Girls, guys, anybody. i need advice. i miss her, but what does she mean by this and what does she really want?

Okay, so we ';broke up'; 3 weeks and it wasn't even that serious of a relationship but and it was really weird because i was trying to get over her, and so i avoided her and it was like that for 2 weeks . we were talking on Thursday and she said that she wasn't over me before but now she is, but i think she does still have some feelings left for me. And i told her that i missed her and i wanted her back and she said that she couldn't say yes right now. its just that she never knows what she wants and she is so flaky, and she was upset that i didn't do anything to try to get her back before, and she said she didn't want me to wait for her because she didn't want me to be disappointed in case nothing happened again, and i told her that i wasn't okay with just being friends because i know i will deep down always have feelings for her and that i thought avoiding contact with her would help me get over her, but it didn't. so Friday i tried to talk to her casually, and well she barely made eye contact, and when i waited for her after class she bolted past me, and then she was walking fast on purpose. i called her on Saturday because i needed to know if i still have a chance with her and she said yea but not right now, followed by her telling me i need to say the right things. and how i don't act like i like her and all...what should i say?..then before she had to go i told her i was sorry for acting like a jerk and ignoring/avoiding her and how that was immature of me. i mean i want her back but maybe she just wants the attention, since she said i am not acting like i like her. and today she got these highlights so you know i complimented her. so that could be it too. i really need adviceGirls, guys, anybody. i need advice. i miss her, but what does she mean by this and what does she really want?
I would say give her time. I think, by the way you've described things, you've given her plenty of hints that you want her back, and you even flat out told her so. It's just how everyone says, give her time and if she really cares, next time you talk to her (and maybe reveal your feelings again) she'll say yes. Maybe you should try something subtle too? Instead of just telling her, you could do little stuff for her, to show her you really care.


Just know that if you try talking to her again about your feelings, and she refuses, ask her why she can't, but don't try to show her your feelings again. Like I said, you've given her plenty of time and chances to accept.


And yeah, call her but wait a day or two. Good luck, by the way :)

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