Thursday, December 31, 2009

Diffrent than other questions ive asked, but, guy advice?

So me and my boyfriend have been going out for about, almost 2 weeks, we still havnt gone anywhere. He's really shy, and doesnt talk alot, but I love to talk, what should I do? Its really awkward!Diffrent than other questions ive asked, but, guy advice?
persuade him to talk subtley, by talking about the things he is interested in... ask questions about things you might not understand about a subject or topic he loves. therefore hes talking about something he likes and interests him and you are learning something new! WIN WIN


when he realises u r interested in him too, he will probably feel more comfortable talking to you a little more... Be patient its only been two weeksDiffrent than other questions ive asked, but, guy advice?
ask him questions, it gives him the chance to open up to you and gives you the chance to have a real conversation with him. as far as going somewhere ask if you guys could go on a date or something. by you guys going out on a date like to lunch or diner or to the mall it sets up the environment for talking to him.
same ask him to go somewhere my bf and i are both shy too
Make the first move to go somewhere.
okay maybe you shouldn't listen to me cause im mean. ha. but just be like...


Hey you don't really talk to me much and you aren't really fun to be around. Pretty much you're boring because I talk all the time and honestly I get tired of talking. I think it's extremely awkward between us and I really want a relationship with you so could you please try to say more? Kthnx.





Yea. thats what i would do. Me and boyfriend weren't really talking at first. I talked alot and he listened. BUT if i talked enough about stupid stuff he eventually started talking to and now we're like this... well you get the point. good luck.
I'm sure he was shy before you started going out (2 weeks ago) so it shouldn't be a surprised that he is still shy.
All you have to do is talk to him and make him feel comfortable and also let him know that you want to go out sometime. Maybe to the movies, out bowling, or to the skating rink. I'm pretty sure it won't hurt to ask.
Maybe you should talk to him about what he thinks you guys can do together. Sometimes the guy is waiting for the first move. Talk to him and see what he wants to do. See what kind of stuff he likes to do and maybe you guys could do it together.
tell him to not be shy and that you can talk to him about anything
Talk to him about talking more.

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