Sunday, December 27, 2009

Come on guys, need your help/advice. ?

This guy and I have been hanging out for about 3 months now. We met on the internet back in July and I thought things were going pretty good. Well about a week ago, we were talking and he told me that about a month after hanging out with me, he slept with another girl. Well, the next night, I was still mad, and he was ignoring me that night, so I got drunk and hooked up with another guy, I told him about it, and he was mad at first, but is now giving me another chance. The hard part is, we live 2 hours away. I really want to work things out with him, and I feel like I may be falling for him. I care a lot about him, but I don't want to get played. We have talked about the distance before, ad he said he doesn't want me to change my life and move if its only for him right now. Im still in college. I don't want to waste either of our time if its not going to work, but I don't want things to end just because of the distance. I would be willing to move, not necessarily right now since its still soon, but by the summer I could, I just don't want things to end before then.


What should I do?!


We see eachother a few times a week, talk throughout the day.


We never decided to officially date because of the distance, but I know messing with someone else was still wrong, trust me, I've beaten myself up over it.


Im asking this in mens health to get a mans opinion...Come on guys, need your help/advice. ?
Well Darlingg,


if no one will man up %26amp; say it I will. I know your feeling all to well from the other side on the coin. my opinion, he trailing you along. he is telling you what you want, or need to hear to get you in the sack when ever he can, or for what ever other reason. He tells you not to change your life, that's a warning. he knows there will be no future with you. and he does not want to be responsible for your decision. its his way of deniability, i.e. ';he didn't ask you to,';sorry to be so bold. fact is you are probably really nice gal. and you have a heart. That'st a great combo. don't waist it. You care and apparently, he doesn't. thats the truth. I never lie. you have the word of a Mason.Come on guys, need your help/advice. ?
You are not at all sure he feels the same way about you. You don't know for sure that he's told you the truth about himself. Don't throw away your life %26amp; education for a thrill on the hill. Get that education FIRST - then, if anything happens later in life, you will have something to fall back on if some jackass dude dumps you.
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