Sunday, December 27, 2009

Advice please!?...my female friends are just as clueless, any guys with some good advice?

Theres this guy who i've been crushing on all school year. at first we were talking and it was really clear that we both liked each other. then he asked me on a date but i was busy that weekend and asked for a raincheck. he seemed okay when i said it but a week later he started avoiding me entirely, and stopped speaking to me. is he mad at me? if so, why a week later?...just last week he started saying ';hi'; in the hallways again with a smile. does he want to pick up where we left off? or was he trying to give me a hint to get lost, so he avoided me for so long?...what is his problem?!Advice please!?...my female friends are just as clueless, any guys with some good advice?
he probably thought you rejected him, the fact that you said ';im busy';


which most people say to get out of a date probably hurt him a bit, picture yourself in his shoes.


the fact he has not asked you out again is because his confidence is a bit down, If you like him just ask him out





remeber there's no feeling worse than feeling rejectedAdvice please!?...my female friends are just as clueless, any guys with some good advice?
ask him straight up. guys arent always the best thinkers, he may be busy with something but is too dumb to let u kno
It's kinda like when there is an ad on tv that you see 50 times in an hour, the next time you see it you want to change the channel. It may be similar to your situation. He may have gotten an overload of you and needs time to process everything. It also may be the fact that he is immature and just doesn't know how to handle the relationship. He may be embarrassed with where it is right now.





Talk to him by email or phone and see what he says

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