My bf and I have been together for about 2 years, it's been on and off because I have moved away and then gone back but unconsciously we've never really let go. I'm going back for good in about 2 weeks and we have been apart for 1 month this time but he has been acting weird.
Like hes not himself, he says hes just blocking emotions and that he doesnt want to talk about us until I get back. Hes just acting weird and then I thought he didnt love me anymore but tday we talked on the phone and first he said...I like your voice and thanks for calling...stuff like that and hes been just plain weird...could it be that hes hurt from not having me and refuses to feel anything? what could be happening?
What should I do, kind of back off for the couple of weeks and wait for him to contact me? like give him a chance to miss me? maybe not send him emails or anything for a week? to see how he reacts? I just want him to realize that misses me and hes just blocking every single emotion..he's just like idk I just dont care about anything right now..I havent even taken a shower in 3 days..idk whats happening to me...
I started talking about us by accident and he said ah now your annoying me is that what u want? its like he refuses to talk about anything until I go..idk its just weird.
I told him...can u please go back to the real u? and he said but help me
idk what could possibly be happening with him?
I mean he doesnt even want us to say I love you..idk Ok guys need some serious advice please...?
By you leaving he probably thinks you don't love him. You have to reassure him if you want him. If you do then stick around and let him know it. If not then move on, but don't be on again off again, everybody gets tired of that eventually.
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