Sunday, December 27, 2009

Mixed signals....guys please i need advice cuz i cant figure it out...?

anyways me %26amp;this guy have been dating 4 about 2 months %26amp;. He stillhasnt tried 2kiss me or anything. We've gone out only like 4 times but he calls me a lot to talk on the phone but says ';hes broke and he doesnt like to go out when hes broke'; he gives me mixed signals like yesterday we went to some club/bar %26amp;allhis friends were telling me that he likes me but he doesnt even show it 2 me, i guess he told my friend hes just not an affectionate person. So finally i got him 2dance %26amp;i kissed him on his cheek %26amp;he was acting like all wierd %26amp;i was the one that made the first move to kiss him on the lips. I asked him why he hadnt tried to kiss me cuz most guys try to get into my pants the first date %26amp;he said he didnt want 2make me feel uncomfortable. I mean its one thing 2make a girl feel uncomfortable but i mean im 21 hes 25 i think its ok for us to have our first kiss atleast in a month = / %26amp;when i was kissing him i felt like he was hesitant %26amp; didnt want 2 kiss me back. whats up with this guy?Mixed signals....guys please i need advice cuz i cant figure it out...?
you must make him happy...any way you can...


try making the first move...or get him drunkMixed signals....guys please i need advice cuz i cant figure it out...?
he's probably gay
Just because he says he's not shy doesn't mean he's not shy. There are only three possible options.





1. He's shy. But you've been a little aggressive which is good. Get him out of his shell.





2. He's gay. You're screwed. (Or, I guess not screwed.)





3. He's not in to you. But, he really seems like he is. Maybe he's confused?





Either way, him saying that he didn't want to make you feel uncomfortable is BS. Clearly, you're uncomfortable that he hasn't tried and he knows that. So, it's something on his end and you need to flush it out.
Its possible he may be a virgin, gay, or just see you as a friend. Just give him some space and see what he does.
He is shy and probably not that ';experienced';.

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