Guys I need your advice please!!!?

My boyfriend and I are in a long distance relationship, as of fairly recently, he is still in college, and I have graduated. We DO have plans to move in together. I have to finish the summer, where I work, but I have a job set up where he lives and in the process of getting an apartment. Lately there has been some tension though. Let me start of by saying he has had a rough couple months, his mother died, a month ago, he is switching universities... and so on. Anyway, the trouble I am having is that I am really good friends with his friends and this was not a problem until recently. One of his friends, who is gay, talks to me a lot he calls a lot and we gossip and stuff like that. The other night his friend had called and we were talking. I had asked if my boyfriend was back yet because he had been out all day. Well, when his friend saw him he said that Kate said hi! This really thru my bf for a loop for some reason. He text me and told me he was tired of me always talking to his ...Guys I need your advice please!!!?
I think you guys may not be ready for a live-together relationship. Maturity issues, I would say.Guys I need your advice please!!!?
I don't think you need to back off any I think you need to talk to your bf more than you do his friends. He probably thinks that you are more intereseted in them than you are his issues, and that is making him edgy, and emotional.
I would say stress is a big factor. It may just need some time and space but let him know how much you care for him and that u are always there for him.
i think u should explain to him everything like u did here...n tell him that u love him to much to flirt wit his friends (if dats true), n make sure he listens...
leave his friends alone. he probably thinks that you are smothering him. long distance relationships rarely ever work out. plus he sounds like he is seeing someone else...
I would maybe level with his friends, let em know whats goin on, then back off. I know i get pretty jealous, so maybe its better to just cool the jets for a while
My fiance lost his dad 3 months ago and he gets very mad for nothing so its just normal.. Patience
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Whow, can you say ';control freak';?? Sheesh, he needs to loosen up, or you need to loose him!





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Relationships move on with mutual trust. The guy must trust you that you will not act in a way that could destroy the relationship.


Unfortunately, from your description, this doesn't seem to be the case. Perhaps we can attribute this to his recent bad days, but to be more honest, the type of behavior he is exhibiting my not be caused by his domestic issues.


I would recommend you to have a one-to-one meeting with him as soon as possible and try to sort it out. But don't beg him to stay. If things don't go on as you like them to go, then its time to move on...

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