I need some advice i am bisexual and i'm a christian but i what to be Straight but i still have feelings4 guys?

What does you being a christian have to do anything? you are who you are plain and simple. You can't choose to be gay, straight or what ever, it may sound ';odd'; but it's true being a homosexual or what ever sexuality Is defined as being in love with some one emotionally rather then physically and you are unable to choose your emotions. If you actually believe you would go to hell for being bi then your skrewed then 'cos you will only being lying to yourself as a person if you chose to sleep with another man. Personally I think Christianity is a contradiction to itself, and for many reasons on this subject: 1. if god created everything, then why create something he hates? 2. if god created us out of himself then why would he hate gays? since gayness is apart of him. Now I don't want to turn my answer into anything that preaches that Christianity is wrong but all I can say is. You're bisexual and there's nothing you can do to change that, you can lie to yourself all you want but it wont change anything except it will make you unhappy. I suggest just live life, that is what Christianity tells you to do am I not correct?I need some advice i am bisexual and i'm a christian but i what to be Straight but i still have feelings4 guys?
Everybody is born bisexual to some degree including you!


Most people choose their most dominant desire side, some deny their least dominant side, even to themselves!


Some, for social and/or family reasons, try to go with the least dominant side but end up having to admit reality!


Everybody is, and should be treated as socially equal, whatever their gender or sexual orientation, religion has absolutely nothing to do with it.


You are, and will remain bisexual, whether you indulge your desires is entirely up to you.


If you deny your options for pleasure who will you be pleasing? Nobody!I need some advice i am bisexual and i'm a christian but i what to be Straight but i still have feelings4 guys?
hi aaron.





Your sexuality confuses me as i am a straight guy, homosexuals I can understand, but bi sexuals i find to be perplexing.


what do you want to do, what are your feelings towards god and his teachings as you say you are christian, do you see my point, i'm sorry son you have got to have a long hard look at yourself before seeking answers from people, seek an answer from yourself





Good luck
Here's the thing - you're not going to change who you are. Attempting to do this will mean you are living a lie.





However, you can decide whether or not to act on those feelings. By this I mean you can acknowledge them, but not act on them.