Last month after being together for 11 mos, my GF broke up w/ me. First 7-8 mos we were extremely in love, etc. Last 2/3 I became clingy/somehwat possessive and wanted all her time. Ultimately she told me she lost attraction for me and broke up. ( I know I was wrong). Last week we decided to work things out and have been hanging out, taking it slow with good results, no fighting. here is the issue, I know she loves sex and so do I. Counting the break up and last few months of our relationship we haven't had sex in 3 months. We kiss, cuddle, etc. Last night we were planning on it, but: she was tired, and then when I kinda pushed her for us to be intimate, she said she doesnt know if she feels attracted to me and doesnt feel that ';umph';. It has nothing to do with looks since I havent changed, but she wants to get back in love with me, or at least try. I dont know what to do. I need/want intimacy between us, otherwise I feel like we are together without sex. how do i get her wanting sexGIRLS/GUYS/ i need yout advice on Relationship from your experience?
give her time and space, if she really wants you and really wants to fall in love with you again let her do it in her own time, yeah you miss the sex but pushing her for it could just push her away, just think if and when it comes about you both get intimate again it will be what you both truly want and should be as good if not better then ever, just be patient, hope this as helped xGIRLS/GUYS/ i need yout advice on Relationship from your experience?
That's how I felt towards my boyfriend. Now we've broken up. After a while when your together so long it does feel like your brother and sisters or best friends. But What a female wants more from her lover is communication. That is a big + . I know I was in the same boat with my boyfriend. But at the same Time I was clingy with him too. Try talking to her a lot about her life and what she likes. Give her space as well though. pressuring her into having sex is probably making her feel that's all you want from her. I like a clingy guy myself, but maybe she doesn't. So Talk more to her get to know her better, even though you do. Try to prove to her that you can much more to her other than a sex partner. Give her space don't be around her 24 hours a day. That's get boring and she will get tired of seeing you. Don't call her a lot either. Let her do the calling as well. Just give her her space. Last but not least. Keep your guard up hard to believe I know but maybe there's someone else there she likes or is interested in. I'm not saying there is but you never know. Those are signs as well like neglecting sex etc. But I think she just grew bored of the same ole stuff.
Again take care and good luck!!!!
Good luck and take care!!!!
Romance her. Do little things to make her fall for you all over again. Send her a sweet e-card. As you leave her house after an evening together, put a card in her postbox telling her what a wonderful person she is.
Oh, the one thing that I find is a sure fire way to make any girl fall in love with you is to let her fall asleep and wake up in your arms. Let that happen just once without even trying to have sex with her.
if you only care about you wanting sex despite girls consent then this AINT a RELATIONSHIP ...if you would have one you would NOT pressure for SEX and respect her wishes and desires too.This girl was absolutely right to give you the runnabout....
Just talk together. It should be fine. Best wishes
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