I'm a very picky girl when it comes to choosing guys I want to get to know. It rarely happens; however, there is this one guy in my college lecture class. It is a huge class and we have never talked in it. He came up to my friend and I in a cafeteria and pretty much just stood there and had little to say, but I didn't say much either. I approached him the other day to ask a ';question relating to our class';, and did that. He was nice and answered, but we kinda just went our separate ways after that. I don't know him at all, don't even know his first name. All I know is that he is very attractive and I want to get to know him. How should I go about doing this, without being too forward, or seeming too easy? I don't want to keep waiting to see if he will initiate anything anymore. And I know he would most likely be attracted to me, so no saying we might not be each others' types. Thanks for the advice.Girls(and Guys): Need some relationship advice?
Next time you see him just introduce yourself -- say something about wanting to thank him for the earlier help and wanting to know his name (and to give him yours). Unless the conversation takes off from there, don't linger... just thank him again for the earlier help and for the formal intro, then be on your way. Now whenever you see him, greet him by name and start small talk (you know... hi/how's it going/how you liking the class/what else are you taking/yada yada yada) and build up from there. Good luck.Girls(and Guys): Need some relationship advice?
you have to ask yourself first. why do you even date in the first place? are you lonely? are you horny? people don't just date for the hell of it. ask yourself that first, then you'll find the answer
First, ask him again about something relating to the class. Then the best thing you can do is simply this: keep the conversation going. Remember anyone can have a great conversation if THEY ARE GENUINELY INTERESTED IN THE OTHER PERSON. So, (in a natural way) ask him questions about himself. Focus on your common threads. If you have chemistry, and have a good time in each others company then it will be natural for one fo you to ask to meet for coffee or a dinner.
Oh... and smile. eye contact. And look your cutest when you chat with him. Contrary to popular belief, they way to a man's heart is through a good conversation.
the best thing to do is be forward cause it don't seem like he is goin to start up a convo......most guy like a girl that knows what they want show him that you like him by talkin to him flirting so on and so but dont make it look like your easy cause then he might just think damn this girl want me for one thing dont make it out like that......just go to him and ask his name to start the convo ask him out to get goffie to talk about class or you need help even if you dont all go ways to get him to talk then when yall are with each other talk about thing that has nothing to do with class who cares
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