GUYS- TRANSLATION PLEASE!!!!? MALE ADVICE?? I would really appreciate it....?

THIS QUESTION IS LONG SO IF YOU DON'T HAVE THE MATURITY TO READ IT THE DON'T WASTE MY TIME ANSWERING IT.





I'm a Junior in high school.


it all started in the 8th grade...


I was with my friends and he was with his. I turned around and he was staring at me. I've never had eye contact like that before. it's really hard to explain but I'll try. it was almost like he was seeing through me and it truly felt like everyone and everything else had disappeared for a couple of seconds only because we were so focused on each other. we stared at each other back and forth for at least an hour, both of us too nervous to make a move. my friend and I left and I didn't think much of the whole thing. I was one of those flirty, social kind of girls so it was just fun for me.





next time I saw him was grade 9 at high school. I turned around and he was staring at me. I didn't have any classes with him but he would stare at me every time I saw him in the hallway and look away when I looked back. sometimes I would act like I didn't notice just to see how long he would stare. I found out his name from a friend of mine. I asked her about him and she said he was smart and told me about a presentation that he had done about anti depressants. he said that his mom had hyper thyroidism and was on the pills. my mom had hyper thyrodism too. really ironic things would happen...like we never had any classes together but we just so happen to pass each other in a big high school with over 2,000 people a couple times a day for two years. there's a twist in the story though...I had changed a lot since he first saw me. I was struggling with depression and had became very antisocial, careless about making friends and my school work, and rude; the exact opposite of how I was when he first saw me.


the whole staring thing went on from around winter time to the end of the year.





Over the summer I thought 'okay, this guy doesn't even know me. there's no way he still likes me.'


first day of school of my sophmore year. I was looking at my schedule. I looked up and he was staring at me. I wasn't so much depressed at this point but I had become very shy because I wasn't used to talking to people. we have an advisory period where they take attendence and coincidentally mine was right next to his. I was recruited to be in a group that a couple of his close friends are in. we both just so happen to have the same english class the same period right across the hall from each other and it seemed like we would always end up in the hallway at the same time near each other. he would always stare at me every time he saw me. this deep, penetrating stare that I've never had before. all of these coincidences and we had never even spoken to each other before.


I'm a Junior now and every time he sees me he acts like I'm not there. there were a couple of times when he was looking at me and he thought I didn't notice but my attitude is just ';whatever. take it or leave it'; I don't know if he just gave up or felt like I rejected him but I guess it doesn't really matter now and what is meant to be will be.





I was leaving class (his class is right next to mine) and talking to one of my friends. I noticed when he came out he was looking at me but I'm not sure if he was listening. coincidentally when I started walking like 3 or 4 of his friends were next to me and in front of me and he was behind me. he was cussing like every other word. lol seriously. I turned to look at him and he just stopped talking and it got really quiet. I turned around and kept walking and he went back to his cussing.





I was wondering if it meant anything that it got so quiet and that he stopped? or why did his friends look at me when I was walking between them?


I appreciate it if you've made it this far!!GUYS- TRANSLATION PLEASE!!!!? MALE ADVICE?? I would really appreciate it....?
Didn't like the answers you received when you first posted this question? GUYS- TRANSLATION PLEASE!!!!? MALE ADVICE?? I would really appreciate it....?
I'm sure I have read this before.
sorry but i had to answer. i think its past liking u. he kinda a stalker. be careful
Does he want to get close to you or does he have a man crush on you? Also if you and your friend are talking and someone walks between you two chances are you and him will look at him for a short second
well in the 8th grade i can say for sure that he thought you were beautiful to him at the least. the 9th grade it seems as if he started to like you more due to not knowing you which happens a lot apparently. 10th he got to know you which some times lessens how people think of each other when they had this image of you in their head for such an amount of time or he liked you even more since he knew you better. 11th though is much harder to make out whats happening. Like you said he could have given up on you which also happens a lot which is good for you if you don't feel for him that way. Or he may have fallen head over heels for you because from personally experience I also cuss every other word when I talk and ever since the girl I care about yelled at me for cussing so much I find myself not swearing at all when she comes around. The not talking part could just come from him thinking to himself on whether or not he can say what he wants to say to you. Hopefully its the second choice because any guy who had lasted three years of caring about a girl well you can tell hes a good guy. Sorry for the long answer I felt like this one deserved more thought than the ones I give to the normal ';whats wrong with me?'; questions. Good luck with which ever it comes out to be.