Guys - im a girl and i need advice? [14 yrs]?

ok so me and my bf have been together for almost 8 months. we havnt made out yet, but we have talked about it and we both want to. but ... ive never made out before soo im kinda worried. like what should i do with hands and should i use my tounge or not? if so whaddo i do??


thanxx guys :]Guys - im a girl and i need advice? [14 yrs]?
well your a littl young so im not sure when u can do some of this but basically your going to be kissing more often and longer amounts of time. Yes you can and probably will use tounge, Hands at first will be in the face area or neck you can touch his chest before he touches yours but be ready becasue he might want to grab yours. and when you get older you can ask about the next level.Guys - im a girl and i need advice? [14 yrs]?
its good that youve both talked about it, and that you feeel ready also its nice to hear your taking it slow :D





making out is just like a normal quick kiss except longer and more meaningful, no one expects their first kiss to be perfect, but if you keep trying you'll get it. Everyone kisses different so how i tell you to kiss might not be the same way you find your comfortable kissing, dont push too hard and dont lean back too much, make sure your in a comfortable position (standing or sitting) where your not likely to fall and embaress yourself





as for your hands, you can wrap them round his neck, hold onto his shoulders or hug his waist gently if you like, whatever feels more comfortable for you





best of luck! x
yeah use tongue n i duuno hold him
you shouldn't use your tongue the first time. just put your hands on his lap, lean in and let him do the rest.
ok dont use tounge in till he dose and its not hard rest your hands on or around his body
Kissing is something you shouldn't ever plan for. The best make-out happens naturally. And don't think about it too hard when it does happen, just go with what feels natural.


It may not be the most comforting thing to hear, but kissing is something that you don't ever really get better at, it's something you're born with or not. Some people know what to do on their first kiss. The best thing I can advise you to do is just to let it happen on it's own and don't think about technique.
ohhhhhhhhhhh god! You've been together for 8 months and still haven't made out yet?! I have had 9 girls in my whole life and made out with all of them the first - second day! My new girl made out with me the first hour! Anyway, just go with whatever is going on in the current millisecond. Hold him and rub his back with BOTH your hands slowly and smoothly. Use your tongue after his leaves your mouth. Remember- the key to a good kiss is to do everything slowly and smoothly. Good luck with your first kiss :)


BTW- I'm 13 so my advice will be the best!