2 great guys - what to do?? advice please!!?

okay, so i have to guys that i am kinda falling for.. the story..





The first guy, Rob, i first met him through a friend a few years ago, and ever since then we always talk on msn and we get along really well. And i have gone a couple of places with him with my friend/s, like the shops.. We talk all the time and i kinda have known he liked me for a while, cos he was in a really bad relationship and i was helping him through it and i could just always tell. After the relationship he told me he liked me and i told him i liked him too, cos i did. Then i didn't talk to him for ages, a couple of months cos i was so busy and never on msn or anything. I've kinda liked him for ages and i think he felt the same way, we just never told each other..





In the mean time, i met this great guy, and we got on straight away and i feel so comfortable around him. Over the weekend where i met him we kissed quite a bit and it was really nice. Next time we went out, we spent 24 hours together and it was great. We just went to the movies, ate, walked around and talked for ages.. plus making out and a little more, but not sex or anything. He's such a sweetie and a beautiful person :) .. he went overseas for a few weeks so i haven't seen him for about 3 weeks. he's actually studying in Australia, cos he's from overseas...





The problem is, I'm almost 18, the first guy Rob is 17, and the second guy is 24. And also i feel like i am betraying Rob, cos i feel as though every time we do talk now (which isn't often) he is flirting really hard and trying to subtly ask me out.. so i try to avoid it, cos i don't want to hurt him, cos i don't know what to do with the 2nd guy.





I need help... please give me advice about what to do..


I know i use to really like Rob, i think i still do, i just have been trying to avoid him so i don't need to talk about..


And the second guy who is 24 almost 25, the age bothers me a bit, cos i dunno what other people will think.. but when i am with him the age difference doesn't occur to me at all.. The only thing is i'm not 18 yet so i can't go to 18+ places yet..





Please help!! What should i do??


Stay with the second guy and see what happens?


Or go back to the first guy, cos he will probably ask me out?


or what... hmmmm... i dunno.. Help and advice would be greatly appreciated!


thanks a bunch! =)


muffin%26lt;32 great guys - what to do?? advice please!!?
alright,








if i were to put myself in either of these guys shoes i would want tobe the first guy for the chance with you , because teh ausssie is gonna go back to austrailia and just pick up more and more chicks, the age difference is huge by the way, that is kind of wierd.. because you are still young and he is relatively old.





You and rob never really ';went out'; so you werent cheating on him , if i were you i would try to reconcile things with Rob, but dont mention the aussie unless you want to make him jealous or something. And in the worst case scenario you should just ask Rob out, society makes it so girls shouldnt ask guys out and guys should but i have had a girl ask me out when she felt taht she finally needed to get through to me, otherwise i wouldn't have known.





i think you and rob might have something special , just keep on talking. and hang out etc..





good luck!





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