Guys help with relationship advice please?

ok so im 17 and theres this boy mike whose 18 that i had a thing with over the summer and completely fell in love with. we were crazy about eachother and spent every second together. eventually summer ended and we each went back to r own schools and kinda stopped talking. before i knew it he was involved with another girl. i was hurting but we decided to be friends. we have been texting everyday and hanging out and i just miss everything we had. he calls me cutie and other names and flirts a lottt. i saw him the other nite and brought him his favorite candy as a surprise. we talked and flirted a lot. then later that nite i texted him saying how apart of me still likes him and he was flattered. he said he would text me tomorrow but apart of me feels i shouldn't try so hard considering i don't wanna seem clingy or desperate. guys please gimme some advice on how i should act. i love this boy more than anything and he doesn't know it. he thinks i like a lot of other boys i think. please tellme what to dooo





thanks loves =)Guys help with relationship advice please?
Is he still with the other girl? If so I would say be careful. Otherwise just hang out 1 on 1 at like a non formal venue like the mall or something so he doesn't get the wrong idea and ask him what he's feeling.Guys help with relationship advice please?
well you have strong feelings but in my oppinion hes in a relation ship with a nother girl . he cant be calling you cutie and those things if your just friends but remember if he will do it with you he will do it to you...baby girl listen its like your a safety net back out a lil and make sure whens hes with you he knows he has a girl friend ....haveing strong feelings is good but dont lead him on in that way not saying you are,,just but if its ment to be it will be dont try to make it be...
Different schools?


There is your problem!


We will not commit to girls in other schools when we have hundreds of girls floating in front of us each day at our own schools.


It's like sitting in KFC and refusing to eat because you are loyal to McD's.
Ooh good that you already told him the way you feel. I think you should wait until he answers. If he wants you as badly as you want him I'm pretty sure it wont take long. But wait i don't understand? If he's going out with another girl its not very nice to interrupt. And why would he go out with another girl in the first place if you guys are crazy over each other? And if he does flirt with you while being with another girl , He would flirt with other girls while being with you too...! You don't care about that? And don't sound too desperate because he might not like you that way.





Just pointing out the alternatives. Hope I helped.


Take Care %26amp; Good luck.


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Yes he does know it. He's got you right where he wants you. He has his cake and is eating it too. If he really loved you like you loved him he wouldn't have stopped talking to you so quickly and started dating someone else. I hate to say it, but you are and were just a fling. He has you check mated. And your really being disrespectful to the girl he is with now by texting him. And that should tell you alot about him the fact that he is texting you while he is with someone else. As far as you know, he was doing the same thing with someone else all summer while he was with you. Your setting yourself up for a hard fall. He's not the only guy in the universe that was meant for you, and you are all to young anyway to be that serious. Just take it in stride. Enjoy the feeling cuz it isn't as intense when you get older and have takes some bumps on the road from past relationships. You heart will become more guarded and harder to gain access too. You will wisen up.
hmmm..well..most guys flirt with other girls specially thru texting when their gf dont know. But make sure that u let this dude know that u love him, BUT you are not going to wait for him like an idiot until he decides what he wants...show some respect for urself okie?? im sure u are a cool, preety girl, that can find another guy in no time...soo cheer up and enjoy ur life..:)
You don't sound clingy or desperate, but if you would be the girl on the side, then don't be. I know you're heart skips a beat and you want to confess your love madly, but don't. Proceed slowly and take it from there. I know this from personal experience.
alright now ill get alot of gruf from guys sayin this but i was once in the same sit with a girl when i was 18 19.... truth is all depends on him play it coy for a while make him chase u if he comes to u then u no its ment but before u do this tell him how u feel and tell him if u dont feel the same way or something along those lines then we need to distance ourselves for a while .... hope it all works out
jus tel him, wake away immaterialmof the decisions made
if you really want him, parade another guy in front of him, he will either realize what he's missing or he'll ignore it; if he ignores it, you don't want him anyway
If he's swimming in women, then you don't want to seem desperate.


If he's a normal dude, and he loves you, then clingy is fine, even cute.


Considering you said that you two had spent every second together, he obviously isn't the type of guy who needs room, thus making him a good guy. You should definitely tell him how you still feel, and take it from there,
Guys are actually quite pathetic man. I'm one but i know it's true. We would do anything, say anything to 'have fun'. He probably likes you but he will come back to you after he either gets bored of what his girls got to offer or he'll play her and lie to both of you or he'll just keep making you think you stand a chance and totally bask in the attention you are giving him! If their is one thing i can promise you it's that if you got him back it just wouldn't be the same between you two. Time apart makes the past seem so much greater than it actually was and when you get it back it's all so NORMAL and you get bored of each other company and good memories are turned to nasty ones. Why do you want to do that? Just let the past die, you deserve more! But through all my experience if you are just like every other girl i've messed with you are going to ignore everything everyone says feel sorry for yourself and run after him and get yourself more hurt in the future! i just don't know why girls do this to themselves, not all but many! please be strong and get over him, trust me it'll happen and life goes on.Out of 12 billion people on earth you can't tell me you've met the best one for you already!
boys will always be boys..they want to meet lots of girls and have fun. that is what you need to understand...
guys want to stick it any where we can. you wont be the last one for him. this only exists for right now. get him to bend you over while you really want it.
Just be honest and most of all be chill. Guys will think you're obsessive or clingy if you're overly emotional. Take it one step at a time and remember, relationships are like pebbles in a stream, you learn to appreciate something from each. Eventually you'll hit a big nice rock that has all of the wonderful qualities you want and you can stay with it for the rest of your life. Even if this doesn't work out for you, you will get over it and be happy someday. :)
guys get scared when girls act desperate so dont