Guys i need your advice?

ok, now i have a bf ive been dating for a while. im 29 so is he.... my marriage had ended cause he would supposebly work late.. now my bf works w/ dep of homeland security.... he gets out at 2am...but in my mind i feel he gets out earlier and goes out and parties for about 2 hrs.... (his sched is from 4-12am, but its mandatory to work 20hrs over time every pay period....) i really dont think he would lie to me, but from my previous experience i feel this.. now deep down in my hear(like the say a womens intuition) i dont feel hes doing bad, but my mind is going 1000/mph...help... he says he truly cares for me and wouldnt be w/me if he didnt want to be commited but im scared..help...Guys i need your advice?
I think you should relax, trust him, and be ready when he comes home at 2.00am.





He may be ready for bed about the time you get up.





Sounds perfect timing for a bit of playtime!Guys i need your advice?
maybe it's the old feelings of being lie to coming through,idk if you don't think anything bad is happening can you trust your instincts .But if you don't trust him ask find out, you sound a little insecure from your past experience I don't mean that in a nasty way It happens a lot,the next relationship can suffer from the past.
well talk to him about it. but make sure he isn't tired after a long days work. anything you talk to him about a relationship after work will just seem like nagging. so when he is well rested explain to him that you are jealous(a big turn on for guys). if that doesnt work tell him you can make it very appealing for him to be home at night =). just communicate with him- it should work out, dont worry
tell him to ge another job or find a partner who works normal hours,you can't have a normal relationship with some1 who has different work ethics,just accept it and stop thinking about it or get some1 else.
what is this doing in men's health. it should be in singles and dating
Lola,


Why are you looking for answers here? This is a trust issue between you %26amp; your bf. You don't trust him. That may be understandable due to you past experience with your husband, or you may have some specific reason not to trust him that you're not willing to say in this forum? Either way, it's an issue you both need to work out if you're going to have any sort of relationship.


My advice is to get to know him. This person. Judge him on his own actions %26amp; merits. And don't let the sins of another in your past color your future.


All the best.