GUYS, I need your advice?

How do i stop resorting back to being one of the guys/the friend?





I really like this guy that I just met recently, but I think I'm ruining my chances by being too much like ';one of the guys';. I already know him and his friend are saying theyre comfortable around me, which I think might be the kiss of death.





I keep end up joking around like one of them and I really don't want to blow any chance I have...but it seems like I freak out when I get close and resort back to just being ';the friend';. I really don't want to be stuck in friends-zone with this guy, so what can I keep doing to show that I'm not just that friend and maybe give him a chance to see me as something more, rather than just that ';chill girl';?GUYS, I need your advice?
Well if I was this guy, I would need you to give me some clear signals. We need strong, clear signals even if they seem over the top. First, do you dress like one of the guys? I'm sure you are a beautiful girl with a nice figure. So show it, respectfully of course. Second, are there other guys/friends around? If so, treat him differently than the others. Also the other guys may get the hint, that he is not getting, and suggest to him that you are interested. And lastly, try something new that will make him notice. I saw an episode of Seinfeld where Elaine, who is one of the guys, left a seductive message on Jerry's tape recorder. And when he found out it was she, all of sudden she became this sexy, desirable woman. So think about something out of the box that you can personally do.GUYS, I need your advice?
It's funny you say this because I chill with a girl every night and she's the chill girl. But she's also the whore of the group. She's done so many guys it's not even funny. If you seriously like him and want to pursue something, do it now. Don't wait till he likes you more as a friend.





Now let me tell you something. If you're chill as you say then you might as well just ask him. I would love to go out with a girl I can chill with and be comfortable around. GO FOR IT!
After you two get done laughing from a joke, stop and stare into his eyes... then slowly inch forward to him as if to kiss him. After you've covered about have the distance between you, he should have moved in for the kiss if he wants to kiss you. if he doesn't or looks awkward, he is either stupid or not that in to you, and from there... your like one the guys right? pull back smile and laugh at him like it was a joke.
let me tell you one thing. guys don't have just that ';friend zone'; like girls. unless you're either taken, or extremely unattractive, like if you have a third eye and you have a dead siamese twin hanging off your leg.





so you're doing pretty well. just start hanging out with him alone...
Tell him how you feel then you may get your answer.