Sunday, December 27, 2009

Can some guys give me some advice?

I'm a single female who met a guy on-line a little over a week ago. He lives in another state. We talked on the phone for the 1st time on Friday and he has texted me and called me every day since. I am one of those people that is easily scared off and feels smothered easily. I have ignored the communication from him today thus far because I just need some space. I mean he and I aren't in a relationship. We haven't even met in person yet. I don't talk to ANYONE every day and wouldn't unless I was in a serious relationship (or it was my mom). My question to you is this: Should I tell him how I feel or leave it alone or what?





P.S. He has already made plans to come to town this weekend. He has a brother that lives in the same city as me so he isn't just coming to see me, but we are supposed to get together for dinner once and then we are going to a ball game on Memorial Day with his brother and sister-in-law.Can some guys give me some advice?
Guys need to be told plainly. You don't have to be cold, but being very direct and honest is a must. If you try to dance around the issue, he might not get the hint, or want to, and you might do both him and yourself a disservice. If he acts hurt, then at least you told him his approach was a bit overbearing and hopefully he can make an adjustment for the next person.Can some guys give me some advice?
Sounds like you are not into him. If you dont like talking to him then being with him may not change that. Just tell him your sorry but you dont feel like talking to anyone.

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