I have never had any complaints in that department until now. He says I could put a little more into it.
So what do you men personally like? or what are some good tips from you ladies?
By the way i'm 20. Please no rude commentsI Need Advice About Sex?! Please Guys And Girls Opinions?
I totally understand what you're going through!
When a guy is on top, encourage him by groaning, kissing him, and you can regulate his speed by talking to him. [not necessarily talking but demanding/sexy talk].
Personally, I found that when my guy is on top i love rubbing his chest and pulling him down to kiss him or nibble his ears. Even tightening your muscles inside tighten enough to make it more pleasurable for him. You can also try moving your legs in different positions: straddling him while he is on top, spreading your legs completely out, hold your legs in closer towards your chest.
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hmm.. well instead of laying there doing nothing lolee. Maybe put your legs arond him ( lower back -ish ) you also, could get more pleasure out of it, cause it goes deeper, and kiss him in the neck or something while he`s F***ing you. :) guys love to be kissed too, squeeze their arms and kiss them., it might make them feel muscular :) guys like their pride :P . Also, you can kiss at the same time ( some people find it hard ) . Some guys think its a turn on. or just grab on his hair. if he likes it rough. :P ! try biting his shoulders ( gently, not to hard ) just tease around. Carful if you try to bite lips ( which is a turn on ) cause, my boyfriend was doing this to me once. and lolee. and he bit off a peice of my lip, so just bite gently, :P dont get too carried away. dont forget to ask your partner if he is liking whatever it is you are doing,
just stoke his hair, hold him close, pull him into you further when you feel the time is right. Reach down and ';take care of business'; yourself, and then grab one of his hands and try to get him to do it. You'll have to show him because until a guy knows EXACTLY WHERE, AND WHAT the clit is, it is going to be a mystery to him. It's like show and tell, but with more 'show' and less 'tell'.
Also - when he is on top, and his is hitting the RIGHT SPOTS, MOAN. Moan your azz off to let him know... May just a litte at 1st... Just a couple of whimpers, and then if he keeps doing the right thing, inch it up a little until you think you can get him to make you climax. if not, then switch positions, and show him what I talked about earlier. Also - it's it's a really intimate moment and he's on top, be sure to look him in the eyes. Keep eye contact and control your vocal feeback as he pleases you. That's my advice - NOW RUN WITH IT! -john in Iowa
I make a load of noises to really turn him on, touch his back, hold his arms (moaning and gripping his arms when it feels really good is apparently a massive turn on for my guy!)...Rub my boobs.... I've been worried at times that I'm not doing enough and he'll think I'm being lazy and making him do all the work or something (I prefer him being on top most of the time as it feels better) but truthfully there's not a lot really you can do from that position!!
Have you tried asking him what he would like you to do?
well u getting all the advice under the sun LOL
grab butt
moan
talk dirty
wrap ur legs like a pretzel and lift urself up to meet his thrusts
scratch back
and more and more
but if u are doing these things and he is still not happy with it then there is only one solution for u..and that is to ask HIM and if he gets irritated by this question then its his own fault..he is not showing u what exactly he wants (some men actually do like a finger up the butt LOL but how does one know that if he doesn't say so or if y'all don't talk about it?) every person has there preference
When you're really in the mood, you won't even need telling. Wrap your legs around him, let your hands and your mouth wander, writhe, run your nails down his back, breathe on his skin, etc. I've heard guys say they like girls to lift their hips to ';meet in the middle';. But if he was so great, you wouldn't have to force it!
Dude answering here-
If the guy says he wants more from you out of it, I've personally never had a problem with girl moaning in my ear....personal fav there! But I've never heard a guy complain about sex...He's weird. But there is not much to do when on bottom. It's the same scenario vice versa! Try and pull him closer, that may work?
When my husband and I are in the action, he loves being on top. I always just lift one leg up higher and put it over my hips, or I push up with my pelvis.
I try to make it very sensual between the two of us. I grasp his back, and run my fingers through his hair, kiss his neck. Grab his hips and booty.
Ha, we both like to be very playful. Maybe that's what he is looking for.
Good luck, hope it helped.
I find moving your hands all over his back and chest to be a turn on, Sometimes dig your nails in, thats kinda sexy too
Kissing his neck and ear is fun
and moaning
But none of this works if you stress over it. Then it just becomes mechanical. Take deep breaths as you do this and feel it dont just do it.
Kiss him rub his chest and back. Arms and fingers.Look into his eyes. Grab him and be verbal, Moan tell him how good it feels. You want to feel him inside you. Is just sex or are you connecting emotionally? Are you orgasiming? Maybe try more foreplay before moving to intercourse. Makeout for a twenty minutes. Create more of an emotional bond before go into intercourse.
Ask him!
Seriously, guys like a million different things. If you've had no complaints before, then you can't be doing anything that wrong.
Talk to him about what he means, and maybe it's something you would or wouldn't be okay with.
Grab his bum %26amp; urge him to grind harder. Push your pelvis into his with rhythm.
I love when my lady grabs my neck and shoulders...rubbing is guud.
Talk a little noise, not too dirty. Encouraging such as, ';Im so wet for you,'; ';I want to cream on your ____.';
For some reason, American girls aren't as passionate in sex. So become waay more passionate.
hmm, some guys like it when a girl can be in control. it makes sense if a guy gets a little bored. i mean its reallly tirrringg :)
so just enjoy it on the bottom for a little while, then get on tooopp!
;)
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Get really into it. Shove into him. spread your cheeks. Kiss him. dig your nails into his back. breathe hard into his ear. let him do you in the butt. change positions...
Don't talk.
Never talk.
Just grab him and pull him constantly.
And by the way, improv.
Do what you think is best, but don't plan ahead.
Just let your body take over your mind.
Being a guy I say u could put legs up or spread em.
You could kiss him scratch his back..grasp him close
Spread ur legs so he can get deeper which might make you moan or do some of the mentioned things....y'all could try karma sutra(I think that's rights)
touch his back, or head, squeeze his butt, moan ALOT, or surprise him, by next time, suggest to be on top, or give him oral.
take controls sometimes leave him to be the one laying down, maybe your not satisfied with him in bed have you considered that
grab his buttock, scratch his back, bite his shoulder, lick his earlobe, suck his neck..
do a little moaning and grinding into him when he comes closer to you say his name makes men go crazy when they think ur really into it
grip his back, gently dig your nails into his back moan, maybe grab his butt lol run your fingers through his hair
Just moan and talk dirty.
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Kiss him when he does it and place his hands where you want it to be
Moan more
move with him. and of course don't forget to smile and be happy :)
just kiss him
ask him does he expect you to read his mind on putting more into it
O MY GOD...MOAN!!!!!! just moan. its attractive as hell
u can kiss him...
touch his body...
idk...
be sexy
lol
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