Friday, January 8, 2010

Advice--How do I compromise with my alcoholic bf? (guys especially)?

He drinks about 6-18 drinks 2 nights a week.





He has never tried to physically hurt me and we only fight when he drinks--hardly EVER about anything else.





I have some trust issues with him but he has never cheated on me so far as I know.





We have some great times, but inevitable end up fighting those 2x a week.





Do I need to lighten up and compromise, or does he need to stop drinking? Do I need to move out and see where that goes? What would you do?Advice--How do I compromise with my alcoholic bf? (guys especially)?
Leave him. You dont need to try to clean him up. The only way he is going to get help is when he wants to.Advice--How do I compromise with my alcoholic bf? (guys especially)?
Talk to him about this for sure. If he's willing to compromise, stop drinking, or even just talk about it in a civil manner, theres a future there. If he won't hear it, or takk civily about it, let him go. Then, if he comes to you after that, he'll be ready to talk then :) If not, you may then move on.

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