for some general characteristics that if a man does not possess naturally, will severely hinder him in dating, unless he ';becomes something he's not?';Is the advice of women to guy to ';be yourself'; misguided in some ways?
    I have never read anything so right-on!Is the advice of women to guy to ';be yourself'; misguided in some ways?
    Absolutely. The simple advice ';just be yourself'; is misguided to just about anyone - it's an eloquent way of advising someone to stagnate and reject all ideas of self-improvement.





    Generally, telling someone to 'be themselves' is advising them not to socially experiment in certain situations - which can sometimes be good advice (pretend to be more outgoing than you're really comfortable with at a bar, for instance, and you might end up with someone who likes who you pretended to be one night more than who you are).





    But generally speaking, being content with oneself and expecting others to adjust to one's flaws is bad long-term advice.
    no i disagree. there is somebody for everybody. for both genders, the shy and quiet people have a harder time finding someone because they dont open up enough for people to get to know them. you just think that women have it easier because you are a guy and you can find shy/quiet women cute. well im a girl and i think shy and quiet guys are cute too:) being yourself is just that and someone will find that special.
    it depends on if the person in question is looking for a long term relationship or not,if there just looking for a one night stand ';be yourself'; might not matter,in regards to a long term relationship however ';be yourself'; is a must considering it's a waste of time pretending your something your not for a lifetime
    I have never taken advice from a woman about women. She will often tell you what she wants, not what most women want. In my experience, women desire different things at different stages in their life from a man. Her advice was misguided to say the least.
    it's misguided in every way possible.





    you want to get with the hot ladies? never listen to them. never look at them as human beings. just look at them as your play toys. i guar-ron-tee you that the ';nice guys'; NEVER get the good quality poosile.
    31 years of being myself left me single.
    totally..

    Please put me out of my misery - guys i need your advice?

    I found someone I thought was 'the one' - I think he had similar ideas. If we'd gotten together, we'd likely have got serious. But a variety of things going on his life meant he was not in the place for a relationship and above all, he seemed terrified at the prospect of it. He's been in touch a couple of times since we stopped dating 6 months ago, acknowledging his behaviour, asking a load of questions, wanting to know what I'm up to and telling me to expect an invite to his upcoming party. On the other hand, he responds sporadically, if at all, to my emails. Now he's withdrawn again. I've done no chasing so far, just been reactive since he told me he didn't want to get involved. However irrational it may be, the whole thing is making me really unsetted and distracted and i can't move on. i'd like to email him only i'm not sure what to say, what tone to adopt etc. Could I say something to reverse the 'relationship' pressure he's feeling, get things into a more relaxed territory?Please put me out of my misery - guys i need your advice?
    You won't believe how much time and effort you wasted once you look back. Do yourself a favor and move on.





    Why is it that even though there are billions of people in the world somehow ';The One'; is almost always within a 30 mile radius? There is no such thing as, ';The One';. We are all just people who may or may not be compatible for each other. It's up to you to use your best judgment and find someone who is just as screwed up as you. JK You know what I mean.Please put me out of my misery - guys i need your advice?
    my opinion as a guy is that you are his Plan C or Plan D. That's why things are so sporadic. he if can't get laid by girl A, he tries girl b, and so on. jmaybe he got to plan c and all of a sudden plan a calls back after all. that leaves girl b and c wondering. just my opinion
    Don't waste your time. He is likely psuedo involved with someone else. If he was interested he would pursue you more. You are only setting yourself up for disappointment.
    Why be with someone who won't have time to be with you? Let it go. He might be playing games, you never really know with guys, and you obviously aren't in his priorities. You'll find plenty of ';the one's';, and maybe if he really is ';the one'; it'll all fall into place, but don't waist your time waiting.
    Why would you want to be with someone who is ';terrified'; of a relationship? You deserve better than that. Either a man is ready and open to a relationship or not. Wishy-washy, in the middle, not sure, sporadic,commitment phobic, game playing men are a huge waste of time. Move on, you will be better for it.
    The answer depends on the type of relationship you are ready to have in this stage of your life. If you are still in the stage of your romantic life in which you aren't sure you're ready to settle down with one person, the way to regain the upper hand is to let him initiate further contact. However, if you have been around the block more than once and are tired of game-playing, you already know this scenario is irrelevant because you want someone who complements your life instead of providing distraction through a chase.
    Get a life! Forget him and move on.
    ... what?
    are u cheating or is he cheating? the point is that if u get caught cheating you might have another Chance wit him I'm not saying your not.you just might get back together again just give it some time OK
    SophistiKate, you know that you deserve better so why are you pining after this guy who's not all that into you in the first place? Let him pursue you if he's interested. Don't settle for lukewarm attitude from a guy; look for flying sparks, electric fireworks, and not pop and fizzle. Stop swimming in that stagnant pond, go swim in the ocean.
    Dear Ms. Kate,





    I'm sorry your feelings are not being returned to you, as a member of this particular game I know how difficult it really can be.





    Firstly - I would like to seperate in your head fantasy from reality. Remember that what could have been and what might have been didn't actually happen, and the fact is you don't know what would have happened if you did get together. Don't pretend to be able to see into another person's heart or head. It will get you into trouble.





    Secondly - you should consider that he might not be where you are at this point in his life. You mention that he was ';the one'; which indicates to me your looking to get married and settle down. You also mentioned that he was really involved in his business and parties. He is also distant and withdrawn.





    I don't think you should settle for someone who isn't showing the same level of interest or is not on the same page as you, be willing to look around, talk with several men until you find someone who shows the same level of interest and is at the same point in their lives.





    Don't rush things, 20's is a good time to learn about others and what you really want. I personally know I want marry a girl who wants to stay at home taking on a majority of the child rearing while I work very hard to keep them fed, clothed, and lead them spiritually. I'm comfortable with the idea of being the only one bringing home the coffee and I want to find a girl who has those same values and is at the same point in her life.





    I'm willing to wait (don't want to) but I'm willing to wait for that girl to come along and I'm not going to worry about the one's that aren't that person, though I always keep my options open ;).





    Quick Recap: Let him go, find someone else.





    Good Luck, I'll say a prayer for you!


    Tetrall
    Don't waste your time - lots of other fish in the sea.
    if he's involved with his career.... what makes you think that he wants more to be involved with..??... chanel your efforts somewhere else and with someone else... you have the right to be as miserable or as happy as you want... choose the latter, move on.
    You really need to distract yourself. Next time he emails you, don't answer right away. Let him figure out you have a life, and you're not holding your breath, waiting for him to scratch his butt. You may never get back together. But, if you do, you owe it to yourself to only get involved with him, if he's interested enough to persue you.

    Please help, to girls and guys, give your best advice plz.?

    Hey, I'm 15 years old and I know im going through the phase where you get pimples and acne and all that. However Ive looked up wat acne and pimples look like there way different. I have been fighting pimples and blackheads for years now! I tried everything from neutorgena to the last thing down the isle. They don't work to good at all and some guys at my school have no pimples, no blackheads, and no acne!!! hows that possible? Please help me get rid of these things!!! Its so embracing trying to ask gils out with this! and yeah there on my face, nose, and forehead.Please help, to girls and guys, give your best advice plz.?
    Well what do you eat? It depends alot on that.





    Eat more healthy, work out a bit, and it'll start going away





    Also, try clearasil...it really works!, also when you shower try using hot water to wash your face also





    Trust me, they'll go away soonPlease help, to girls and guys, give your best advice plz.?
    All people have different genetic material, so different skin types and sensitivities.


    First of all; if it bothers you a lot you should see a dermatologist, she will know what is best for your skin.


    Besides, you should stay away from the greasy food, and take care of your face everyday without overdoing it.


    Plus, you shouldn't touch your face during the day unless it's necessary.


    Remember, seeing a doctor as soon as possible will also keep you away from the scars that pimples would leave after they vanish.
    Proactive.


    Duh :)

    Help with girlfreind!! girls or guys need sum ood advice?

    me and her been living togeather for year n half happiest times she loved me i loved her barley argued or fought now 2 weeks ago we got in to a fight about her staying night her freinds house like a really bad fight next day she packed and moved out day after we got back togeather been trying to work things out she come over stay the night make up have sex i asked her questions will u leave me again showed her my truest feelings she said no i kept asking her move back in she said not now all that for a week then friday she broke up with saying she not in love with me dont have dat spark how can anyone forget all the times we have and throw it out the window like nothing she said she never gonna get bak wit me she just met these new freinds girls they dont know me she never had any freinds when we was togeather she never wanted to do nething i try talking to her telling her how she feels she just act like she dunt care anymore ill ask her to to come outside she will and talkHelp with girlfreind!! girls or guys need sum ood advice?
    too mnuch drama if you love someone let them go if they come back to you they are yours and if they dont then they were never yoursHelp with girlfreind!! girls or guys need sum ood advice?
    You didn't really give her enough space to have friends and now she resents you because you didn't want to make her happy about something she wanted to do. What was wrong with her spending the night at a friends house? You have to spend time apart to find out that you really do love them.





    And how about some puncuation?
    sounds like her outing friend was another guy and she planned this all along find someone that is worth your time
    Sometimes people just grow apart. I am afraid she is moving on and you don't understand why. She has said ';no'; several times and you don't hear her. She has a need now for friends. You can't tell someone how they should feel. Let her go but continue to be nice. You said she made you happy so be glad you have had that. Move on. Good Luck!

    I need good advice on how to decide between 2 guys.?

    I am currenty ';dating'; two guys. I am great friends with both and recenty starting liking one, and then unexpectedly the other guy too. They are both alike and different, i like them both for many good reason, they each have thier positives and negative and i cant seem to narrow it down and figure out who i would be happier with, with out thinking i made the wrong choice in the future. So if anyone has any tips on how to decide, please share them.I need good advice on how to decide between 2 guys.?
    which one do you feel more comfortable with? which one do you think you could be yourself completely,or if thats just way to hard for you put both of their names in a box and blindly pull one out...if you feel satisfied with your decision with a a smile on your face then go with that one if not then choose the one that stayed in the box
  • face cosmetics
  • Guys...Here's a little advice of the day...?

    talk to a girl who you think isn't that cool and see how she is after you talk to her. She might be pretty cool. Maybe that should be a goal for you. send me a email on my yahoo answers and tell me how it went. You may be suprised how cool she is when rumors say that she isn't cool and judge her.Guys...Here's a little advice of the day...?
    Girls .. heres a little advice of the day..





    Never say anything like whats written above


    to a guy


    worst example of a girl Guys...Here's a little advice of the day...?
    I totally agree :))
    Good idea :)
    wtf..... y cant bois ever understand womennnnnnnnnnn. just because people say ur stupid dont mean u r

    GUYS: Can you give me advice?

    OK, here's a guy...whenever he sees me...he always blush, and whenever my classmates tease us...and whenever he's looking at me, he always say ';I'm just looking at some thing';





    I know it's really obvious that he likes me...but the problem is, we never talked...and we're like really shy to each other.





    How can we be friends? Without asking him out...I mean just in the school, HOW???





    Can you give me some effective advices?GUYS: Can you give me advice?
    Shelby,





    Be alittle random ... ask him what he's having for lunch, did he see the game last nite ... anything to talk ... once the ball is rolling ... see where it goes ....





    Batter Up !GUYS: Can you give me advice?
    ummmm i dont know how 2 get guys so my advice might be useless but if i where u i would start slow like ask him something like did u see_____ last night or ask if u can use his pen or pencil even though u have 1 ooooorrrr just tell the dude. but if he really likes u hes most likely thinking of a way 2 say he likes u but afraid 2 get rejected so show intrest in him and see wat his reation is. sorry if its not much
    This may sound too simple, but it really applies to your situation: ';The only way to have a friend is to be one.';

    Help Me Choose Between Two Guys ! 10 Points For Best Advice - I Need It !

    Help me choose between 2 guys!


    Not too long ago i was asking pretty much the same question on this site, but since things had changed. Im in high school was stuck between these two boys who wanted to go out with me , one was really REALLY hot but a bit of a player and the other was just a bit cute but really seriously loved me. (For more info see my first question at http://uk.answers.yahoo.com/question/ind鈥?/a>





    so anyway id made up my mind that in a few weeks i would agree to go out with the second boy , despite him being less better looking but for loving me for who I am . But since I got this e-mail from the hot boy saying how much he loves me , listing all the things he loves about me , how he would do anything for me etc ... When I say hes a player , we are only in high its not like hes going round sleeping with everyone , but he is quite a flirt , is gorgeous and he knows it ! But Ive feel so attracted to him for months and months now and I thought it was just a physical thing , but now I think hes an amazing sweet guy too . The other guy , although he loves me to bits, is just a bit boring ! I dont what to do , whether to take a risk or play it safe ...





    Please help!


    Mariah


    xxxxxxxxxxHelp Me Choose Between Two Guys ! 10 Points For Best Advice - I Need It !
    Stick with the guy u hav.I kno the player seems really hot and it seems like he'd be more fun but believe me the sweet dedicated guy will make u happier in the long run(even if he is a bit boring he could just be a bit shy)the player knows his way around every girl and he has a variety of techniques to get a girl to like him...i know he did make dat list about u but at d same time he wants one thing and thats to satisfy himself he dosent care for u.Dat mind seem like a harsh judgement but its true...the player has fooled u with his';sweetness card';after a while u'll begin 2 see he will pressure u into things,flirt with other girls,get bored of u and move on in search of a new fling.the guy you have loves u for who you are and dosent want to hurt you he wants to treat u right...stick with him!Help Me Choose Between Two Guys ! 10 Points For Best Advice - I Need It !
    well i think you should go with the boring guy and then find your true love cause this just school you no... and that the guy who is really hot trust me he'll flirt with a girl and break ur haer dont do that untill you find out what kind of guy you really want trust me there are more fish in the sea lol
    guy #2 sounds like a sweetheart. just try and and liven him up some, you know? but i wouldn't go with guy #1...you don't want a player that will dump you for the next pretty face he sees, you deserve better than that. go with thet guy that really, truly loves you, and only you.
    I think you should be friends with both boys and whomever else is friendly to you. Forget the bf/gf thing until you reach 18 or graduate. It just makes everything so complicated....
    Only you can make the decision on which guy to date...nobody else can help you





    hope all goes well
    you should try the player but dont move too fast and dont let him try anything on you
    go out with one guy and if it doesnt work out, go out with the other guy
    go for the player!!!! i fyou feel that he's playing you, play with him too! you are still in high school... have some sense of adventure...
    the FIRST GUY
    Looks arent everything but if the second guy is abit boring then your not ditching him because of his looks, your takin into account his personality too. On the other hand, the first guy sounds dodgy... im always wary of players. But if hes written down all the things he likes about you, hes obviously taken time to think about how he feels about you and hes not just thinking about whats in his trousers.


    If this was me, i would try and be good friends with both of them but I would go with the first one. If he starts pressurising you into anything or cheats on you or anything, I would end it straight away cos hes obviosly not gunna change. But you have got to be interested in the guys personality aswell as his looks





    GOOD LOOK !!
    I don't know how old you are, but I'd guess that you're way too young to be settling down with someone you find boring! Go for the gorgeous guy, it may only last a short while, but at least you'll have some fun. There's nothing worse than spending time with someone boring. You should have a higher opinion of yourself and know that you can do better than someone you describe as boring. Take a risk, lif'e's way too short!
    As you are in high school, I would say enjoy yourself and go out with whomever you want to have fun with. Be carefull of the guy who you say is a player as guys will generally say whatever they can to bag a girl (i am a 34 yr old mom - i have had plenty of experience in these things, plus my partner says so too!) You are only young once, enjoy yourself. Just remember you don't have to do anything you don't want to do or you feel uncomfortable with.

    Problems with girlfriend. advice from girls and guys needed. my girlfriend and i have been having minor?

    problems but seem to be getting bigger. like, we get into fights over dumb things like she gets mad if she calls me and i am with my friends. i try not to be short but she gets mad cause she expects me to drop what i am doing and talk to her. the other thing that gets on my nerves is on the phone. my god, she wants to talk to me everynight till she falls asleep. im talking 3-5 hours! it takes time away from me and i dont like that. if i try to tell her she should get some rest or something she says ';why dont u wanna talk to me';. its not that i dont want to its that theres really nothing more to talk about after so many hours. and she'll also play these games over the phone like ';i hate you, say something nice to me';. and ill say something over and over and she says not good enough. it just gets annoying. she is head over heels in love with me. i love her but i mean, sometimes she takes iy overboard. if i break up with her, it would devestate her. i dont want to hurt her. what 2 do?Problems with girlfriend. advice from girls and guys needed. my girlfriend and i have been having minor?
    OMG dump her now before its to late....Problems with girlfriend. advice from girls and guys needed. my girlfriend and i have been having minor?
    Do you love her or not.


    If she really loves you she must understand you what you are saying - stop talking is to late or I call you back and don't worry about You are not good enough.


    I think you love her and be more realistic -communication and understanding go forward with respect for each other.
    Talk to her. She is probably insecure or feels insecure in the relationship. Evalute what you might be doing in the relationship that might make her act this way.Tell her how you feel and show her. Say things to her like you look beautiful, you smell great. Surprise her with a gift or a love note. I relationship is work and you have to work at it. If its lop sided things insecurities will happen.





    If you have done all this, she could just be a clingy girl with no self confidence.
    she seems to be very clingy...let her know how you feel ..its better to do it now and hurt her if she doesnt get it than just to let it keep happening
    tell her it bothers you and you want her to quit or at least calm down if you don't you all won't be together long anyway


    If that does'nt work start fallin asleep on the phone or atleast act like your asleep wait till she hangs up the phone and leave it off the hook problem solved.
    It is really up to you. Ask yourself if you're willng to meet her expectations or demands. Try to explain to her how you feel and if she cant understand then you have to decide wether to stay in that relationship. It's a two way street you know.
    well my freind, it sounds like she is demanding and insecure and controlling. dump her, she'll get over it


    unless you like being controlled...

    Girls only, but I guess guys too, - I need advice?

    I have only known this girl for about 2 weeks now. We've talked 3 times, and the first day she seemed like she liked me. The 2nd day I didn't know, and today I am not sure if she likes me. I always initiate our conversations. I'll start talking to her at the end of class. As we are talking, she 'll get up and slowly start to walk out of the row of desks, to leave the classroom. But we talk all the way out of the room, and today we even talked for a minute in the hallway. I make her laugh everytime we talk (but only once or twice.), and she always gives me eye contact and is genuinely smiling at me when we talk. She is so hard to read though? When should I ask her out? She is shy, until I start a conversation with her. She will say hi to this very unattractive guy when she sits down, but they never talk after that. (Trust me, she is NOT attracted to this guy.) However, she won't look at me or say anything to me before, during, or after class unless I say hello to her. HELPGirls only, but I guess guys too, - I need advice?
    maybe she likes you and is trying to make you jelous by saying hi to the other guy, or maybe she likes you but is nervous to talk to you.


    most girls are very different, so it's hard to tell what they're thinkingGirls only, but I guess guys too, - I need advice?
    i think she just sounds like a friendly girl who can talk to people easily





    im not sure if she likes you. but i know she doesn't not like you.

    Steal girl from boyfriend through facebook? ladies, guys help i need advice?

    Its killing me knowing she liked me but i waited to long to ask her out and now she is with another dude, school is done so only other way is to tell her through facebook, my idea was just to tell her thr truth of how i feel, or should i use a plan fellas? ladies how would u feel if u were her gettin a message of love through fb havin a bf?Steal girl from boyfriend through facebook? ladies, guys help i need advice?
    if I had a bf, I would ignore you. if I had a bf but was interested in you, I'd say thanks but I have a bf. if I didn't have a bf, but liked you, sure, it would be nice.





    just tell her the truth but be candid, be short and sincere, not gushy.


    ';I realize you are with ____, and I respect it. But I care very much for you and had to say ____.'; something like that maybe.





    make sure you respect her current relationship otherwise you'll just develop bad habits, and the same goes to her - if she left him for you, she could just as well leave you for another guy. give her the option to choose to be with you in a way that is not secretive or offensive. hope that makes senseSteal girl from boyfriend through facebook? ladies, guys help i need advice?
    sorry sweetie but that is the worst possible way ever. Do NOT go through facebook AIM myspace ANYTHIGN like that... and plus if she already has a boyfriend she's not going to be interested in getting with someone else. Especially when she first gets with him. It's the honeymoon phase. She's probably crazy about him right now. If you tell her right now she's either gonna avoid you, just disregard it, or give you a ';aw you're too late'; speech to make you feel better. Either way timing is everything and right now is the worst time ever !! You have to have a good relationship with her in order for her to even think of leaving her boyfriend or anything like that.and if your only way of communications is through facebook...you guys aren't the close you know? just dont do it! find a summer love! trust me, summers is the time where you can find people to get with hahah
    Ok, first off, you can't see her bc school is out and the only way to talk to her is thru fb. What's the point of dating then I ask you? If you can't see her or talk to her any other way, then dude, it's pointless! You need to do the decent thing and wait to ask her our when school asks. Don't be shady and ask her out or tell her how you feel when she is with someone else. I'm assuming since you can't drive over to her house to see her that you're around 15 years old. Chances are that her relationship with this other guy won't last long, so do the right thing and wait till they are broken up. I know my Husband wouldn't appreciate it and marriage or not, the other guy would get mad and might come find you and stomp you. Just wait it out. You SHOULD NOT have waited! Lesson learned I hope!
    If I really liked my bf I wouldn't appreciate your advances at all. Big turn off. If I didn't care that much about my bf and was bored then I might like it. But don't start off with your true feelings. Just start sending her normal messages that are friendly but not too forward. If she keeps the conversation going then she might be interested. If she blows you off or doesn't really respond then you know she doesn't care.
    dude, i have had that same problem by waiting so i think if you like her and there's also no other way to get a-hold of her than yea use face-book but don't tell her how you fell just ask if she wants to hang out some time and if she does than ask for her number to get ahold of her but dont tell her how you feel until the time is right or you might freak her out a-little depending on what type of girl she is


    so i hope this helps
    I would laugh and think it is lame. I would never like someone who does not have the confidence to say it to my face. You never know if her boyfriend has her facebook password or he may see it by accident; then you will get your *** kicked. Do it in person, it really is not hard.
    Dont do it through facebook thats cheesy and makes you seem like you dont have any confidence. Ask her to hang out or something and tell her then. I was asked out through facebook once and i didnt even have a boyfriend at the time and i said no...
    hmmm...im a girl...and i dunno what to say bout this one...


    unless u r too cool to be waiting for and irresistable or something, i wouldnt know what to think...and id just say NO.





    but since she recently got a BF, the situation could go with a 65 (him): 35 (you) ratio as to who she picks
    The question is, how would you feel if you got with another amazing girl, and some dude tried to do what you're thinking of doing? Let it go, Sweetness. You're obviously young. They'll be others.
    If you really like her, don't send her a message through facebook. Ask her out on a date, and while on the date tell her how you feel.
    visit Source For your best answer
    creepy.


    u shouldnt have waited that long,


    i mean if u graduated and probz wont see her again i.m her but if ur gonna see her next yr then dont say anything it might make things akward and get other people know u like her
    Call her.


    She'd like that better, but do tell her how you feel and if she likes you more then that other guy she'll probably tell you.
    ring her up or just tell her... i know it seems hard at first but once is over you'll feel much better and she may even say YES!! give it a try.
    just tell her how you feel, do not try to push her or force her into an uncomfortable position.If you two were supposed to be, then you will be.
    Girls are always with a guy. That how they make themselves feel pretty not because they like the guy so go handle it. I steel girls all the time from guys
    id feel like whatever if i didnt like him. but if i did like him a long time ago then that would make me think twice about the relationship i would be in.
    whoaw i aint a layday but i can say u should most definatley try man her boyfriend can kiss ur assass after u steal her from him
    i would probably be scared for you cause my boyfriend would kick your ***.
    i would feel like a kid has no life...i mean come on its the same thing as you ask a girl out through a txt massage...lame...well unless she totally adores you...u gotta do in person ...
    Hey Pizza Guy!!!


    No love messages trhruuu FACE BOOK!!!!


    How lod R u anyways???


    send her a nice friendly email or something . Please


    DO NOT DECLARE UR LOVE TO HER TRHU FB.


    U will suffer latter.
    Leave her alone. There's other fish in the sea.
    Pretty bad. Better luck next time?
    Be a man and call her.
    youz a b*tch
  • face cosmetics
  • Guys please answer. i need your advice big time.. :/?

    ok so theres this guy i like.. and we always joke around.


    and he blushes whenever i talk to him(: hes only in one


    class of mine; science.. and he sits really close to me


    and we always talk. %26amp;+ he is polite around me.. like he


    asked me to hand in has paper; i said yes; and he said


    thankyou.. which he never does. So do you think that he


    might like me? because i like him sooo very very much.








    thanks..Guys please answer. i need your advice big time.. :/?
    yea you have a chance :DGuys please answer. i need your advice big time.. :/?
    the paper thing means NOTHING. really, you ahve to get over that sorry. and guys are supposed to be polite. lol


    i do think he likes you a bit. keep flirting, just give it time.
    Does he have a freckles and a Bluetooth?





    Anyways, he does like you, but he must not like you enough if he didn't ask how often you masturbate.
    He definitely likes you, try flirting with him.

    I have a problem.. i get over guys WAY too fast. advice?

    i guess in a way its a good thing... but its pretty stupid... id like a guy, and when i start feeling like its never going to work out... i give up and get over it. its stupid cuz then soemtimes i learn the guy liked me, but by the time he has guts to ask me out, i stop liking him, and I start liking someone else.





    so when he does ask me... i always sayy no. i would never say yes, if i didn't honestly like the person.





    so now i like this guy, and hes amazing.. but now i feel guilty for sort of leading on the last guy.


    i think he still thinks i like him, but i dont. so i don't want to get his hopes up, but how do i break it to him gently?





    I have a problem.. i get over guys WAY too fast. advice?
    rabbitI have a problem.. i get over guys WAY too fast. advice?
    Don't worry I am sure we have all gone through this faze in our lives.





    When the right one comes along you will know because everything falls into place.





    And you can't have to many friends. So why not be friends first and then see where it goes from there instead of jumping into a relationship.
    omg ! you're like my twin!





    im the same exact way! but i think of it as : that you'll meet this ione guy, this one very special perosn that you wanna spend the rest of your life with and your feelings willl never chnage for him no mtter what happens.





    i can p[icture this niow: you're telling a joke and then he laughs. you say: ah... your a good friend, your my buddy





    too obvious? then just say your a good friend lol





    hope i helped!
    uhm honestly i think your lucky because i dont qet over quys quickly . it takes me a LONG time even tho it may never work out . and about the quy your leadinq on . . well just say that you quys are better of friends , because thats all you see him as . somethinq like that . and qo for the boy you likee . =]
    let me guess: you are still in high school.


    your problem is not a problem.


    it is called being young and enjoying the freedom it grants. you aren't obligated to stick with anyone or become more involved than you feel like being. enjoy it!!!
    If you keep whoring around, no guys are going to like you or ask you out, find a guy who treats you nice and marry him, that's my advice.
    congrats you're a guy!





    Me I just have one-night stands and in the morning I get the f*ck out her apartment! If she's at my place, I send her packing and never call her again!





    It's friggin' great!
    i think that's amazing how you get over guys quickly. i think i have a new hero.



    yes in all honesty isa good thing because when it takes a long time toget over a guy it hurts soo bad
    then maybe guys aren't your thing. Go for girls!!!!! ^ _ ^

    On line dating advice (for a girl) guys are invited?

    so this guy got my attention and really like him ( his profile) he flirted with me i flirted with him, sent me an email, i respoded to his email. but then he came online 2 days checked my profile but did not send me an instant msg, so today i came online, and saw that he was there for 8 mn and even checked if i was on line ( the system shows who checked u and when) so i waited 2 mn and i sent him instant msg we talked about the weather and what i do and then he just wanted to go. is he intrested, is he playing a game how should i deal with him is he very reserved??? what do u thinkOn line dating advice (for a girl) guys are invited?
    Maybe he already has someone and was feeling guilty about the previous flirting. That happens a lot. Don't stress yourself over an online chat. Too much deceit happens online. People can say anything, and put up pictures of anyone in order to lure you. Don't invest that much time and effort trying to find ';the One'; online. It happens, but very, very rarely. Most of the time, when they end up meeting each other, they find out that the reality is much different from what they anticipated.


    Try joining some clubs or organizations that interest you. You will find that you will meet people that have much more in common with you.On line dating advice (for a girl) guys are invited?
    I think that you should just stop checking to see if he's interested and just ask him instead...
    Its next to impossible to know if someone likes your online because you can't see a person's body languages. It depends he probably thinks this not going anywhere since online flings can only go as high as cyber sex if your far apart.
    Don't do it - the best advice.

    What do you guys think of these? Need advice!!!!?

    http://cgi.ebay.com/ws/eBayISAPI.dll?ViewItem%26amp;ssPageName=STRK:MEWAX:IT%26amp;item=220403256122#ebayphotohostingWhat do you guys think of these? Need advice!!!!?
    I think they're ugly, unless you're a guido. Then, they're still ugly but guidariffic.What do you guys think of these? Need advice!!!!?
    i think they aren't all that fabulous. i also think glasses HAVE to be tried on!!! they must complement your face or even the nicest glasses will look terrible.

    Hey guys, i need some fashion advice on this?

    what can i wear this jacket with?im stuck trying to figure it out


    http://www.forever21.com/product.asp?cat鈥?/a>Hey guys, i need some fashion advice on this?
    omg are ou for real?? lol


    you can wear really anything with that but it would look best with:


    Skinny jeans


    a cute shirt from abercrombie or pacsun (v-neck or regular)


    and some cute little sandles :)Hey guys, i need some fashion advice on this?
    a pair of acid wash/light coloured jeans to contrast, and a nice graphic kinda t-shirt with a funky kinda pattern? lol, i just said funky.





    That would look really cool, nice jacket btw!





    Mine? x


    http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;鈥?/a>
    skinny jeans and a girly blouse. deff. and wear heels.
    flip flops, skinny jeans, and a low cut blouse
    jeans, and like an ed hardy shirt


    hth :)
    skinney jeans and like a dark purple tank top??

    Is there any single parent (Mexican guys) our there?i need advice?

    were you hurt by your serpartion or divorce?Is there any single parent (Mexican guys) our there?i need advice?
    Of course I was, but I think that would go for anyone. I have yet to meet a single divorced person of any race or gender that wasn't hurt by their divorce.Is there any single parent (Mexican guys) our there?i need advice?
    YOUR MEXICAN? FINALLY! I LOVE KIDS AND YOU ARE SO COOL. DIVORCE IS TOUGH AND THINGS WILL GET BETTER. WOULD LOVE TO CHAT, IF YOU LIKE. REMEMBER, THERE ARE OTHER WOMEN WHO WOULD LOVE YOU BETTER AND YOU ONLY LIVE ONE LIFE, SO GET OUT THERE AND GET GOING. THINGS WILL WORK OUT. EMAIL ME IF YOU LIKE. MEXXI....MIA
    sure i was, but the tacos and burritos were very comforting to me. -- what does race have to do with this?
  • face cosmetics
  • Hey i need some advice this is for guys only!!?

    ok so guys do you have strong feelings for your gf or do you just act all sweet and kindHey i need some advice this is for guys only!!?
    we are not snakesHey i need some advice this is for guys only!!?
    My Dear, When we are truly smitten, we are only reacting.

    I am so bored what should i do any advice what r u guys doing?

    I'm at work :(I am so bored what should i do any advice what r u guys doing?
    How about having a chat with me at yahoo messenger? Add me at inzaghi_1137@yahoo.com! Got to charge you though, 3 dollars per minute. hahaI am so bored what should i do any advice what r u guys doing?
    thinkin about sex and answering yahoo questions





    of course im a guy so mostly thinkin about sex

    I want to invest in stocks - Do you guys have any pointers? I am new at this and need advice.?

    Get into the habit of making daily visits to some websites like MSN Money and Yahoo Finance. (http://moneycentral.msn.com/home.asp http://finance.yahoo.com/ )





    While at MSN following the strategy lab analysts to get a feel for what the pros are doing and why. This site has some basic information for beginners. If any site offers free information, take it.





    Other website that can provide instructions and help with procedures and terminology are


    Investopedia - http://www.investopedia.com/ Stock Charts - http://stockcharts.com/


    http://www.investorshub.com/ http://www.1source4stocks.com/





    Visit some of the more professional websites like Zacks - http://www.zacks.com/


    Smart Money - http://www.smartmoney.com/ Schaeffer鈥檚 鈥?http://www.schaeffersresearch.com/


    Some of these web sites will have advertisers who are worth looking into also. And remember, if they offer free information, get it.





    Attend all the free seminars you can, just be careful and don鈥檛 get pressured into anything you really don鈥檛 want or need. Most schools offer courses in finance and economics, but very few will have courses on the mechanics of the investment markets, if they do try taking the course. You may want to consider on-line courses, the New York Institute of Finance use to have such courses. Try to get some fee information from the stocks exchanges they all have (had) free booklets, SIAC and some of the regulators (FINRA SEC MSRB CBOE) may provide some free literature.I want to invest in stocks - Do you guys have any pointers? I am new at this and need advice.?
    Two of the most successful investors are Warren Buffett and Peter Lynch. They both have many pointers, enough to write books (Peter Lynch) and have book written by others about their (Warren Buffett) pointers. My advice is to read a few of those after you read ';Investing for Dummies'; by Eric Tyson.I want to invest in stocks - Do you guys have any pointers? I am new at this and need advice.?
    Don't invest in stocks unless you can write a book about the company you plan to invest in.





    Don't invest in stocks inless you are prepared to lose all your money.





    Don't invest in stocks until you read all the studies about how people who invest in stocks fail miserably.





    Don't invest in stocks until you have spent a few years playing around with stock simulators.





    http://simulator.investopedia.com/?viewe鈥?/a>





    Don't invest in stocks until you can intelligently discuss EMT with Nobel Prize winners.





    Don't invest in stocks unless you are Warren Buffett.
    Start in things not too risky. Open an account on Scottrade and buy mutual funds.
    Find cheap stocks, low p:s (price to sales).

    Boys!! go figure what they think.. guys, I need your advice!?

    There's this guy I met on a volunteering group we have in uni. We started talking and he exchanged numbers. The next day I called him and he was very friendly.. than next couple of times I saw him he was very warm and was basically pointing at his cheek so I'd give him a kiss. i sent him a message a couple of days later saying i'd like to sit and ask him a couple of questions about an organization he's in and i'm trying to get into, and he said he'd love to sit and talk to me regardless, but he's not the right address for that.. than he wrote: ';waiting to meet you..';. I commented about something he said, that I have to go and make connections etc and that I suck at the whole political game, and that he's probably more busy so he can just call me when he has time to sit with me. His response was that I just ';sold'; myself the best possible way.. i didn't get that last comment, so just wrote ';?';, and he didn't reply.. later that day I wrote ';waiting for an explanation..'; and he didn't reply as well.





    A few days later I was sitting with a friend, and he was talking on the phone nearby.. we he was done he asked what's up, sort of teased me and went in the building. When I was done i texted him and asked if he wanted to come and sit with me, to which he didn't reply. Later that day I was sitting with a common friend, and he just came and started rubbing my back..





    After the long introduction, what do you think? at first I thought he was flirting, but he would've used all the opennings I gave him about meeting each other, right? I donno what to think now.. my friends say he was flirting with the whole ';you just sold yourself the best way'; comment, and I may have turned him off with my response..Boys!! go figure what they think.. guys, I need your advice!?
    Just make sure you both understand each other someway and it'll all be just fine. Misunderstanding each other can be dangerous if you want to get together with someone.

    HE CALLED ME.....SO NOW WHAT? Guys, I really need advice, I'm on the verge of crying! (It's a little long)?

    My guy has been really weird for the past couple of weeks. He lost his high paying IT job back before Christmas, and has had zero luck finding a new one because of this awful economy. I can sense that he's been pretty depressed about it, especially since he has a ton of interviews, without anything coming from them. On top of that, he's been having problems with his ex-wife and has had to get his car fixed this past weekend.





    But the past week or two he's been distant, will text me for maybe an hour or two, and then disappear. He came over last Tuesday, we were fine, had a great night together (apart from a little mishap during sex), and most of the next day.








    Sometimes our conversations will be the usual, and others he'll just be cold, and not all that flirty. He's usually a VERY sexual person, and now it seems like that part of him is nonexistent.








    My mom was over this past weekend, so we didn't see each other. We texted a little bit everyday, but nothing big. He would always disappear after a while. Yesterday, I didn't hear from him at all.








    Half an hour ago, he finally called me. He really sounded depressed. We talked for maybe two minutes, and then he said he was going to get some food and he'd talk to me later. The call was almost painful.





    I havent heard from him since. I know it's only been half an hour, but I'm at the point where I just don't think I'll hear from him again today. Should I text him and see what's wrong, or just leave him alone and give him space? During the conversation I tried to act normal, but it just wasn't working.





    I don't know what's going on :(HE CALLED ME.....SO NOW WHAT? Guys, I really need advice, I'm on the verge of crying! (It's a little long)?
    aww just ask him whats going on n if its u who's done something (which it sounds like u haven't) and why is he being so distant? maybe hes depressed or bored i don't know but hope everything turns out ok =/ x

    I'm thinking of saving 2 move 2 another town 4 love cause I hate where I live-the guys here suck. any advice

    I've lived here for twenty years and I've been single for three years and it seems like the guys here like sleaze. I'm a classy lady with a job and intelligence but the only types of women guys go for here are 15 year old, short skirt wearing, id faking, club going whores. I want to move to another state near a base because I want to continue my career working along side the government and military...I'm thinking of saving 2 move 2 another town 4 love cause I hate where I live-the guys here suck. any advice
    All the best. Hope you have better luck in the new city.I'm thinking of saving 2 move 2 another town 4 love cause I hate where I live-the guys here suck. any advice
    Well the advise I'd give you is don't bank on this move being a total reinissance for you because things might just be the same in the new place you choose. The grass isn't always greener on the other side. However, maybe a new piece of scenery might offer up some other date opportunities. All I'm saying is don't think this move will make all things better cause it might not.
    Don't get your boxes at uhaul they are expensive. The best boxes come from friends who work in offices and behind Wal-Mart.


    -NmD!
    guys are the same everywhere. maybe you are hanging around the wrong people. maybe you are really not interested right now and you are pushing yourself. give yourself some time. learn to live with just you.
    So move. Guys are skirt chasers all over the world. Maybe your not looking at the right place for a man.
    Line up a job where you wanna go and move.
    first i would move for a better job. but depends on where you meet these guys. and yes alot of them can be jerks but the right one will come along when its time and not before so dont be in a hurry to settle with one guy.
  • face cosmetics
  • I am so painfully shy around guys it kills me...advice please? SERIOUS ANSWERS ONLY!?

    Background info on me:


    -rising senior in high school (17)


    -5'8'; and I guess kind of slender (122 lbs idk if that is it?)


    -I wear what I want (forever21, Hollister, A%26amp;F, dELiA*s, nothing ';scene'; or ';emo'; or stuff like that)


    -girls tell me I am really beautiful but no guy has ever given me a compliment on how I look :(


    -NEVERnever had a boyfriend! pshh or a first kiss for that matter





    I keep thinking I'm some kind of freak or something...or maybe just freaking ugly! I have self esteem issues from when I was picked on a lot when I was younger and I guess I just never grew out of them.





    I'm pretty concerned about how others view me but I like to think that I am not as superficial and dumb when it comes to viewing other people!





    So basically I have like...2 guy friends. And they both have girlfriends! And I can't even talk to them normally!


    It's like...I run out of things to talk about, and I can't look them in the eyes because I can just feel them staring at all the things that are wrong with me. We can have a shitload of fun when around other people but I guess I'm really uncomfortable being alone with guys!





    Before one of them got a girlfriend we were at a pool and he invited me out to eat, just him and me and I totally freaked out and made my (girl) friend come with us.





    And that's with guys I've know for a long time too!


    With people I've just met I don't even know, my body just freezes up and my pulse gets super fast and I don't know what to say or how to act so I just stay silent and act like a total lame idiot!





    Help me :(I am so painfully shy around guys it kills me...advice please? SERIOUS ANSWERS ONLY!?
    I'm speaking as a guy on the opposite side of the fence--who is still a little shy around girls but who was paralyzingly so in my teens--and I think I may have a solution to at least the ';fear'; part of your problem.





    Don't focus on them as boys; focus on them as people!





    While there are some obvious big differences between men and women, especially when it comes to romance, men and women are more alike on most things than they are different. So the next time you are alone with a guy and start freaking out, think, ';He is probably having the same worries that I am: do I look good enough? What does she think of me? Am I acting cool or awkward? etc.'; Because 99 times out of 100, the guy is having concerns at least pretty similar to the ones you are having.





    Just accept the fact that dating (and relations between the sexes in general) are hopelessly awkward on both sides, and just shrug your shoulders and have fun. Just be yourself, realize that your fear is irrational, and (again) HAVE FUN! :)I am so painfully shy around guys it kills me...advice please? SERIOUS ANSWERS ONLY!?
    im the same btu im a guy lol. You probably aren't ugly or anything and you do sound a very ncie weight for your height. I was the same with self confidence but I think better of my self now but still am very shy.
    id say that ur just going to have to step outa ur box. an maybe ull be happy that u did. if u make a mistake oh well. thats what life is about. learning from ur mistakes.
    Don't worry. I'm 13 and I havn't had a boyfriend. I am pretty popular, but I get too shy around boys. Every guy that has asked me I have turned down because they were creeps. I dont even have any guy friends and its embarressing. Two years ago I wasnt popular, but when I started Jr. high, I became best friends with all the pretty cheerleaders, but not guys.
    I feel like this too..





    Try spending more time with boys..


    And DON'T invite any of your girl-friends along..


    You might feel extremely nervous to begin with but once you're there, you'll have no other option but to talk to boys..


    This will give you a chance to be sociable to other people, whereas if you bring a friend along, then you'll probably back out of talking to boys and just talk to her instead..





    Try to be more confident..


    It's definitely a lot easier said than done..


    But try smiling everytime you see a guy - that way, the atmosphere will become more relaxed..


    Imagine them to be like your friends..


    Don't think fo them as boys - just think of them as people who you've known for ages..





    Conversations are always hard though with guys cos' girls and boys are so different in the way they think..


    Try talking about something universal such as what you did over the weekend..


    Make sure you look interested in what he's saying and make sure you sound interesting too..


    Make a few jokes too if it's appropriate - that way, he can see that you have a good sense of humour..





    Finally, I feel this is the least important but you could maybe try wearing clothes that would make you stand out more?!


    Not too revealing otherwise they'd think you were too desperate but something a bit more girly with a pair of heels..


    Something that catches their eye..





    I hope I've helped - good luck! :)
    i was the same way that your are now. i thought i was wicked ugly and so tall( i'm 5'10) i thought wow no guy ever talks about me like the other girls. what you have to do is have confidence in your self you have to know that your pretty and that guys might not talk to you because they don't really know you for who you really are. its not about clothes but its about your attitude toward your look. and when your hanging out with the guys be yourself and just be the normal you instead of trying to impress them. hope this helps :)
    You would be a pretty popular girl if everyone spent as much time thinking about you as you think they do. You have to realize that people usually think about themselves most of the time--they are not analyzing every thing you do and say. Remember that you are not on a stage in the spotlight with all eyes on you. You are just like all the other girls, you just worry more than they do. When you talk to a guy, try to treat them like you would any friend, not as if they are more special than anyone else. Probably guys see you as unapproachable. Sometimes just smiling is enough to let others know you are a friendly person. There are probably plenty of things that interest you. That's what you should talk about, those things you are comfortable talking about--movies, music, whatever. Also, ask questions, guys love talking about themselves and it shows that you are interested in knowing them. Think ahead about questions you can ask anyone, then you'll be prepared when the conversation stalls.

    Can any girls or guys give me some advice?

    Okay. So there's a guy I totally have a hugeee crush on. Last year we had one class together and I started liking him because I'd see him looking at me in class and he has a friend that lives on my street and he came riding his bike past me one time when I was walking the dog. I walked home from school through his community and he and his friend rode past on their bikes and I'm pretty sure his friend whistled but I don't remember because there were other people walking. This year again we have one class together and we sit in rows and we both sit in the second seat but he's the row farthest from where I sit. We look at eachother a lot but we can't talk because one we sit too far away and two I feel like if he likes me, he should make the move. I can't tell if he does and everyone says we'd look so good together. Another thing is my friend was in band last year with him and he said he liked someone with brown hair and brown eyes (which I have) but when she said was it (my name)? he said no. Not a nooooooo just a no. He is quiet and he doesn't flirt with girls hardly ever and I guess he could've just said no because he's shy and knew she was my friend but I am just so confused and depressed. It's no fun to like someone that you know you have no chance with. Thanks for the advice and help.Can any girls or guys give me some advice?
    get to know him girlie ! How can you have a crush on someone you dont talk to at all right? Start up a conversation%26amp;introduce yourself and become best friendss ! trust me in ever boy girl frienship, one starts to fall for the other eventually !

    GUYS - what would your best advice to women be ?

    What do you really wish women knew? Share you wisdom, if you were to pass on one advice to girls what would it be ?GUYS - what would your best advice to women be ?
    Listen to your instinct first, your girlfriends last.GUYS - what would your best advice to women be ?
    just show interest .. n tht u care , its not obvious 2 guyz tht u care n all crap v need attention ... n u'll be surprised tht how much your guy loves ya
    To keep themselves involbed in all sector %26amp; to keep fit to having honour from all respect.
    Go blind, deaf and mute. And do whatever we put you in the position to do.(Not thinking entirely through perversion) 'Just a thought'
    boys lie
    Just be yourself, it will be easier 4 u if u impress us by who u are, rather than something ur not.
    women should be more understanding, not always yelling.
    Show enthusiasm.
    i agree w/ the goldfish dude
    put out, YOU will be more popular.
    goldfish have a memory span of three seconds
    the shy quiet guy's sometimes needs a push or a hug. They sometimes dont understand that people like them.
    One advice........that would be to women, find out where the void in the man's life is, and find a way to fill it. You do that, he will never leave you and treat you as a queen. Does a person shun the air they need? Or the blood in their body? Be as that to a man, he will love and respect you FOREVER. Also a close second(and I know it is outside the parameters of the questions of ONE piece of advice)would be to make him feel like a king, and a true gentleman will return it by treating you as a queen.
    Don't flirt around if you don't mean it and don't be afraid to make the first move. Guys love this.
    be more open to starting a coversation wit us
    We are not all like you think or have been told we are.





    We can be compationate and loving.
    Accept us for who we really are, and we will move mountains for you.
    1) Quit trying to change us.


    2) Don't change. We want you to stay the same way we found you.


    3) Spending money is not necessarily a bad thing.


    4) Driving and talking on your cell phone don't mix very well.


    5) Driving and putting on your makeup don't mix very well.


    6) I swear I wasn't looking at that chick's butt.


    7) I swear I wasn't looking at that other chick's butt.


    8) Your not fat. You never were fat. You never will be fat. Period. End of story.


    9) You look great in anything.


    10) Just pick any pair of shoes. It doesn't matter to me.
    I would tell everyone woman to achieve their goals, work hard, and be somebody!
    All guys just want to be there for a women and provide them with what ever it is they desire !!!
    dont take any **** from guys nevery and when you ask them to do some thing make sure you dont have to ask them twice
    be a lady. and be in control of yourself.
    Don't worry about what others may think of you. I see that alot of females are always trying to stay one step ahead so they won't get hurt, when, fact of the matter is, most of them need to stop living in a fairy tale romance believing that Mr. Prince Charming is going to ride up on a horse from the blistering sunset, well, wake up and smell the java. True, you may find someone thattt is god for you, but don't expect him to know everything or that the relationship will always be peaches and cream with syrup and a cherry on top. I think what I'm trying to say is- be realistic.
    your allowed to make the first move too
    Stop being cheap. if you can spend $200+ at the mall in one day, then you should be able to chip in on a date instead of sitting back like the guy should pay for everything!
    do not believe all as such
    Love me, Support me, Be kind to be, Be understanding, accept my faults...





    all these qualities make a woman extremely lovable and attractive

    Guys only????I need your advice? Opinions?

    ok What kind of signals do u get from a girl that shows that they like u ?


    and if u have time, What kind of signals do u give off?


    Guys only????I need your advice? Opinions?
    eyes contact touching smiling hitting all these stuff Guys only????I need your advice? Opinions?
    1. she puts her arm around me.


    2. she asks me out.


    3. she talks on-line for a long time with me.


    4. ****someone calls her when we're talking, and she shuts the phone off (very important)





    me. (well, my signals are totally delayed).


    1. a random hug


    2. i'll ask her out.


    3. laughing and talking alot.
    I'm a terrible people reader, so i never know it when a girl is hitting on me, but when i hit on girls I usually tend to talk and text to her alot and try to make her notice that i'm trying to treat her special
    All i got to say is forget about it. The only reason girls go out is to use you and then throw you away. ( i just had a bad issue so dont take this seriously.)
    Well looking at each other then start to talk and then how close you stand next to each other and sometimes you just know you get that feeling which is hard to describe.
    Girl will start talking to u more than usual. Keeping her eye on u, being around u more. Flirting. u flirt back, use her game and replicate it. Then make a move.
    when she shows up naked...is a pretty good sign

    Guys and Girls....I need advice on getting hot for a party tonight?

    I haven't been single for 2 1/2 years so bare with me. I'm going to my friend's 21st. There is this guy who will be there that gave me his number and he's pretty cute. What should I do to be extra hot but not overdoing it? I really want to grab the guyS attention but in the right way.Guys and Girls....I need advice on getting hot for a party tonight?
    HI VENICE21SWEETIE THX YOU FOR PICKING MY ANSWER!! WELL I THINK YOU SHOULD GIVE HIM A CALL HE WANTS YOU TO CALL HIM!! AND YOUR HOT EITHER WAY !! I LOOK AT IT ';YOUR NOT GOING TO OVER DO ANYTHING JUST BE YOUR SELF, DRESS A LITTLE SEXY THAT WILL BE ENOUGH! HE LIKES YOU! AND SO DO YOU. HE'S ONLY GOING TO WANT YOU EVEN MORE BABE!!! YOU HAVE HIS ATTENTION ALREADY!! I HOPE YOU HAD A GREAT WEEKEND AND I HOPE YOU HAVE A GREAT DAY SWEETHEART!!XOXOGuys and Girls....I need advice on getting hot for a party tonight?
    Try to be normal , do not give him more attention than others, he should have the sense to see you with his eyes and heart

    Report Abuse



    Dress to impress , get his attention and head for private spot to get to know him better...
    you are hot, so just be you and flirt a lot w/ him. personally i like tight revealing clothing, not slutty but nice clothes to reveal your as-setts if you know what i mean.
    wear something nice, bt not vulgar. and when u see him, just smile and look him in the eye.
    Show him some attention. Bring your smile, and your sparkling eyes..
    Be yourself, but be fun %26amp; enjoyable to be around. Don't get too drunk and become a totally different person, mean or cry baby as some people get.





    Don't look all slutty and ';ready to go';, even if you are. Tone the look down a bit. Guys don't really like the glammed out-high maintenance girls too much. There are some guys, but not all.
    Looking the way you do.....you should be fine. He would be crazy or gay to not try to take you right there.
    Wear jeans and a tank top and not to much make up just be you and you will get his attention.





    Have fun!!!!

    Guys, help me, I need advice!?

    I REALLY like this guy i go to school with. I want him to ask me out. The only problem is that he has a girlfriend (my ';enemy';). What should I do? (don't tell me he's off limits because I don't care) How can I flirt with him to make him like me back??? HELP!Guys, help me, I need advice!?
    tell him something negative about his girlfriend (needs to be true though). then just flirt with him like you would any other guy
  • face cosmetics
  • Guys and girls i need advice really bad!?

    Okay so me and this guy broke up over a month ago now! Well he started spreading rumors about me that weren't true! It hurt me really bad! I started to move on and it seems like everytime i take a step up i get knocked back down ten steps! i just want to forget and move on but how can i when people are always talking about him and they laugh at me because of the things he has told them! The things weren't true and i'm not the type of person to go and spread things! What should I do?Guys and girls i need advice really bad!?
    wow...... im sorry to say, but thats gonna be haunting you for the rest of your life unless you change schools. this is just my my friends problem (a girl). the guy spread rumors about him and her having sex..... she switched schools.Guys and girls i need advice really bad!?
    keep your head up


    keep a smile on your face


    be friendly to everyone


    have a sense of humour


    ignore his ***





    indifference is much more insulting then fighting back.
    just deny them. tell them to truth. say that he is the liar.


    hes probably really upset about the breakup, and that y hes spreading rumors. typical immature boys.


    if anything, just talk to him and tell him to grow up and to stop saying all these lies.


    and whenever you hear the rumors just say the truth. theyll go away soon
    If u can, prove those rumors wrong.


    but try not to let them bother u much.


    times like those is when u know who your real friends are..


    Same kind of thing happened to a friend.. so she burned him soo bad in front of like half the school and now people have respect for her again.


    good luck:)
    Just keep your head up, focus on your life and move on, the guy is a jerk and it is because of a**holes like him all guys have a bad name.

    Guys-,!- I need a little advice here,?

    I like a boy, and he likes me, i know for sure he does, (The ';dad'; He's staying with cant hold onto a secret) but, i'm really really shy, i'll talk and everything, but i want him to ask me out... should i just ask him out?Guys-,!- I need a little advice here,?
    when are you girls gonna realize that you deserved to be chased a little? make it obvious you like him and he will ask. unless he's a weiner. in that case yes, you will have to ask him out. be prepared to wear the pants in that relationshipGuys-,!- I need a little advice here,?
    If you are sure that he likes you back, then go for it! If you don't want to ask him out because you are too shy to do it, just talk to his friends and start hinting that you like him to them, and for sure they will tell him %26amp; that will encourage him to either ask you out, talk to you about it, or flirt more with you (if he does - then you know you can definetely ask him out!)





    Good luck!
    well if your that sure he likes you i dont see why not :) plus guys usually have to make the first move. but we actually like it if the girl does it too. it makes her seem confindent and shows she actually wants to be with you. shes not just accepting everything the boy says just because she feels like it. im sure he'll like it too. when you ask him out when he says yes you can turn it into a game and ask him to ask you out now. that way you both asked eachother out. BEST OF LUK :)


    DAY DREAMER :S
    Talk to him!


    DONT Ask him will you go out with me buttttttt


    ask him if he likes you dont get teh anwser form his dad get it form him


    if he confesses say well I like you to


    if hes a little slow ask him what he wants to do and if he says idk


    hes not ready for a relation ship (or hes shy lol)


    but dont stop there


    tell him well i was thinking we could go out


    and if he says yah i think we should


    then if he doesnt say you wanna go out with me you say it


    be strong were not in teh old days were the guy asks the girl


    Ive asked 2 guys out and they both said yes


    hope i helped











    p.s need more advise talk to me on aim kdirtyblonde21





    p.s.s or go on www.talk2menow.webs.com
    Yes you should just ask him out!


    or,


    You can talk to him and ask if he likes you. Being the protective male he probably is (all of them are like that) he'll say no, either slowly or quickly and fiercely. or nervously. Anyway, just say oh, and look disappointed after that. He may get a clue and ask why and you should just tell him. Then maybe he'll ask you. Tho I'm just guessing. Hope I helped.
    well, odds are hes really really shy too. so in that case, without directly asking him out, invite him to go out with you one night. ask him if he wants to catch a movie or something(something your into, whatever that is) then take it from there. be flirty. and if he still doesn't bite....then just come out and ask him '; when are you going to ask me out already????? GEEZE lol'; that should do it.
    yea, guys dont care, and as a matter of fact we like it more, because if he really likes you he might now know you like him and then by you asking him out he doesnt have to risk your guys friendship because then hele know you doo ;) go for it
    dont make it all formal like ';hey will you go to the movies with me';





    just tell him hey im going to the movies on saturday. wanna go?





    sounds like the same thing but the point is to let him know your going with or without him. thats asking him out without putting yourself in an akward position
    Go for it. Either tell him how you feel, or just ask him out. Asking a girl out is scary to us guys, so the odds of him making any kind of move are low, so take action, if you want this to go anywhere.
    Start a conversation with him and flirt, if he's up to it he might gain the courage to ask you out.


    But if he likes you it doesn't matter who asks first. ;)





    Good Luck.
    Yeah! Ask him out. I'm a guy and I think it would be so sweet of a girl to ask a guy out. Don't be shy, it's just going out. If you keep waiting, you may never get the chance to go out with.
    Im just like you. I always feel that the guy should ask me out, but usually guys are too chicken to ask out a girl if they are pretty. So i think you should just go for it. :)
    You don't need to be so formal. If you like each other then just put aside some time to hang out together. Don't make it into a big spectacle or milestone. Just enjoy the time you spend together.
    he is probably shy too. ask him out if he is afraid to ask. its better to ask and be embarrassed then dont and regret it forever
    Just ask him out theres a 100% chance he will say yes so u dont gotta worry bout being put down and guys are scared as crap to ask out girls so if u do it he will be so happy and relieved of stress
    ummm give him more stronger hits and clue almost asking him out. if it doesnt work then this guy is dumb, but if you still like him ask him out your self.
    definitely! he's probably waiting for you to.
    Yea Go For It Alot Of Girl's Dont Know This But Guys Sometimes Wait For The Girl To Ask.
    in this century and modern time girls are independent and strong, and take charge.. so yea.. if u like him ask him out, so it wont stalk ur mind long.. im 15 and i respect any girl that asks me out.
    if u like him u should ask him out. guys like it when they get asked out wether they say yes or no.
    If you like him he likes you. Go for it! Even though the guy should ask the girl, it's still ok.
    when there is an awkward moment alone just be like so when are you gonna ask me
    If you feel he's too slow then yes.
    i would jus ask him out


    go for it


    both of u like each other so wats


    d problem?
    well a question never hurt a fly ;)





    Expert In: SiNGLES %26amp; DATING
    Yes. Don't wait for life to come and get you, you have to grab it.

    Guys and Gals I need advice...please help!!?

    Ok so I am making my boyfriend dinner for the first time ever. I want him to be soooo pleased with his meal, you know they say the stomach is the way to a man's heart:) So if you have any ideas, or recipes, or know what you would love if your girlfriend made you a special dinner, please let me know! Thank you so muchGuys and Gals I need advice...please help!!?
    I would make some Kraft Mac and cheese and pop tarts for desert.


    That will be a meal for a king.Guys and Gals I need advice...please help!!?
    Option 1 - Steak and Potatoes (Sans potatos)





    He'll (usually) love it, if you make it perfectly. Usually well done with a little red. (Medium Well)





    Option 2 - Chicken, stuffing, all the trimmings.





    This one's less conventional, and not as ';Girlfriend'; more, wife.


    Might come on a bit strong.





    Option 3 - Pasta and Meatballs (Or spicy sausage)





    This one should be just perfect, but it's a big cliche.





    Option 4 - Roast Duck Ala Orange





    Ignore this one.





    Option 5 - Ask him what he's in the mood for!





    As far as ';Sure Thing'; goes on food, the above list is fine, but it's always smart to ask what someone wants before giving them something they don't.
    You know you should try the Hamburger helper and a movie type deal. Its not how much the meal cost or what it take to cook it. All that matters is that it is good and the movie is funny or full of action.





    My wonderful wife makes a Lasagna hamburger helper and it is killer. I love it.





    It also depends on what he likes. does he like hamburger helper.
    This is an impossible question. There is no ONE sure fire recipe to a mans heart. You have to tell us what part of the country? What type of food he likes?





    Someone suggested spaghetti..


    1) that is nothing


    2) what if he hates tomatoes or is allergic?





    We need more info.
    steak


    hot bread w/butter


    cheese potato casserole


    his favorite veggie


    brownie w/ice cream %26amp; fudge





    **recipe to DELICIOUS cheese potato casserole is below!
    Most guys don't like a complicated meal, make it something traditional. A good idea is steak with some great spices and a good side. You can also him what his favorite food is and make that.
    Keep it simple.. less stress.. just make sure your house is clean, get a candle lit, play some music and dress appropriately.. from there go with something you know he likes.. a homemade burger with all the fixins... a steak and potato and a salad... homemade pie...
    1-800-Pizzahut





    Make something practical and laid back. Cooking some food that takes over an hour to make is not as good as making some Hamburger Helper (12-15mins) and getting a 30 minute back rub....
    no...the stomach is the way to the giant worm


    http://codeofvulgarizm.tripod.com/sitebu鈥?/a>
    Find something that you know he likes and put a twist on it, by adding different ingredients. Don't forget dessert, how about strawberry shortcake topped off with ice cream.
    you can never go wrong, or screw up spaghetti and texas toast. and to go all out, cook up some chicken and toss it in with the spaghetti.
    I would have a light salad. Next I would have pasta and chicken with garlic bread on the side. Your drink can be what ever. For desert I would have a ice cream sundae. Thats just my favorite meal. Hope it helped!
    pasta
    Maybe a home made lasagna, green bean casserole, and garlic bread with sweet tea?
    basketball
    I think ziti and garlic bread is nice. But never do burritos. :op
    make him mutton.
    pb and j
    figure out what his favorite type of food is.


    then loook up pon food network or just online for a good recipe.

    Hey you guys will you give me some advice on how I can improve on my appearance!!?

    I have never done this before Its sort of a dare that I have to do instead of talking to crush but anyway!! Will the guys rate me!! And will you girls gimme some fashion or makeup advice!! Thanks!!


    http://s255.photobucket.com/albums/hh145…Hey you guys will you give me some advice on how I can improve on my appearance!!?
    You're beautiful the way you are,actually.





    Your eyebrows need plucked,but that's about it. you have a natural beauty,you don't need make up,don't go trying to look like every other girl inthe world with ten pounds of make up on.





    good luck,don't trim your eyebrows ALL the way off,just make them have some shape.Hey you guys will you give me some advice on how I can improve on my appearance!!?
    nothing..you already pretty and most guys like a pretty natural face like yours.
    Well if you dont wanna use makeup or anything, try this. Ask your mom to buy you some like Cream Shave lets say for instance Nair or something [That is REALLY good stuff] Use it to take off hair in places you dont want either that or you can do it : THE HARD WAY : Pluck eyebrows... Then you can buy some lotion, put it on your skin everyday so your skin is smooth and always wash your face with soap [Just a little reminder] Sand Soap or Kiwi Soap is preferred. Then all you have to do is when you have time, sit in the mirror and try to figure out things you will try to improve on your appearence. And by the way, since you want to be a cheerleader practice outside or somewhere spacey [Trampolines are good too] Then one day check on your appearences in the mirror while doing a cheer! You will so be proud of your self after that, but remember dont change attitudes or anything just be yourself
    Your BEAUTIFUL!!! You look like a princess...don't change a thing.
    This is a pretty bad shot I think but youre very pretty. Get those eyebrows waxed. Thats all
    wax your eyebrows
    oh wow wax them eyebrows lips gloss maybe light blue color clotheswill do wonders on ur skin tone


    ur face is pretty u dont need 2 to much
    those eyebrows..


    wow
    pluck yer eyebrows.


    eyeliner.


    mascara.
    You are pretty just the way you are.
    You are a pretty girl. Don't be self-conscious. Men respect confidence. So stand strait, keep your posture right and keep smiling.
    wax them put on sum lipgloss and a little eyeliner thats a start
    just pluck eyebrow's








    that's bout it u look good as it is
    1. fix ur eyebrows


    2. curl eyelashes


    3. put on mascara


    4. do a lil bit of black eyeliner


    5. add lip gloss
    you really need to pluck your eyebrows! :)

    Anybody has any advice when you like 2 guys who have the same feelings about you?

    I like this boy and we were on and off for 4 years. His best friend thinks i am sexy. They are both so sweet. They are both funny too. And they both are cute too. What should I do?Anybody has any advice when you like 2 guys who have the same feelings about you?
    stick to the one u rilly love.





    it hurts the most when someone is attached to you for a long tym.Anybody has any advice when you like 2 guys who have the same feelings about you?
    forget them choose another boys. or put them for giving to you a love prove. who is the most romantic. which them you think more times?
    are you bragging?


    all of the other girls will be mad at you for having two so the best thing is for you to forget dating and be a friend to both
    On and off is never fun, you have to end that one way or another. sit down and make a list of all the things you liked about your ex. Do the same with the dislikes. You might find you have more things to dislike him for then like. If you find out you really like him, and you two breaking up was stupid, then go for him! Or you may find that the relationship was never going anywhere and it is time to move on (maybe to his friend?) Just make sure it won't ruin their friendship
    Get them both together and say that you like them and that you would like to date BOTH at the same time.





    I have even dated 2 sisters at the same time and so long as you are fair about things everthing will be fine.


    isleofsisters @ yahoo . ca








    Get ready for the time of your life!





    Mat :-)
    Open your eyes, choose one as soon as possible because dragging things out is going to hurt one of them or even both of them. The attention may be great in your eyes but its not worth the drama it ends up blowing up in your face. Trust me... if you want to be with the best friend then be with him, just do it upfront but its going to mess up a friendship. I would think about that clearly.
    you should hurry up and pick one before you loose out you should pick your ex friend 4 yrs is a long time to be on and off try some one new
    Dthe first thing that comes to mind is ';Double-Team';!!!!!





    :o)
    If you are still playing the field....PLAY!
    If you are not sure whether to stay with a guy after 4 years because of someone else, then it is time to end the relationship with that guy. You shouldn't be having this kind of doubt after 4 years.





    After you break it off take some time to yourself before diving in with anyone else.
    get another or it will be to complicated
    Go with something new
    stay away from his friends
    Neither find someone new!
    do them both which ever one likes you after will stay
    idk
    let your heart do the choosing.
  • face cosmetics
  • I really need ADVICE FROM GIRLS OR GUYS PLEASE!!!!!!!!!!!?

    I went on a date with a girl. She said she had a good time and wanted to hang out again. I called her and asked her to dinner and she said yes. Were going on our second date tomorrow. I know that she likes me but she seems really nervous around me and I dont think she has reached a comfort level yet. Is it better to kiss her goodnight on the cheek rather than on the lips until she feels more comfortable?I really need ADVICE FROM GIRLS OR GUYS PLEASE!!!!!!!!!!!?
    Kiss her on the cheek, give her a hug, keep your face close to hers and if she feels comfortable enough kissing you on the lips she will nudge you in the right direction :) All I can say is you're thinking good with the not pushing her in any direction. Good luck and have fun tomorrow! :)I really need ADVICE FROM GIRLS OR GUYS PLEASE!!!!!!!!!!!?
    Of course she'll be nervous. It could be a new relationship, and things are wobbly at this stage.


    Talk to her about her. Ask her about her favorite things. Don't get too personal though, not until later in the relationship. It's your second date, so if she seems more comfortable, go for the lips.


    If she is still seeming uncomfortable, simply kiss her on the cheek. She shouldn't expect more than that. if she does, she'll probably look disappointed, or kiss you. if she looks disappointed, you can still kiss her on the lips.


    Don't forget to keep eye contact, use your manners, and compliment her.
    just make sure u make it special!!
    Yes, it would be good to wait some time until she feels more comfortable .. and dont mention anything about relationships because you might scare her away. .. kiss on the cheek.
    YES. Take this slow. Girls like guys that do not come on too strong. A hug and a light kiss on the cheek is the way to go in the beginning. You want her to want more, take it slow. It sounds like she likes you!
    She probly feel's a little nervous is all.She probly also like's you because most girl's tend to feel nervous around guy's they like...So i would try to make her feel as relaxed as possible.At the end of your date you should just ask her...Would you like to kiss me?If she say's yes...go for it(hope she says yes:) If she say's no...Just tell her i never said you could...I asked if you would like to?Good luck!!!
    eh cheek. you dont wanna scare her off and if she wants a kiss on the lips she will kiss you on the lips





    good luck have fun!
    Yes, that's a great way to start. It's a rather informal gesture that shows you want to go forward and lets her decide whether she wants more or not. If she does, she'll turn and start kissing you. Enjoy the experience!
    That sounds wonderful! Thanks for showing that guys actually care about stuff like that!
    surprise her ( well if she seems like the kinda person that would like that) and bring her to the movies ( romatic movie) start to make advancements and if she seems confortible then go alittle farther. i dont know how long you have known her but with my girlfriend we whent to the beach at sunset for the frist date and we really hit it off.





    i dont know how old you are but i am 15 and this works really good.
    A nice hug is better than a kiss on the cheek. I recommend that you give her a nice hug until her comfort level increases. You can also get a better sense of how she feels about you from a warm embrace (HUG), than you can from a peck on the cheek.
    I personally think its really romantic for a guy to take charge and kiss a girl. Chances are, she's dying for you to, but is nervous (you saw signs,) to make a move. Don't push her limit, all you need is one kiss. I would go for it! Good luck.
    I'd say kiss her on the cheek goodnight. Then when your about to walk away she might call you back and kiss you on your mouth. It always to my friend when he had a lot of girlfriends.
    dont b a pervert


    grow up


    take sometime n know each other


    best 4 both of u
    Yes that's what I would do, U want her too feel comfortable and safe with u, So its best not to come on too strong!!! Good Luck Tomorrow!!!
    I am a girl! Dont kiss until the 4th date. She'll feel way uncomfortable. My first bf tried to kiss me on the 1st date. I just let it slide ,but on our 5th date he tried to have a little fun fun!!!!!!!! DONT KISS
    See how comfortable she is after the second date to see if a kiss is even necessary at all. when me and my boyfriend started dating it took us about three days to have our first kiss. its not that she is a prude or anything, just nervous. give it time and see what feels right.
    i would kiss her on the lips. kissing her on the cheek might make her think your nervous too. once you kiss her on the lips, i think she will drop her guard
    most likley if she seems nervous then take it slow and kiss her on the cheek.


    If she seems to not be so nervous on the date then kiss her on the lips.
    On the cheek. Once you have gone out with her for say about 1 week more, then give her the kiss on the lips.
    kiss her on the check she might accully kiss you on the lips cuz she can trust you!
    Absolutely kiss her on the cheek. Don't rush it, you don't know what kind of life she has had, you might spook her and she won't ever talk to you again. It is only the second date you know. Take your time.
    I would kiss her on the check before I would kiss her on the lips.
    mwuah mwauh! idk probably cheek, but on the next date after that, go for LIPS!
    Do you have any idea why she is nervous? Is she inexperienced? Are you very different from the men she usually dates? Is she from a different culture? Any way you should worry about her nervousness first. If you must kiss her, kiss her hand. It will appear gallant but nonthreatening. Experience
    dont kiss her good night at all. let her make the first move.
    kissing her on the lips will break the tension, and make it more comfortable, trust me.
    dude i think you should take it slow
    YES KISS HER GD NIGHT ON THE CHEEK, UNTIL SHE FEELS MORE AT EASE.





    IF U KISS HER ON THE LIPS THAT WILL GET HER MORE NERVOUS.





    IT SEEMS LIKE SHE REALLY LIKES YA, SO TALK ALOT OVER THE PHONE AND GO OUT THAT WILL MAKE HER FEEL AT EASE SOONER GD LUCK CHARMER! :)
    it depends if she leans for you ans she said dhe had a great time and stuff like (if she takes a long time to get into her house) anything like tht ask (i know its sounds geeky trust me you will get better respect
    I think if you kiss her on the lips and it's kinda unexpected then she'll realize that you like her too. then she'll get more comfortable