GIRLS/GUYS/ i need yout advice on Relationship from your experience?

Last month after being together for 11 mos, my GF broke up w/ me. First 7-8 mos we were extremely in love, etc. Last 2/3 I became clingy/somehwat possessive and wanted all her time. Ultimately she told me she lost attraction for me and broke up. ( I know I was wrong). Last week we decided to work things out and have been hanging out, taking it slow with good results, no fighting. here is the issue, I know she loves sex and so do I. Counting the break up and last few months of our relationship we haven't had sex in 3 months. We kiss, cuddle, etc. Last night we were planning on it, but: she was tired, and then when I kinda pushed her for us to be intimate, she said she doesnt know if she feels attracted to me and doesnt feel that ';umph';. It has nothing to do with looks since I havent changed, but she wants to get back in love with me, or at least try. I dont know what to do. I need/want intimacy between us, otherwise I feel like we are together without sex. how do i get her wanting sexGIRLS/GUYS/ i need yout advice on Relationship from your experience?
right now you shouldn't think about sex at all give that girl some time dudeGIRLS/GUYS/ i need yout advice on Relationship from your experience?
You must NEVER pressure a woman, EVER! If you feel you can't be with a woman and not be in a sexual relationship with her, you need counseling! If she doesn't feel attracted to you anymore, then so be it. If you pressure her, she'll only resent you more and NEVER want to even have you as a friend, let alone have sex with you ever again.





It sounds like you have a LOT of growing up to do and that you need to learn to respect women in general before you get another girlfriend. Relationships are NOT all about sex and intimacy, they're about RESPECT - for her and for yourself. I would lose attraction to someone who was holding me captive, too!
Give yourselves time to reflect. Maybe she is testing you to see where your thinking is in terms of the relationship. Look if you back off for a few weeks you may see better results.


Here is an idea that will help you, but you must have self control first to get close again. Men think about sex every two seconds Women don't. Stop pushing her. Because in her mind your turning her off, and she thinks that's all you want so her sex drive for you is very low, you have to change your approach, because your way is not working at all.


Take her out on a date, DO NOT TALK ABOUT SEX AT ALL!! You will keep pushing her away if you do, hold her hand, express your love, and hug her tight, then take her home give her a kiss say you love her and take yourself home. Just be attentive and listen. GL
I would ease up %26amp; give her some space. It sounds like you being clingy is what drove her away, so take things slow if you want to win her back %26amp; just enjoy being with her for now. You should also consider having a talk when the dust settles %26amp; asking her what is going on %26amp; why she hasnt been in the mood in 3 months, it sounds like something more serious is going on with her, I would talk to her about it.
first off, respect her. If she doesn't want to have sex then take that as a no. but at the same time express your feelings, talk, work things out. if she wants to go slow then let her.
just throwing it out there, try spicing it up a little bit, be spontaneous, rather than 'planning' to have sex. it sounds like she isnt as interested in just having sex with you.


maybe try some role play or something like that.