I'm too big, she won't let us do it anymore! I need advice from chicks & guys on wat to do?

ok so look say wtvr you want, but my gf says im too big. I try to be careful adn so slow so i hurt her less, but it gets hard towards the end and I just have to go for it.





we have a great relationship otherwise, but she really can't walk afterwards, and she hates it now. she told me yesterday, after we did it, that she can't keep this up and it's too painful.





I spoke with our school's health teacher about this before and she said there really isn't anything I could do except just try to be more careful. And i try, but i just get to into it and after a while i have to just pound in.





this isnt a joke, and someone will suggest to cut it off and other crap, but I need to know from other girls how they dealed with this, or guys and how they dealed with this!





How can I have fun, and keep from hurting her so much?I'm too big, she won't let us do it anymore! I need advice from chicks %26amp; guys on wat to do?
I had this problem with my husband, there's only so much I can tell you if your anatomical differences are just too different.





make sure she is really aroused before you even start. i mean really aroused, lube helps out alot.





If it's a length issue, as in you're ramming into her cervix, she might be able to move in order to accomodate you better. missionary's a good start, but see if she could get on top and see if it works better that way. You'll never be able to do doggy style, but you can do ';froggy'; style, where she lies on her stomache, legs closed and you come from behind.





if nothing works, she might need to get checked out by her OBGYN, and I hate to bring this up, but if she was ever abused sexually in the past and never got treatment for this... it could create problems like this.





good luck, i hope you find something that works or find some solution to the problem.I'm too big, she won't let us do it anymore! I need advice from chicks %26amp; guys on wat to do?
Hate to say it but you may not be able to until maybe after she's had a kid.Men and women come in all sizes and would seem you 2 aren't size compatible.
LUBE IT UP!!
Then don't go all the way in... problem solved
Either learn better control, get used to abstinence, or find a girlfriend who can handle you.





You don't ';have to pound in';...you choose to. I realize that feels good to you, but it's agony for her....if you can't control yourself then I don't blame her for not wanting to get screwed by someone who puts his hormones ahead of her physical pleasure.





If it hurts her it hurts her...more lube and her relaxing may help some, but if you both aren't at least 18 you have no business having sex anyway.
well if she likes it slow go slow duh . and shell like the fact ur big when she starts to like sex . You should make her like it by either rubbing on ur ceilt the rightt wayy so shell bust and like sex more or sex really close so ur stomach and her ceilt rubbs against each other and she bust shell start to love sex or she can be on top so she can go not* up and down but like in and out and her ceilt will make her bust rubbing on ur stomach and she can control how fast .