Guys & Girls: Need an advice!?

My girlfriend has this boyfriend that's she's been dating for like 4 years, but quite honestly, I feel like she can do way better than him! She is really cute and very sexy, but him...nooo, he is kinda fat but got money, but she still thinks she likes him. Would it be appropriate to tell her that she actually deserves better?





But maybe she's just a dumbass and doesn't know what she's doin! He got her gifts of like $500 for her Bday! Come on now! He is like triple her weight, she's like 117lbs and he's like 220!!!!!!!!! Come on people...





I kinda implied before that he's desperate and he loves her just because he can't find better! And then she said he can go out with any girl he wants!





P.S. Please don't be distasteful and disrespectful in your response... I'm only a human being!Guys %26amp; Girls: Need an advice!?
If your friend is together with this guy for 4 years already, then she has her reasons.


Maybe she likes him for his personality and because he's so attentive to her. The looks usually matter more in the initial stages of a relationship.





If you really want to know the reasons for her being with him you could ask her something along the lines of what she likes best about her boyfriend.


It would be a very bad idea to ask ';why do you insist on sticking with your ugly, fat boyfriend?';, because that would be disrespecting her choices and implying that you know better than her whom she should spend her life with (nobody wants to hear that).





In any case you need to realize that your friend is entitled to make her own choice of companion, even though he doesn't fit your ideal of a perfect boyfriend.





If she's really unhappy with her relationship you can be a shoulder to cry on and encourage her to have a look at what's out there, but if she's happy with her man I think you should just let them be together and not criticize.Guys %26amp; Girls: Need an advice!?
Sounds like jealousy on your part to me! At least she's GOT someone! I don't recall your saying you're that lucky. Get a life, girl. And I don't mean that in a distasteful or disrespectful way at all. You are WAAAAAY too much into her business. With friends like you, that poor girl doesn't need any enemies.
Don't be distasteful and disrespectful in response?





You need to learn that it's inappropriate to post silly, shallow questions like this in MEN'S HEALTH!!





Obviously this belongs in relationships, dating or whatever.





You need to learn what is appropriate.
1. 220 is approx double 117, not triple


2. how does he treat her?


3. how does she feel being with him?


4. if 2 and 3 answers are ';good';, then why are you being suberficial and caring about his size?





This is not attacking you, it is pointing some things out. Good luck.
wow, you're retarded, 220 pounds isn't really even fat for an average guy, and obviously you failed math class in that 220 isn't even double 117. Also, so you're saying he's a bad guy for buying her things and giving her money? What sense does that make?
why are you obsessing with your friend's relationship? if they are having a good time together and their relationship is okay, why question them?





or are you jealous with them? cause by the sound/look of your inquiry you are JEALOUS!!!
okay this is really mean your friend maybe likes this person for how he treats and cares for her and how amazing he is! its not all about the freaking looks... and your so disgusted of fat people?? i mean there only human.. as you say.. jeez
He is buying her affection with gifts and she is enjoying it and She is probably playing him for everything she can get from him. So, maybe they deserve each other.
you have to know that fat people also deserve to live love and be loved. Obesity is a disease not a crime.
If she really likes him and enjoys his company than you should just leave them be. They may be right for each other
why do u like her to be with ur ugly ***.
Wow, what a friend YOU are. Calling her a 'dumbass', saying 'he can't find better'(what is she, chopped liver'? is she the bottom of the barrel? she's not as good as other girls?). He's 'exploiting her by giving HER money'? hahahahah


Who are YOU to say who she can go with? I have a friend who stands 4'10'; and weighs 95 lbs. Her husband stood (yes, stood...he died) 5'11'; and weight 245 and he loved her and treated her like a queen. She is very attractive and always has been. They were very much in love until the day he died. She remained a widow for over 10 years before she even WANTED to see anyone else. Now the guy she's married to is kind of plain, drives a pick up, has shaggy hair and is 'just' a warehouse manager. Yet he loves her dearly.


Time for YOU to grow up and lose your shallowness. Time for HER to get a new friend, cause you're no friend talking about her like you did.


She has a guy and YOU don't! And YOU'RE a jealous little girl.



wow its people like you that make others self-conscious. so because hes fat, hes not worth her? by the way 220 is not fat. I know so many fat guys that have beatiful wives. Its not about looks its about personality and compatibility. O and your friend saying that he can go with any girl he wants is completely true. Any guy can get almost any girl if he treats her right. So no i dont think its a good idea to tell her she deserves better because shes happy and thats ALL that matters and you should be satisfied with that since she is your friend. No offense but stickin your nose in their relationship for no good reason is kinda rude.