GUYS- TRANSLATION PLEASE!!!!? MALE ADVICE?? I would really appreciate it....?

THIS QUESTION IS LONG SO IF YOU DON'T HAVE THE MATURITY TO READ IT THE DON'T WASTE MY TIME ANSWERING IT.





I'm a Junior in high school.


it all started in the 8th grade...


I was with my friends and he was with his. I turned around and he was staring at me. I've never had eye contact like that before. it's really hard to explain but I'll try. it was almost like he was seeing through me and it truly felt like everyone and everything else had disappeared for a couple of seconds only because we were so focused on each other. we stared at each other back and forth for at least an hour, both of us too nervous to make a move. my friend and I left and I didn't think much of the whole thing. I was one of those flirty, social kind of girls so it was just fun for me.





next time I saw him was grade 9 at high school. I turned around and he was staring at me. I didn't have any classes with him but he would stare at me every time I saw him in the hallway and look away when I looked back. sometimes I would act like I didn't notice just to see how long he would stare. I found out his name from a friend of mine. I asked her about him and she said he was smart and told me about a presentation that he had done about anti depressants. he said that his mom had hyper thyroidism and was on the pills. my mom had hyper thyrodism too. really ironic things would happen...like we never had any classes together but we just so happen to pass each other in a big high school with over 2,000 people a couple times a day for two years. there's a twist in the story though...I had changed a lot since he first saw me. I was struggling with depression and had became very antisocial, careless about making friends and my school work, and rude; the exact opposite of how I was when he first saw me.


the whole staring thing went on from around winter time to the end of the year.





Over the summer I thought 'okay, this guy doesn't even know me. there's no way he still likes me.'


first day of school of my sophmore year. I was looking at my schedule. I looked up and he was staring at me. I wasn't so much depressed at this point but I had become very shy because I wasn't used to talking to people. we have an advisory period where they take attendence and coincidentally mine was right next to his. I was recruited to be in a group that a couple of his close friends are in. we both just so happen to have the same english class the same period right across the hall from each other and it seemed like we would always end up in the hallway at the same time near each other. he would always stare at me every time he saw me. this deep, penetrating stare that I've never had before. all of these coincidences and we had never even spoken to each other before.


I'm a Junior now and every time he sees me he acts like I'm not there. there were a couple of times when he was looking at me and he thought I didn't notice but my attitude is just ';whatever. take it or leave it'; I don't know if he just gave up or felt like I rejected him but I guess it doesn't really matter now and what is meant to be will be.





I was leaving class (his class is right next to mine) and talking to one of my friends. I noticed when he came out he was looking at me but I'm not sure if he was listening. coincidentally when I started walking like 3 or 4 of his friends were next to me and in front of me and he was behind me. he was cussing like every other word. lol seriously. I turned to look at him and he just stopped talking and it got really quiet. I turned around and kept walking and he went back to his cussing.





I was wondering if it meant anything that it got so quiet and that he stopped? or why did his friends look at me when I was walking between them?


I appreciate it if you've made it this far!!GUYS- TRANSLATION PLEASE!!!!? MALE ADVICE?? I would really appreciate it....?
i didnt read your story but you seem like a person who thinks someone has a crush on them (i can tell by your last paragraph) and they stopped talking to you. well... heres my advice i give everyone.


1) calm down


2) wait


3) let him come to you


or


1) calm down


2) ask him out!!!GUYS- TRANSLATION PLEASE!!!!? MALE ADVICE?? I would really appreciate it....?
He prolly didn't think you heard him when he was cussing, and was just being a gentleman when u turned around (or he wanted ur attention)





he 100% without a doubt likes you!


just start by saying hi to him
Wow, I wondered what happens when I don't talk to a girl I like for two or three years.
It seems like he was just like he was really just thinking ';Umm can I help you. Sorry thats what i think. And if that was me i'd prob do the same thing. You should definatly talk to him though...what like 4 years of staring at eachother?
well usually i might do that to see if she is noticing and yea im pretty sure he is into you and his friends are to lol ....... or he might be trying to be a funny guy in front of his friends find him alone without his friends and see what he does
It seems that he really likes you, but he doesn't have the courage to ask you out or talk to you, or he thinks your hot. Either way i think he likes you and you should talk to him
I'm not a man, im a girl but i think i know whats happening. when i would ask my teacher to go to the bathroom or get a drink i would see this boy that i kinda liked out in the hall. he would stare at me constantly, then he would follow me back to my class and then go to his class. sometimes he would talk to me or hug me, it was kinda scary. but a couple of weeks later he was walking with his friends and i dropped my books and he stared at me and then he stared and his friends are like omg they have something weird going on. then they left and the bell rang and hes just staring at me. then i picked up my books and he walked away. whatever is going on is probably that he used to like you or he has gotten over something or maybe something sparkled about your personaility.
well he might like you but is trying to figure you out maybe impress you so if you want to find out you might as well ask get to know him better and see where it all goes
Well im kinda younger than u but i guese im still a guy. Well im pretty sure he likes u if u guys see eachother that much and it must that he has some kind of attraction to u. U should try talking to him and small talk and start making a freindship. But first u have to know wether u like him or not and deside what u think. Its a gut insticinct that only u know and i feel the same way about this girl i know.
maybe he liked you but didn't feel that you liked him so he just got mad and was telling his friends (who ever he was talking to while he was cussing) about how he liked you n stuff and how you seen each other everyday but you never talked to him or something like that.





or he liked you and still does and he didn't want you to see him as an a** hole so he tried to hide that he was cussing every other word in one of his conversations or maybe it is a combination of the both.





im not exactly sure i just seen that you had no other answers and figured that i would try to help.





i hope it helped a little bit..
Honestly I think that he really likes you, but doesnt think that you'll give him the time of day. I'd also be willing to bet that he'd open up and talk more if you would let him know that its okay to say something. I know it may seem odd but its okay for girls to make the first move sometimes. This seems to be an ongoing thing. U said it started around what? 3 years ago? So maybe smile the next time u all lock eyes (thats if ure interested) or arrange for ur one or some of ur friends to let some of his friends know in a discrete way how u feel. I think he has a big crush, but is afraid of rejection