Thursday, December 31, 2009

Can you guys give me some advice please?

i met her online, about 8 months ago. she is single and i do know that for a fact, she still has pics of her ex(who she dated for sometime) on her fb and its nothing too risque. she also really close to her family, so i don't expect her to cut off ties with them. but she says they argue a lot and it makes me really upset. when she tells me this i just say ';oh'; and try to change the subject. i do have feelings for her, but we have only met in person once and that was a month after we started talking. so that led me to believe that she wanted to only be friends. but she tells me that she wants to fix me dinner one day and one time we were joking around about having kids and i said i'd rather adopt one. she said i'll support you 100%. so i am so confused. i want to tell her that i feel some type of way about her, but i just don't know where her mind is.Can you guys give me some advice please?
The two of you should probably meet each in other face-to-face in public at least a few more times before you decide whether or not to pursue a serious relationship with her.





Let her know that you want to be friends with her, and you're there for her if she needs you. Then go from there. If she wants to talk to you about her family problems (or any other issues she has going on in her life), let her talk to you about them, and comfort her as best you can. Also, encourage her to live her life to the fullest and follow her own dreams. If she continues to support your goals in life, and comforts you when you're feeling down and out, then you'll know she cares about you as well.





If the two of you remain good friends with each other, that's great. If your friendship develops into a serious romance, that's even better. But if your relationship with her fizzles out, then at least you'll know that she wasn't your ';Ms. Right,'; and you can focus on finding the woman who is.





Good luck, my friend!Can you guys give me some advice please?
nothing ventured, nothing gained. take the risk.
If you ever decide to meet this person, make sure it is in a very public place.
Life is hard.

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